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best friends no more =(
well i met my best friend cici this year and we were like unseperatable and we always had the best times together. but there was this girl who doesnt like me and never really did and she was my cicis friend. her name was emily. everytime i went to talk to cici emily would like roll her eyes. and if she was talking to cici at that time and i went up she would leave or say something and interupt. emily was always trying to be best friends with cici and now they are best friends! and cici like whenever we are together she tells me that we should hang out more cause she misses me and its all emilys fault that we never hang out cause she always wants to do sometime with cici. and cici is like tired of her cause she is constently trying to get her attention. what do i do. do i tell cici that i miss her and im tired of emily always trying to take her away or what?
im sorry this is long but i need help i really do.
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sounds like you have the right idea, there. you need to tell cici exactly how you feel! (btw..make sure emily isnt around..lol) and if cici is tired of emily..then now is the time to tell her! hope i helped!
~Candace
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I went through this with a girl named Brittant who used to get always get mad when I hung out with my best friend Kelly. I solved it by telling Brittany that Kelly can hang out with whoever she wants. This is what you should tell Emily. And tell cici that you miss her and want to hang out with her too!
Goddluck and feel free to come to me if you need anymore help with anything
I hope I helped you!
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i think you most deffinitley should talk to cici.
afterall, if she has been expressing to you how much she misses hanging out with you and how this girl emily is getting on her nerves, then obviously she is not as happy having emily as her best friend.
it sounds like you and cici have a really great friendship, and you dont want this to be ruined on a girl who would love nothing more then for your friendship with cici to be destroyed.
by giving into this, you're giving emily exactly what she wants.
but you should talk to cici. trust me. i was in a similar situation and i was so crushed by it that i just didn't do anything about it and now me and my old best friend havn't talked in about a year. if i had said something sooner we would probably still be friends. so you should really talk to her before it becomes too late.
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yeah you should and say somthing to this emily gurl, or tell cici to if she is so sick of her to
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this happends all the time. i think that you should go up to emily and try to talk to her. tell her that you two should try to at least get along becuase you both like cici. tell her that cici is your best friend and you dont want to loose her. then if she is still like that, talk to cici. tell her that you want to still hang out with her but you dont think that emily ever lets you. dont get all mad at her though, because then she wont listen.
hope this works out for you,
leah
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Wow. It sounds like this Emily girl is not a good person. You should definitely talk to Cici and tell her that you do miss hanging out with her but you do not feel comfortable when Emily is around because she is very rude to you. If Cici is a true friend, she will understand and respect the way you feel. Tell her that you will always be there for her, if she chooses Emily over you, and that you are sorry things had to end that way. However, if she is a good friend and wants to hang out with you more just arrange times to hang out when Emily is not around. Also, stand up for yourself the next time Emily interrupts you and say "Excuse me, I was talking." Put her in her place, do not let her be rude to you anymore. You might also want to confront Emily and ask her "What have I ever done to you, that could make you act so rude towards me." Anyway, yes definitely talk to your friend and tell her that miss her and you want to continue being friends. Do not let this Emily girl break the bond that you and Cici have. Goodluck
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