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Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided? (link)
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whatever you do, do it confidently. if you're confident enough, even if you make the "wrong" decision, it will seem daring and classy.
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ok I have very thick hair a few inches past my shoulder..and I am starting to wash it alot more so it won't be frizzy..soo now I always have to do something to it or it will be REALLY big and poofy..well I can't blow dry my hair straight..it takes forever and it never works..so I got all those straightening poducts..but they're all for when you blow dry your hair straight..when you don't..it just makes it not frizzy ya know? I straighten it alot but to make it look good it takes SOOO long and I dont have the time and it's really bad for your hair..can't get it chemically cuz thats bad too and I got it once and it messed up..so any tips to help? (link)
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use the strongest holding gel you can find, and apply all over barely-damp hair after showering, running your hands pressed together along your hair to press it in. not only will it eliminate frizz, but it will flatten out your hair over all, plus give you that just-out-of-the-shower look. tres sexy.
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well, for halloween my friends and i all wanted to be fairys together, just for the fun of it. the thing is, i really don't have that much $ so i m trying to make a costume. does anyone have any ideas on how i could put this all together? just so you know, i suck at sewing. lol. but if its an easy pattern, i can probably do it. thanx a bunch!~i rate. (link)
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i did that once. it's fairly easy, just go to a craft store and head straight for the feathers section. get a soft colored sweater, like white or light pink, a matching skirt, and some white tights. hot-glue the feathers around the bottom seams of the skirt, your wrists, and your neck. if you don't have access to hot glue, you can even staple.
you can get some ballerina slippers at dear old wal-mart for very cheap, or just wear the slippers you already have.
as for the wings, just try a fairly small store like walgreens and look around the costume section. not hard at all. good luck.
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What's the best fall style's this year? I've been shopping at American Eagle, and Maurices. I heard Gadzooks is a good place. What else?
I'm also trying to impress my crush. xD (link)
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you're not going to impress him with a brand printed across your chest.
just go to the mall, and walk into any store that sells clothes, regardless of the brand. the odds are better that you'll find something no one else has in a not-so-popular store, and what are the odds that he'll be impressed by seeing you in something that nine girls at your school already own.
mauve is a really hot color right now, and one way i know of to look super hot without too much hassle is to buy a corset [frederick's, about $40 for an alright one, nothing fancy], pull it as tight as you can while still being comfortable, and wear a close-fitting sweater over it, soft and long sleeved, preferably a turtleneck and a neutral hue, like dark or light gray. the combination of the youthful soft fabric, the cutesy turtleneck, and the noticable curves caused by the corset below will certainly impress him.
also, it seems old-fashioned, but pick up some good nylons at your local department store with a line going down the back of each leg. very sexy. wear them with a miniskirt [the nylons help you keep warm] and some good boots, and voila, tres sexy, and you'll stand out in the crowd. couple this with the corset/sweater style, and you'll be sure to catch his [and other guys'] attention.
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Well iive had my screen name for a while and i was wonderin if anyone had any good ideas for a screen name! ok here are my interests
im girly
i like pink
my name is bryttnii
my nicknames are brittzee and britty or brytt
if u can just give me a list of cute s/ns thanx! (link)
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your interests are "girly," "pink," and your name and nicknames? wow..
again, just wow.
how about typicalpinkgirlthing ?
or is that too long?
okay, then, let's see...
justmebryttnii
is your name seriously bryttnii? because if so, that is fairly effed.
how about something that is original and has nothing to do with pink, girly, or your name!
no, wait, that's just CRAZY TALK!
look, you've gone and made me sad. bad britynitneiniininiiiiiiiiizzzz.
[because excessive z's make you look cool! hooray!]
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Hey, well I go to a Church and we are having some problems getting more people come to our youth group. My brother asked me to figure out some stuff girls can do at youth group. Because the guys always play sports and the girls dont like it so we dont play and were bored. So what are some of the stuff girls can do? I thought about cooking..like making a quick snack for all of us but thats all I have. If you can help me with more ideas I'd appreciate it. And if you go to youth group at a church, what are some of the stuff you do? Thanks so much and I rate all 5's!
xo_sherry_ox (link)
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what do sports teach you about god? if you're going to waste your time going to a "youth group," don't be a pansy about it. i mean, wow. just wow.
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what do you girls use to get rid of pimples/acne, to wash ur face, lotion, what kind of foundation/cover-up/concealer? ps ... i dont have to much money and i would love to have clear skin by halloween! thanks gurlies! (link)
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i've never had acne, personally, but for some reason i always tell people to drink plenty of milk. i really have no reason to see a connection, but my skin has always been fairly clear, and i drink more milk than anyone i know.
plus, milk is good for you, so just drink it.
anything clean & clear is really good. personally, i use the nighttime moisturizer, because it smells very nice and tingles.
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ok well i dated this chick and we dated for 3 months thas my longest relationship and she was my first love and well she left me for her ex bf but lately shes been callin me a bunch and flirtin w/ me and actin like were datin again and i dont know wut to do, should i keep this up and see wut happens or should i do sumthin cuz i dont want to be the "other guy" and it kinda looks like thas wuts gonna happen (link)
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girls are stupid. go gay.
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Ever since I was LiL I would masterbate. Im not addicted to it I just do It once in a while but I remember doing it when I was 5!!(of course I didnt know what I was doing at 5 but all I knew was that it felt good and that I was going to do it) I was caught a lot when I was little and I remember one time my mom asked me if it felt good and she was really dissapointed in me. And I hated myself for it because every 5 year old wants their parents to be proud of them. But now I know what I'm doing and I havent been caught in like 5 years(im 14) Is there something wrong with me? Is it not normal to start sooo early? (link)
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babies as young as one year old are known to rub themselves in their private areas, simply because it feels good. i wouldn't worry too much about it.
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my mom won't let me get a thong...she's says im too young but she won't by one for me and i dun wanna get one behind her back...how do i convince her to let me have one? (link)
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why bother? thongs are stupid. get boyshorts. they seem more innocent, but are actually much naughtier, in that they enhance and suggest, rather than let it all hang out like trailer trash.
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Well im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together for 14 months and our love for each other is stronger than you could ever believe. Around our 11 month anniversary we lost our virginity to each other. I honestly don't regret it but im starting to believe that we are too young. I love him more than anything and it scares me how much i love him sometimes. Do you think we are too young to have this kind of relationship ? (link)
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if you're questioning it, then it's likely that you aren't yet mentally mature enough to be able to handle it.
then again, if the love is as strong as you say, there's nary an age at which you would be able to handle it calmly. there are certain loves that are so strong they can scare you.
i personally don't think age has anything to do with it. it's all about mental maturity. i know plenty of adults who are less mature than most of my friends - though i should mention that i'm dreadfully picky when it comes to those i befriend in the first place.
just be careful. i had a love that sounded rather similar when i was even a bit younger than you, and it hurt terribly. was it worth it? of course. we had sex, and i have never regretted it. if you love someone that strongly, with all of yourself, and you're responsible, you should live every day as though it's going to be the last one of your relationship. hold on to it as tight as you can, darling, because if it's as strong as you claim, and you lose it, you will never stop regretting letting him go.
i know. it's been years, and i still cry. just be careful.
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Hi, I am only 14 years old and I have been dating my boy friend for about 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. We hang out all the time, so as you can imagine, sometimes it gets a little boring and I want to do sexual stuff really bad, but I fear I am too young. How much would be appropriate for some on my age? Please, don't give me the "What ever you feel like is right" because if I knew what was right, I wouldn't be asking. Thanks so much! (link)
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well, if you haven't kissed already, you should certainly do that. feeling each other up over the clothes is always a good idea. you seem mature, and if you're certain you love him and vice-versa, go for it. if you're craving it, then it's obvious that you don't have major disinclinations.
i had sex when i was fourteen, and have never regretted it. we truly loved each other, and talked and made the decision.
you seem ready for it. but is he? talk to him about it. a sexy, yet clean way to go about it is, when you're alone, to watch his reaction carefully and slowly move to touch him more intimately. ask constantly, "is this okay?" with basically every move, and mention, "i don't want to make you uncomfortable or rush anything, and i'm not suggesting we have sex, but i want you to know that i am ready for a little more intimacy, if you are."
you may even want to start with phone sex, if you haven't already. it is a completely safe way for each of you to slowly learn about the other's sexuality. just stay up late talking to him, quietly, and steer the conversation toward sex.
the most important thing is to be completely open and honest with him. try and take things in order, i.e., first base, second, third, manual, oral, etc. allow the both of you about a month to fully experience each step of intimacy. the slow buildup not only allows for further feelings of intimacy when/if the time comes, but also allows you both to go slowly, and do what you're comfortable with.
there is so much to learn, and if you go about smartly, with a smart boy, this could well be one of the best experiences of your life.
i would be happy to advise you further, if you like. my e-mail address is ppcrn@hotmail.com
au revoir, and good luck.
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what is wrong with being a lesbian i mean everyone is always making a big deal what is it? (link)
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nothing's wrong with being a lesbian, but a post like this seems like a thing to get attention.
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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you really love him, and yet don't want to have sex with him? that's strange.
well, if you're not ready, wait. duh.
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well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
Signed,
VIrgin GIrl (link)
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eat a lot. chubby girls are hot.
and wait till you're confident. you're friends are crazy, ditch them. the right guy is the most important thing, and if they tease you for your morals, tell them to go swallow sperm and stop oppressing you.
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Well I know this is kinda sick and all but im gonna ask neways..when I shave down there its gets all red like a rash and then sometimes it bleed and i really dont know what to do.. (link)
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yes, stop shaving. it's unnecessarily messy and boring. every guy i've ever been out with has confided that he was quite glad i didn't shave - much more so those who had only been with girls who shaved previously.
the truth is, even if you never shave, the female's netherregion has much less hair than the male one. most of my ex's didn't even believe me when i told them i had never trimmed or anything. male pubic hair tends to grow dreadful-long - pretty much all guys trim it about monthly - so no matter what, if you go natural, it won't seem masculine. unless you're extremely hairy, in which case, you should simply trim.
a lot of guys find pubic hair on girls to be something of a novelty as well. you can't form a pubic mohawk with soap in the shower with a hairless puss, now, can you?
ahh, pubic mohawks.
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I've been goin out with this guy for about a year now. We both really like each other and I believe it could be love (I'm 18)... we've talked about having sex, we're both virgins and he told me he's ready to have sex with me and wouldn't push me if I wasn't (and he hasn't pushed me at all)... but I don't really know if I am or aren't... so how can I tell for sure if I'm ready?! (link)
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if you're not certain, then you're not ready. just try some foreplay and see if you become more interested in the prospect. if not, don't.
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One of my very good friends is 14 and she is having sex with her boy friend. I don't think it's right, but who am I to judge. I highly doubt that they'll stay together and she say she likes it a lot... Do you think it's a little slutty of her? And should I tell her I think they should stop? Help me... please! Thanks! much (link)
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it depends upon your friend's maturity level. if she's an immature little brat, then it's slutty of her and you should encourage her to stop. however, if she's one of the most mature people you know, i wouldn't worry one bit about what she does.
i had sex with my boyfriend at 14 and we stayed together for over a year. i matured incredibly quickly [mentally, not physically], and was very, very in love with the boy. he, too, was notably mature for his age, and we were very precautious about the whole affair.
if you suspect she's doing it simply for the physical sensation or attention, then it's the wrong reasons and you should make it known. however, if you think that she is genuinely mature enough to know what love is at her age - and it IS possible; if you think it's not, it's likely because you yourself weren't NEAR mature enough at that age, and everyone is not you - then don't worry your little head about her.
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okay i was thinking about getting a tattoo( a little one somewhere) and i wanted to know the best place to put it other than lower back for girls. i know someday i want to have a baby, so i dont want to put it where it's going to get all stretched out. also, what should i get and do guys think its attractive for a girl to have tattoos? (link)
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a little tattoo somewhere. don't. that's such a wh0rish trend, little butterflies and stupid hearts etched into a girl's lower back so you can see it when they're wearing their adorable little low-rise jeans, or in the front around the hipbone, so they have to pull down their pants demi-seductively to show it to people.
most guys i know think tattoos are disgusting, and those who don't are generally disagreeable guys. i mean, porn addicts and pathetic "hardasses". do yourself a favor and spend the money on an expensive manicure instead, or a massage. you'll feel better for it, and look MUCH better than you would with ink etchings. it doesn't matter what people get, one day you will be old, and it will look trashy. i guarantee it.
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Ok im like alaways masturbatingwith my self! yes im a girl! no bf either what do I do?
*Unknown sender* (link)
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i think everyone goes through this period at some point. it's a time of self-exploration et cetera, and not only okay, but i would recommend it.
you learn a lot about yourself through masturbation, and it is the best way to learn about your sexuality. i used to be nearly addicted to masturbation, i recall, and at quite a young age, too. i was about twelve, i believe... i would do it approximately seven times a day, whenever i was home alone. it was pretty crazy, but it faded as time went by, and it will for you, too.
don't worry about a boyfriend. you know what you like better than he ever could, anyway. ;)
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