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oh k well..i never kissed a guy before and im in 9th(i know) and like this kid it 11th and he always wants me to go over and i wanna go im just a little nervous cause i dont wanna mess up with him tho.. ya know?

~confuesd

haha wow.. thats weird cause im in 9th and my first actual kiss was with an 11th grader i liked and still do.. i know how you get nervous.. but trust me its not bad at all.. if you know you can trust him go over his house.. let him take the lead in making out, and after the first time, it comes so naturally and its fun.

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im really sorry if this is long, but i dont want to have my first kiss just for pleasure from the guy..13/f.
this guy that is pretty new, but he has gone out with a few girls already in the beginning of school and he said that he just wants to find the "right" one.
he (we will call him "tyler")well tyler was talking to one of his friends about how hot he thinks i'am and his friend asked me out for him, but tyler dint want him to, he just thought i was hot and so i was really confused.
and i talked to him on AIM and he told me about the sitution and he said that he would want to get to know me, and we can go out later
then he ask me if we were going out we i "do stuff" and he said like kiss n stuff. so i told him if i really like the guy and he said "exactly" and he is know for just wanting a girl friend to make out with. I have never really had a conversation with him in person, only on the computer.
so my question is should i go out with him when he asks me and let him kiss me? because i am ready for my first kiss, but i wanted a outlooker's view of the situation that maybe he is just a player. so thanks, i will rate 5's for good advice.

well to me, he somewhat sounds like a player. in my opinion, if you just like him a little bit go on ahead and kiss him. if your gonna end up going crazy about this guy, dont kiss him cause he might break ur heart. i always wanted my first kiss to be special.. i waited til i was 14, but then i just thought, im not gonna wait for mr.perfect to come along to give my first kiss to. and i kissed someone completely random who i barely knew. and i dont regret it, im only 14! have fun, and do whatever YOU want to

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does anyone know how to get rid of love handles =/

lots of running and side crunches

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How would you/What's the best way respond to that question?

depends on how you feel for that person.. you can either say "going out" "just friends" "friends with benefits" and so on.. ask him/her where they want to stand at

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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX

I dont think thats wrong at all.. especially since your a girl dating a younger guy. I'm not saying it'd be wrong if it was a guy dating a younger girl, but most guys do that just to get some ass. good luck with your boyfriend

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Okay so i have been talking to this girl for a really long time and she wanted to hangout really bad so she came over one night. I flirted with her a lot and we had sex. And i know this girl likes me A LOTT. but the thing is i dont like her at all and i tottaly led her on by having sex with her so how do i make it as easy as i can on her without dating her?

wow that was dumb.. girls are real sensitive, you gotta be careful. dont lead her on anymore, that will only hurt her more. tell her your real sorry and that you dont know what you were doing and that youd like to be friends with her. shell get over it eventually.. goodluck

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hi i need help im not spposted 2 date untill im like 20 !! so shud i date behind my parents bac????

well first id talk to my parents about it, tell them youll be responsible and try working something out with them. dont say things like, "everyone my age dates!".. talk in calm tones and dont flip out if you dont get your way. if none of this works.. id probably date behind my parents back :-P

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ok about what age/grade do boys start to get attracted to girls and start to think more about going out or being boyfriend and girlfriend?

probably around 5th or 6th grade.. or atleast thats when i did

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k.. i really love this kid john, he loves me alot too. but hes going away for 2 nd a half weeks, he said he was gonna ask me out in augest the begniging (sp). should i wait for him to ask me out? or should i just TRY to get over him?

i rate high. =)

x.O.x. c.o.n.f.u.s.e.d x.O.x

why does he have to wait to ask you out? if you really love him then wait for him, theres really no point in trying to get over him

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i kinda have a crush on two guys and both of them like me.. and i hang out with both of thema nd flirt with them. and my friends tld them both i like them and i feel like i'm leading them both on. they're two entirely different people too, but i'm attracted to both of them,eve though i don't realy know them. what should i do?

well you should lead both of them on like that, you should either pick one, or dump them both. its all going to backfire if youkeep leading them on.

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I ounce went out with this girl, but then she dumped me. I still like this girl but i dont know if she even likes me the littlist, i cant figure out if i should ask her out or just get over her.

she dumped you.. so get over it and have fun.. maybe once she sees how happy you are without her shell want you back

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i watited on the gurl cause every 1 told me to wait 4 the gurl and she ended up going out with some 1 else so do i keep on waiting on her??? to get to know her or just forget her cause sh takena nd i wont know when she breaks up

psh forget her she doesnt deserve your time.. go out and have some fun

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would you continue to hook up with someone when they just want to have fun and not settle down but your getting real feelings for them?

do you think you would try to continue to have fun (because the guy and i had a lot of fun kissing) and try to keep the mindset of no emotions..just friends? what would you do?

alright the guy probably doesnt have true feelings for you if he only wants to hook up.. if i knew i wouldnt get too involved with this guy, and expect so much from him, id keep having fun with him. theres really no harm. but if your developing feelings for him, its best to stay away before you end up with a broken heart. dont expect him to have all his attention on you even though yinz are hooking up. he could be flirting and kissing other girls, and if your ok with that, then thats fine.

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there is this girl.. n everytime some1 likes a guy.. she somehow takes him from the girl.. n she is doing it to me this time.. and I don't wanna let that happen! cause I realllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy like him and I have for a while.. what can I do to stop her?

dear God, there is this girl who is EXACTLY like that. she thinks shes perfect and flirts with every guy in sight, even girl's boyfriends. i know you like this guy, and if this guy likes you shes not gonna be able to take him from you. make sure your with him more than she is, and flirt with him ALOT. if this guy chooses her, hes not worth it.

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ok I know I know I am totally screwed probably and I know I messed up big time but please dont tell me that over and ove...but ok I was raped last week and I didnt tell anyone yet...I cant im scared i dont now why but i feel like its my fault cuz it was my bf and Im the one who went out with him...so ya i know im screwed cuz the evidence is probably gone but I really need help on how to tell someone so thats why I came here..plz help!!
thanks

you didnt mess up, and its not your fault. it is not your fault that your boyfriend made you have sex with him. you do not deserve this. most girls who are raped don't tell anyone, but you dont understand, you have to. who is the person you can talk to anything about? just tell them you need to talk to them. and then straight out say I was raped. this guy needs to go to jail. you can be saving so many other girls who could get raped by him by going to the police. good luck, and please tell somebody

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Anyone know any really good *love/depressing* songs? Ones that will either make you *think* or *cry*. Thank-you mucho.

I LOVE LOVE/DEPRESSING SONGS!
all cried out-allure
we can't be friends-deborah cox
what hurts the most-monica
everytime you go away- brian mcknight
never again-justin timberlake
6,8,12 - brian mcknight
whiskey lullaby- brad paisley
cant let it go- mario winans
im tryin- omarion
911-wyclef jean and mary j blige
cupid-112
^these songs are super sad

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i havent got my period yet and i want to try on a tampon to c wat it feels like and my friend said u can like get a disease or sumthing??
so i was wundering cen i try on a tampon??

sure except its going to be hard to get out. tampons come out easily when they are wet, and since yours would be dry, well your gonna have some trouble there. Unless you take it out while sitting in the bathtub.

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Okay... my old friend constantly had boyfriends but I know I am prettier than her...and people have told me that but I can't seem to get a boyfriend. All the guys just want to have sex but not be in a relationship with me. I am 17 and have never been in a relationship. I know I can get a boyfriend but they all want to just have sex. Is there something wrong with me?

yes, you are obviously conceited. just because you think your are "prettier" than your friend some guys are able to see past beauty. i find it unlucky for you, because it is hard for guys to see past your "pretty" looks. maybe once they see you, they want to have sex with you without getting to know you better. this is the same thing wiht my friend who has big boobs. every guy always talks about her boobs, but they never say anything about her good personality, or how pretty she is. so you just have to look harder for a guy

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my birhtday is in 8 days and i cant decided to have a big party or just hang out with a few friends my back yard isnt to big and i dont no where else i could do it....should i just have a few fiends or just a little party like 20 30 poeple?

20-30 people!!! get crazyyy!

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thers this guy hes a year older than i am but he is veryHOT! He suposdly likes me, but whenever i'm around him he is either totally sweet, or making innapropriate comments twodards me. I sometimes like it, but lately its gotten a little more personal. ive asked him to stop, and he does...for a little while, then its right back to the way it was. Like i said, he is soooooo hot, and i like him, and want to have a "GOOd" time with him, but i don;t know what to do. HELP ME PLEASE

most guys do that.. they make fun of people and make dumb comments to be funny. tell him if he wants to hook up with you, then hes going to have to stop these inappropriate comments. and then you can have a good time with him. :)

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