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Some times your periods can be irregular and can sometimes be really early or late! Dont worry it will pass and start again dont worry about it.
roxie

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ok i am 13 female and i haven't gotten my period yet! i was wondering if masturbating has something to do with it? because i masturbate about 4 times a month its just that i am scared because i havent goten my period at all yet. please help me if you can.
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Hi your only 13! Some people start at different times and your only young still! Its got nothing to do with masturbating, just wait and it will happen and by the way periods arnt good you no! the are annoying and sometimes painful.
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ok, why do people not understand that you cant get over a guy so fast! i mean all my friends tell me to get over this guy! but i cant! n thn they say im dumb! WTF?!

OMg what kind of friends are there! If you love someone that much and you have broke up with him of course it will take a while! If your friends are going to be like that then stuff them find some more friends.
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im lookin for sites that have dolls and other graphics. i mean like uniques, preps and glitter images. if you know ne gud sites let me know please.thanx

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Go on to coolbuddys.com
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hi im 13 yrs old and i just strted my period about a day ago and im having troblewith all this new crap..... does anyone ave any suggestions on wat i should use and wat r good products a could use...... thxs.....i need adive fast!!!

Well when you first day most girls feel comfortable wearing pads. and then maybe when you have had your period a couple of times try tampons so you'll have more confidence.
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My friend can be so bossy and mean sometimes and she gets mad at m for everything i hate it. We've known eachother since first grade so i dont want to ruin our friendship what should i do?

well if shes your friend she should understand you. Just say sometimes you get a little bossy and mean and it makes you unhappy!
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I slept over my friends house the other night and I slept in one of the two beds she has in her room. so that was okay and then a couple of days later she told me that she went to 3rd base with this guy i know in that bed. so I was wondering if I can catch anything from just sleeping in that bed

hey no dont worry you cant catch anything from that bed! But id be mad at my friend for letting me just sleep in that bed if i was you.
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What is an approiate age to have sex? I'm 15/F but I want to wait until I'm married. Is that the best time?

There is really no right age! Most people know when there ready its a feeling they get that they are ready to have sex. For me i think the right age is 15 16 but some people lose it much early that that.
luvv roxie
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what does it mean to hook up?

They have a couple of meanings but the most is for example: bob hooks up with babs something like that
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is it ok to make out with a retainer will it be any differnt do you think the guy will notice?

yeah dont worry its fine to make out with a retainer in. No its no different guys are oblivious so he probs wont no.
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is jacking off alot bad for getting boners

No its not! dont worry.
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My bff is hanging out with this one girl that I hate and I feel really sad and I need to get over this. Help.

Just tell your friend that you dont really like the girl she is hanging out with and that you miss talking and spending time with her she should understand. If she doesnt maybe look for some more friends.
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okay so i have this livejournal but it's really boring and i don't know how to use any overrides to make it look pretty or anything. can someone please explain what i need to do to put a background picture on it and make my entries [not the background pic] only move when you scroll?
i'd really appreciate it
i rate.

why dont you use a different online diary try www.myspace.com or www.xanga.com
roxie

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what is the code to put music on ur website?? (myspace) ill ratee!!

try www.videocodes.com
they have some and you just copy the writing into your my space.
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its my first time ever getting my period...but it comes one day & then the next it doesn't come then the next day it does..so basically its a every other day thing...is that normal??? please help asappppp

HEY! dont worry about its normal! when a girl first starts its usually all over and doesnt keep upto it and its irregular. Dont worry about it for your next couple of periods it might be like that but it does stop and then you can plot when your going to be on so it will be easyer.
roxie

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ok, im 13, and i don't no what to do, i want to start to wear makeup but i kind of don't, i mean if i do, how will i tell my mom ,and if i don't when do i start?

Hey! Just sit her down and tell her! she should understand your getting older and your wanted to wear make up and do your own thing. But dont wear to much makeup because you have to remember that makeup covers up your natural beauty.
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Would it be possible if a 14 yearold boy would like a 12 year old girl? She's sorta developed for her age. Or is it a waste of time?

Friend wanted to know

hey its no problem at all. he might like her try it.
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is there anything wrong with being a guy and listing to britney spears.

HEY! No there is nothing wrong with guys who listen to her music. There is loads of guys who like britney spears and have her cds, poster and by the magazines that shes on.
dont worry about it
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hey my friend seems like she wants to have all the friends i have so she is trying to take them away and is saying that i cant be some ones friend because that person doesnt like her should i still be her friend if i am not she will make my life a living hell!!!!

HEY! she might just want to have some more friends she might feel left out and want to be your friend and friends with your friends. You cant control your mates if they want to be friends with someone they you should be ok with it. Because no matter what they arnt going to ditch you if there already good friends with you.
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