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hey, i'm 13/f and weigh 95.. Ive been wanting to lose weight because im really skinny but my theighs and butt are really big. So I started not eating wendy's/mcdonalds/burger king/soda/desserts.. I've been doing that for about a month and I havent lost any weight, so I started exercising daily after every meal. I did that for about 2 weeks.. and still, I didnt lose any weight. Should I just go back to eating everything I normally would because eating healthy isnt doing anything and exercising isnt doing anything and I want to keep my metabolism high! what do I do? (link)
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You're 13 and your growing. You're supposed to go through the stage where you have to grow into your body. Though it's hard to believe that diet and excersise have not worked. I don't know why you would want to lose weight because you seem healthy!
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Okay I met an older guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out with friends. We exchanged numbers and he tried calling once... but now that I am changing phones and don't currently have one we don't talk as often. There are a few things he hasn't been telling me.. like court dates and why he still has his old number from a different state..and wants me to bring new friends. Should I plan to meet him or forget about him? (link)
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I would sooo forget about him. This guy seems like a real creep and is only afer one thing. I would not meet for I think he is dangerous!! Get help immediatley!
Good luck and if you ever need help with anything please feel free to come to me anytime
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hi my name is jess im 13 and there is this kid who stalks me. He callc be 10 times or even somtimes he wont give up until i pick up. Then when i go into the grove (which is a place everyone hangs out) he follows me around and it scares me. What can i do to get him away from me?
Plz Help Me!!!!! (link)
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If this kid is scaring you then you should go to an adult you trust and tell them everything that is going on. Don't be afraid.Thought I would really tell somebody and then let them handle it.
Good luck and if you ever need help with anything please feel free to come to me anytime
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I have these red bumps all over my legs. They are concentrated on and around my knees and at the tops of my thighs. They're almost like pimples and I've used lots of soaps and cleaners to try to get rid of them, but nothing is working!!! Does anyone knows anything to get rid of these? Whether its a product you buy in the store or some home remedy or w/e... I don't care... Thanks soo much! (link)
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They are legpimples. I've had them before. I went to the dermetoligist (can't spell sorry0 and they gave me this mild soap called Xanilria. It works like a charm!
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How do i find a person's email adress without askinhg someone?
Like is there a website?
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hmm I don't think there is a website....why wouldn't you just want to ask someone?
Good luck and if you need help with anything else please feel free to come to me with anything
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**a three?? well sory but then you should put that the person moved. how was i to know?!
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I'm 15/f and I've had a boyfriend for about a week who has been my best friend for a while. My problem is that he's been trying too hard to become close with my friends. I know that sounds stupid, but I just don't want his relationship with them to be as close as his relationship with me. I like that he's a separate part of my life than my friends are and I really just want it to stay that way. I'm just used to my friends stealing my close friendships away and I don't want that to happen with him. Am I being too paranoid? How exactly do I tell him how I feel? (link)
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I don't think you're being that paranoid but maybe just a little. He is your boyfriend so obviously he likes YOU, if he's going out with YOU. Myabe he just knows how much your friends mean to you and want to be friends with them to. But say exactly what you just said. That you like that he's a serpeate part of your life. If he likes, he'll listen!
Good luck and if you need help with anything else please feel free to come to me anytime.
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I've had terrible luck in love lately. I haven't found any guy who meets my standards (which aren't extreme, just funny, sweet, smart, etc.) I've been thinking a lot about my former crushes and boyfriends, and I thought of this guy, "Josh". Josh and I were friends & hung out a lot last summer. We sort-of dated for probably a month, but then after school started, we drifted apart because we were at 2 different schools (he's a year younger than me). Thing is, I really miss him and I think I'm in love with him. He's been on my mind so much lately, and it's driving me crazy because I never see him anymore! What am I supposed to do? (link)
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I used to have a boyfriend is was one year younger than me and when the time came when he had to go to another school i was heart broken. We drifted so much apart and then he cheated on me! I then decided that it's just not going to work out so I broke up wth him. I think that you should tell him that you miss him whenever you get to talk to him and that you love him! Then if he feels the same way make plans to get together. Meet at the mall, the park, go over each others houses. It can be hard. Trust me I know.
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okay. i am very deperate for help right now so any advice you give me i will rate you a five.
i have a very hard time admitting this. but my dad is in fact an alcoholic. he is always in denial, meaning that he doesnt think he has a problem and gets mad when you confront him in any way about his drinking. me and my mom are the only people aware of this in my imediate family. my little siblings haven't a clue. my mom has threatened divorce even though she does not mean it, just to make him stop. it is an embarrasing thing and he is very selfish. i feel like i am babysitting him all the time to make sure he isnt sneaking in the garage or the side of the house. i need help confronting him, like i need to really hit him hard this time to make him think twice about doing it again.
another thing, i recently found a few bags of marijuana that belong to him that he gets from a friend at work i am assuming.... my mom does not know about this, and i am too scared to tell her because then i definately see divorce in the future. my sister and brother would be devastated, and i probably would too i mean he is my father and i love him. what do i do about the marijuana situation?
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You just need to say 'dad I don't care how much you get mad and I don't care id you don't reply but you have a problem. you need help. you're hurting our family." and just telling him everything. you NEED!!! to tell your mom about the marijuana because you don't want your siblings coming across it. it can harm your family and your mom or the police needs to know about...
please keep me posted and GOOD LUCK!
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desperate for help.
okay. i am very deperate for help right now so any advice you give me i will rate you a five.
i have a very hard time admitting this. but my dad is in fact an alcoholic. he is always in denial, meaning that he doesnt think he has a problem and gets mad when you confront him in any way about his drinking. me and my mom are the only people aware of this in my imediate family. my little siblings haven't a clue. my mom has threatened divorce even though she does not mean it, just to make him stop. it is an embarrasing thing and he is very selfish. i feel like i am babysitting him all the time to make sure he isnt sneaking in the garage or the side of the house. i need help confronting him, like i need to really hit him hard this time to make him think twice about doing it again.
another thing, i recently found a few bags of marijuana that belong to him that he gets from a friend at work i am assuming.... my mom does not know about this, and i am too scared to tell her because then i definately see divorce in the future. my sister and brother would be devastated, and i probably would too i mean he is my father and i love him. what do i do about the marijuana situation?
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ok this is a really werid question but i need to know i am alomst 14 and my period is REALLLY late i am really scared cause this has never happend befor i have never had sex so i have nothing to worrry about right??? is this normal is it going to be ok??? (link)
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I don't know if everything is okay but you are NOT pregnant because you have not had sex. I suggest going to your doctor and talking things out with them and have them do tests. Don't worry. GOOD LUCK!
If you need help with anything else..feel free to come to me anytime!
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I hate my mom so much(yeah hate).Today is my b-day and she is still treating me like a pice of shit.Sometimes I think she is not even my mom because she dosent look a thing like me.She makes me so mad where it gets to the point that i start crying and my brother is the one who makes me feel better.Sometimes i wish i could just get away from her.And she is always in my busness.One time i almost tryed to kill myself cause of her.I realy couldnt handle it by then.my brother had to stop me when i was trying to kill myself.Can you plese give me advice on how to not get my temper that high just because of her?
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Well, my mom is always up in my business too but that doesn't mean i hate her! yes i know that moms can get on your nerves sometimes but it's only because they love you. It might not seem like it but it's true. Also, why not just tell your mom that she was treating you bad on your birthday?? Why cruse her out instead of expressing how you feel. (NICELY SHE IS STILL YOUR MOTHER!) Next time she gets on your nerves just breathe and talk things out. You'll find you'll get along much better!
If you need help with anything else..feel free to come to me anytime!
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Ok, well I give out alot advice my self, but I am unable to think of anything. My story is this: My friend is real big in acting. She does charity plays for small children. She is now pressuring me into going to a summer acting class but I can't go. I have to be free to watch my younger siblings. I want to go, but i also have my responsibility. I've talked to my mom and she says its completely up to me, but I don't know which to choose. If I decide to say no to the class how should I tell her with out hurting her feelings?
Thanks & Sorry if its a little long!
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If you are realling into acting then do it! I've done these things and they are such agreat oppotunities. But don't do it only because your friend is doing it. Do it it becaus you want to and have a passion for the arts. Otherwise you will be wasting a lot of people time. And if your freind is also really serious about acting, she'll go with or without you!
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well, i'm really big on acting, and I really want to audition for commercials, etc. The problem is, I dont know where to find auditions for such things. Does anybody know a site or number I could go to or call..that isnt a scam! thanks in advance! (link)
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That's the thing. You can't trust what you look up on websites or even T.V what i sugget (and this is what i did) get an agent and he will do all the searching for you. he knows what;s a sam and what isn't.
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i went to my grandmas house yesterday and went swiiming and to get a tna ok when i first went in her apartment complex there were 3 guys i didnt really look or pay attention to them.. but then be4 i went to get tan i had to get something from my moms car and we i went up one of them was like hey andout of kindness i said hi back then when i was walkin to the pool air he came back up to me and was like do you see my friend over there he like you and wants to go out with you..i was like i dont know you and i dont know your firned he was like so he can get your number and talkn to you and get to know you and you guys can hang out. i wasnt wantin to talk a lot bc my mom was watchin all of this but she didnt know anything he said.on purpose will i was tryin to take off my clothes they throw there ball in water and wanted me to go and get it the basically wouldnt let me get a tan. my question is what am i supposed to do? i mean i would like it for the guy that likes me to come up to me and talk to me but he is too scared..he wasnt ugly i mean he had a really nice body. i was goin to go up to him but my mom was there so i was thinkin when i go back to my grandmas house what should i do? even if i dont go out wit the guy i can at least be his friend..can someone please give me some advice about what to say or do.. (link)
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I don't think you should get to know this boy. You don't know him and he could be dangerous. It doen't matter if you 'get to know him" on the phone. What happens what you two meet and hang out just you two and he hurts you. I would not persue this.! Think about it!
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I got involved with this guy at a camp i was at... and we love each other a lot.. but he lives 4 hours away from me.. We are both devastated by this... But what i want to know, is how am I supposed to keep this relationship going when, I rarely will see him.. maybe at the most 3 times a year... ... Help, I'm heartbroken. (link)
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That's hard when you live 4 hours away. You can' have a relationship over the phone and internet. I suggest getting over him, moving on and realizing it was just a summer crush.
If you need help with anything else..feel free to come to me anytime!
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Im an eighteen year old female who hasn't had even close to a boyfriend since I was fifteen. I'm not bad looking, so that's not the case.. But I really just don't know why I'm not meeting anyone, or at least when I do meet someone I'm interested in, they are usually not really interested in me. I'm just really lonely I guess. Whenever I get close to a guy, it just ends up that we become really good friends, and I turn into his shrink on girl problems..hah pretty sad.. I'm not looking for tips on picking up guys lol that's not it. I'm just looking for feedback from guys/girls in the same situations or have been in the same situation, and their thoughts. Thanks =]
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I've been in the same situation so I know how you feel. I don't really know what you're asking though. I've never had a boyfriend and Im 15. I know that's still young but every girl wants a cute boy to hold and love and have them love you back. If you need to talk I'm here k?
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I need to be more outgoing. I really want to be able to go up to people and just talk to them. I want to have more confidence. How do i do so? I keep missing my chances to meet new guys. (link)
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You cant just change yourself.. you can't be quiet the next day and then be a loud peson the next. It's not about being outgoing that gets you to meet new people it's about being yourself.
Good luck and just put yourself out there
If you need help with anything else..feel free to come to me anytime!
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alright i cut...and i told my friend and now he's started cutting. ive told him to stop but he keeps saying that i shouldnt be telling him to stop when i do it too. and he is right. but im really afriad for him, but i cant tell him to stop when i do it too. how can i convice him to stop? (link)
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I think what you need to do first before you tell your friend what to do is to stop cutting yourself. I know it's an addiction but it is not good and you need help!!! Then you need to get your friend help to. You can really hurt yourself. And if I find out who this is I might report you...this is serious!
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i know the law of the difference of age in dating is but morally what should be the biggest gapin age of a relationship--a serious one (link)
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I don't think that a man of 20 years should be dating a girl who is 15 or 16 for that matter. I think the age that they have set now is good.
Goddluck and feel free to come to me if you need anymore help with anything
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Okay- so my boyfriend is away in Florida and I miss him so much. I just need help on some things I can do when he gets back and like some things that I can send in his mail to him! Quotes... Poems... anything.. .thanks I RATE HIGH (link)
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aww. I would send him cute little cars from card stores that say "I miss you" you know..the ones with the ute dog faces on them. Or make him his own card and write your own poem. It'll be a chance for you to show off your creative side for your boyfriend!
Goddluck and feel free to come to me if you need anymore help with anything
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well i met my best friend cici this year and we were like unseperatable and we always had the best times together. but there was this girl who doesnt like me and never really did and she was my cicis friend. her name was emily. everytime i went to talk to cici emily would like roll her eyes. and if she was talking to cici at that time and i went up she would leave or say something and interupt. emily was always trying to be best friends with cici and now they are best friends! and cici like whenever we are together she tells me that we should hang out more cause she misses me and its all emilys fault that we never hang out cause she always wants to do sometime with cici. and cici is like tired of her cause she is constently trying to get her attention. what do i do. do i tell cici that i miss her and im tired of emily always trying to take her away or what?
im sorry this is long but i need help i really do. (link)
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I went through this with a girl named Brittant who used to get always get mad when I hung out with my best friend Kelly. I solved it by telling Brittany that Kelly can hang out with whoever she wants. This is what you should tell Emily. And tell cici that you miss her and want to hang out with her too!
Goddluck and feel free to come to me if you need anymore help with anything
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