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Female, 5'7"
I am not really comfortable with my height, because all my friends are around 5'3-4", and I feel like a giant. Anwyays, I weigh about 152 lbs. Im pretty atheltic, and my arms are "big" because of the sports I play, as well as my legs, and you can clearly see the definition in my calf's. I dont think im REALLY fat, but is this too much.. should I lose some weight???

Don't feel uncomfortable! Must people would consider being that tall is lucky. It's better than being short. If you are that uncomfortable with your weight then loose some. Go on a healthy diet just eat a lot of vegtables and fruits. Drink a lot of water. Excersise is also a really good idea, like jog around or near your neighborhood every other day. It will help. Just stay active.:)

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i just got some stuff in for my chi straightener and it's called 44 iron guard. it i supposed to protect your hair from thermal crap. and i was wandering how was the best way to use it. I looked on the directions but it's in spanish cus i got it from my step grandma who speaks spanish.

I have it too. You are supposed to either apply it to dry hair, or apply it to slightly damp hair. I usually use it when my hair is wet just because I think it generally works better like that. And if you are afraid of breakage and you have really weak hair then i suggest letting your hair air dry the night before you go to school (or whereever you need to go the next morning) so it reduces the breakage. :)

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ok so im using zapzyt for my acne. and i love it! its actually better then everything ive ever used before. but the bad thing about it is that it peels my face/skin alot. so i put lotion is that bad?. if it is bad then what can i do to stop the peeling?
thanks in advance

My face peels sometimes to but thats just dead skin. or dryness but either way its not bad for you. and if you put lotion on it, it might cause break outs. So I would try using oil free lotion. There is some from loreal that you can buy in walmart walgreens HEB cvs.. pretty much any grocery or pharmacy. Hope I helped.

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ok before i work out i want to do some warm ups and then when im done working out i want to cool down

do you know what warm ups i should do and how long they are supposed to last?
same with cool downs

thankss


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okay i like both these boys but one is black and im white and so is my family im all for colored people but not so much my family i kinda like this kid but not totallywhat do i do

HONESLTY, who cares what your parents think.! I mean if you like the guy, why does it matter what color skin he has! There's nothing stopping you.! Go for it. Hope I helped.

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well im F/14 and i masturbate constantly. It feels really good but it makes me feel really guilty. Should I stop or is it normal?

Well I think a lot of people do it. I dont but because well I really dont know haha. I guess I don't think of it.? Do it every once in a while just not constantly.. =] But if you feel guilty then I suggest not doing it.! Hope I helped.

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i'm pretty tall & i have a hard time findingg good jeans.
all my jeans end up getting pretty baggy & stretch out. i want them to be tight & long & sorta flare [ but not be like totally hippy bellbottoms haha ]. but i really cant find any jeans that are like.. under 40$ maybe? that fit this description.

i'm 14/f, 5'6'' inches tall, jean size: [ i think ] juniors 3Long

where can i find good jeanss? =/
thanks!

I dont know if this is a store in a mall near you, but this is A GREAT STORE to find good and cute fitting jeans if you want them kind of non-loose. Go to Bui-yah-kah. I think you will like it. Their jeans are usually around $35.00.

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How do i exactly play hard to get? But i still dont want him to think that i dont like him anymore. cause then he might think i lost total interest. :] Thanks

Play hard to get, means to make him want you. Don't go for him let him go for you. Flaunt it! hehe. Flirt with him but do not sound desperate, smile, laugh and have a good time! Be careful.


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hii

i have really bad hereditary dark circles and nothing seems to be working.

i heard that cucumber juice (the only thing i haven't tried, although i've tried cucmber slices) is really good for getting rid of dark circles.

why? what does cucumber juice do? how long will it take to remove really bad (so bad it goes to the side, and on top of my eyelids up to my eyebrows!) dark circles?

thanks!

Cucumbers CAN get rid of dark circles(but thats if you have a very light case of it) but since its hereditary for you than it would be used for soothing your eyes maybe causing less stress. It could possibely reduce the dark circles. You know in the movies when people get facials? Well they put cumcumbers on their eyes. And the purpose of that and the facials is to relax your face. Try doing a facial+cucumber.=D

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What kind of foods can I eat,
to keep my skin clear?

I normally have pretty clear skin,
and dont get acne or pimpes,
maybe the occasional zit, but hardly ever.

But what foods are good for your skin,
and can make your face glow :)?

I dont have the clearest skin ever. But if i break out what is best for it is grapefruit, salads, celery, a lot of fruit, and greens. Also there are calcium vitamins or just or grapefruit or grape seed vitamins, its good for skin hair and nails, my friend told me about that.=D

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i need help on finding a place to get a cute 8th grade graduation dress..i have a petite figure with litte boob and a small butt??
please help me !!!

Well with your figure i would try a dress, something like this. It's cute and cheap.

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=235985&CategoryID=22063&LinkType=EverGreen

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Im a 13 yr. old girl and i like this boy and he used to like me but, i waited to long and now he has a girlfriend!! But i really like him ALOT!! he told me that he likes me but i guess not enough to brake up with his g/f. What should I do?????

It's not fair to his girlfriend to do this, but give him the hint that you really like him. Kind of flirt with him in a quite way. WHATEVER YOU DO, do not encourage the relationship. Like saying Aw yall are so cute! and stuff like that. Be flirtacious and maybe he will leave his girlfriend for you. =D
hope I helped.

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i feel like im getting sick, probably just a cold or something. my throat is sore and my nose is a little runny and thats usually what happens first when i get a cold. its not allergies because i take allergy medicine daily. is there anything i can do to avoid this before it comes full on? or do i have to wait it out?

I use Airborne. It is this tablet thing that looks like a tum but you put it in your water and it disolves after 30 seconds. It tastes like sprite and it strengthens your amune system, help preventing from getting sick.

Hope I helped!

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my dog is thorwing up bright red blood what is the problem

wow.i honestely have no idea but he might have ate something poisoness or maybe a poisoness animal bit it? but i defentely think you should take it to the vet becuase that isn't normal. :]

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is it normal for a puppy, to eat its own wastes,(poop)?

hahah yeah i think so :]

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When i've worn tampons, and i go to change it ill take it out and when i go to put another one in it hurts because its dry i guess. What can i do?

Use something that will help it glide better that wont effect you in a bad way. Like use vasaline to make it easier.=]


Hope I helped

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well i dont know if you read my last question, but it was about my dad and i thought he was cheating on my mom. he says he wasnt cheating but addmits he has been talking/texting/hanging out with someone else. what the f%#$?!?! is that not cheating? anyways, thats not the problem. well, my parents talked and YES they are getting a divorce for, like, the 3rd time. w/e. the trouble is, when i didnt know my dad was cheating, i really didnt like my mmom much. she gets on my last freaking nerve and streses me out, but im not going to get into that. i had just told my dad that if they DID get divorced, i wanted to live with HIM.

now i dont know. because i mean when i talked to my mom about the whole cheating thing, she seemed like she couldnt live without having custody of me. but they my dad talked to me for the first time since my parents decided they were getting divorced, and he said, "well yeah we're getting divorced.."yatta yatta yatta..."but i need to know who you are going to live with because if you are going to live with me,which you said a while back you would, im not going to buy a house out of this school district. but if you ARENt going to live with me, then i can." and i said i didnt know. because he asked me right on the spot. then he started tearing up and walked out. and i guess i kinda want to live with him but I CANT SEE HOW HE COULD EVER DO ANYTING LIKE THAT TO MY MOM. and i dont know how i can leave my mom now that she told me she could live with out having custody of me and my little sister. but i know she will make me CRAZY and STRESSED OUT if i go live with her. and also my dad has never had custody of me. i used to just see him wednesday and thursdays. but if i live with my dad, ill hardly ever see him because he workd like 24/7. and if he does end up going out with someone else, i could live with HER. id end up like killing her self conciously. oh my lord. please help me. this is this WORST position to be in.


thank you so much.
xoxox (:
ps. sorry its so long. ):

oh my goodness. well i personally think you should live with your mom.

1) She really wants custody of you, which means she cares about you and she doesn't want you to get hurt.

2)Being a protective and strict mom can get stressful but it really benefits you in the end.

3) She wasn't the one who made the mistake by doing that, so i think she deserves to have you.

4) Probably the only reason she is stressing out is because of the situation she is in. (i would be too)

5) You will be able to see your mom much more than you would be able to see your dad since he works "24.7"


I hope I helped and good luck. I'm sorry this happened.=[



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ok i have this so called guy friend who likes my good friend, my friend knew that he has a crush on her and he knows it too
and him and i always talk about her and i always listen and trying to help him out and he said this to me after my friend told me to tell him:
"friend": she said she likes someone ?
me : yeah
"friend": : ic...
me : yeah
me: ey no meeting in the library for a while
me : cause people are being UGh
me: so annoying
"friend": : well theres no need to talk to you anymore
me: as in?
"friend": : i only talk to you cause of her...
me: icic
me: umm ok then
"friend": : nice knowin you
and he signed out so was he using me?

yeah it looks like he did. But guys can be fags like that. there is only one guy i know that i can honeslty trust. AHHH im soo sorry but that has happened to me before and girls do it too =( it sucks.

Hope you feel better! =D

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what does play hard to get means? is it like leading someone on?

It means. FLAUNT IT GIRL!!!! jk but it really does ;] like dont go after him, such as aasking him out or making a move on him. MAKE HIM WANT YOU. thats what guys like best.=D


Hope I helped. ♥

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I like this seionor and i think he likes me because he always stares at me and also smiles at me what does this mean does he like me or is he just being wierd?

he likes you.=D Smile back at him. maybe wave, and most likely, he will eventually make a move on you. Like saying hey or asking whats up. Make sure he knows your interested by your body language. Just dont look to desperate.


Hope I helped.=D

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