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Q: hi, i need help. I have so much trouble paying attention. If Im very interested its easier but with some things i try so hard to stay focused but i just end up getting spaced out. I also have trouble absorbing information. Like when i read its like im not really reading... like theres a wall between my brain and the book. I get spaced out when i read... especially things i dont understand, like fantasy. I just failed my first test in high skool bcuz of it and it really sux what should i do?
thanx
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its very possible you have adhd... with this you can get medicine from a dr or just concentrate on on thing. if your watching tv and typing something for school turn off the tv and type... just do one thing at a time and also you have to force yourself to concentrate
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Q: ok i have this guy friend,john, well john knows A LOT about me and we've been friends since like may, or something but anyways, he knows things about me that my friends that i've had since headstart and kindergarten dont even know! and hes like really hot and he has a girl friend and all but me and him are REALLY good friends, and anyways, the other day in class the was i was standing i could look at him and he wouldnt know, but im pretty sure i seen him checking me out, i mean he like looked at me from head to toe.. and he knows i think hes cute and all. and then today i was talking to him about his girlfriend and i asked him if he thought they'd be together for awhile and hes just like "yeah a long time" and i was just like oh cuz that was not the answer i wanted to hear, but i didnt tell him that, and then i said something about him flirting with other girls {meaning me cuz he "flirtz" with me all the time}and hes like idont flirt with other people and i go yeah you do and i was like u can flirt with people and not realize it and hes like no i know when and who i flirt with and like im starting to think i have absoluetly no chance with him now.. i dont know..what do you think i should do? oh and this morning he said i should go to church with him sumtime!! PLZ HELP!!! im 14, female
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thats realy confusing but okays here we go! he seems like a total flirt. grr i hate that. you don't nessicaly have no chance with him... its just that the gf kinda hinder the chances... go to church with him and stay friends with him... you can stick until the gf then move in
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Q: Ok - my uncle hits on me at almost every family gathering. It really bothers me! I told my mom and she said she'd try to help me, but I still feel so uncomfortable around him. He's always staring at me and winking, and saying that I'm hot!
I'm just so uncomfortable ..
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o god i have a FEW uncles like that! ok well what i do is kinda stay away from them or tell them about a boy and let them think its a boyfriend! lol i always do that... they never noticed that i go back to exboyfriends all the time! but sometimes its like a joke if your the only teenage girl in your extended family like me. they know that your growing up and they know that you are maturing and they think that you have a love life so they make a deal about it... my uncles always ask if i have boyfriends.
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Q: Okay so i have these two best friends..and we`re all best friends. One of them changed completely just for her boyfriend and then when the other one pointed it out, the first one got pissed off and now they`re not friends anymore. Now, one of them deosnt care that theyre not friends anymore but the other one does, and she keeps telling me about how unhappy she is. Ugh, i have no idea what to do. I want them to be friends again, but i dont know wtf im supposed to do about it.
Sorry if this is long and confusing, but oh well.
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happens all the time! tell the one who doens;t care that you hate being in between the two. tell her how hard it is on you. they may not be friends again but hopefully they will able to be civil to each other!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Q: ok, well this is long so i'll rate good.
I'm going in 2 the 10th grade this year. Last year was not the greatest for me. I had some problems with relationships and i just wasnt happy, and my grades dropped. I'm not the prettiest grl at all, and i had sum people talk about me behind my back. This year though I just want things 2 b different. I want 2 make more friends and be well liked and pretty. i just dont no how. any advice?
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just make a new self! go into clubs and be nice to everyone! and also have confindence! that'll make you hott! lol good luck!
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Q: Ok, I need to buy another pair of shoes for school but I don't know what to get. I already have the new Nike shoes that have the number "20" on the side but I forget what you call them. Can you please help me out? I just can't seem to think of what to get and school is starting this Thursday. Thanks
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get chuck talyors! they are pretty hot now
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Q: Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out?
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this depends on how long you think that you would still like your ex. maybe if you go out with this new guy you will relize how much you like him. if you don't feel anything for this guy then you may want to leave him alone. if you dont want to go out with him tell him that you don't know what you want yet and you want to try out the single thing! by the way thats not too bad!!!!
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Q: i recently moved to a new town and dont know any kids here im going to a new highschool starting 9th grade in 2 weeks but im scared i wont make any friends...is it easy to make friends and meet people there???thanks
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you are lucky that you are starting 9th grade. in highschool they make sure that freshman make lots of friends... its extremely easy!
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Q: Sorry I am thinknig about my life a lot today .. and well my bestest friend i love her to death but i see on like peoples profiles that omg teresa your my bestest friend and i feel like that i'm off duty of being her friend and i always tell her that and she assures me that no youre my bestest bestest bestest friend ever but then i feel like she is repalcing me with everyone else and she is always talknig about her other friends and stuff but sometimes she is prefectly fine like dana omg your like my bestest bestest friend ever but ever since she broke up with her boyfriend now like every guy is her friend and i feel like I'm the old friend getting thrown out .. somehow i don't believe her when she says i'm the most important person in her life ... like we never gety in fights so i dunno if she would cry over me i fel like testing her .. helpppp
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it happens to me too. but if she tells you that your the most important person in her life you should believe her bc thats nothing that you joke about. if you want to test her just like kinda ignore her a little...
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Q: I gave up on love awhile ago..even though I don't want to, it just happened. Most of the guys I've dated were jerks. I don't trust guys and I resent all of my ex's and I can't help it. I haven't met a single guy in my school or area that was decent and I'm really starting to hate men. I'm not going to like females but I don't understand why men are such jerks. Someone help?
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well highschool boys are always jerks... theres only a few who aren't jerks are either taken or you already went out with them... but don't give up on love... theres someone out there for everyone... and you find them when your ready
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Q: My friend, lets call her Sarah, is completely obsessed with her ex boyfriend. Ive been trying to tell her forever to try and get over him! Hes been such a jerk to her, and he broke up with her to immpress one of his friends. How low is that? How can i get it through her head that she can do better, and stop wasting her time dwelling on the past?
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well take her for a girls night. make her realize that you can have fun without the ex boyfirend. does she know that he dumpped her to impress the guys? if not tell her in a nice way... also... bringing new guys into the mix is always fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Q: people have been saying me and two bestfriends look so much alike as though we're triplets. lol but we're not the only ones, i was wondering why do bestfriends always look like one another? dressing-wise too. its natural they wanna look like each other rite?
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best friends are usually interested on the same things so its not weird that your clothes may look your best friends... it just mean you like that same style! its all good. but i know that me and one of my best friends are completely different!
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Q: i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin
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8th grade was my first boyfriend if that makes you feel any better. and calling him a boyfriend is a long strech! we never did anything... i just saw him at school and his basketball games! so much for a 1st boyfriend. in middle school it doesn't matter if you have a boyfriend. now that i think about it most people at dances dancing together weren't going out. you'll get your boyfriend in high school! thoes are the ones worth waiting for... and no you are prefectly normal... unless you have a 3rd arm growing outta your back
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Q: Ok me and my 2 friends lyke this guy and i found out that he lykes me should i go with it cuz i really lyke him but i dont want to hurt my friends! Plz help
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haha been there done that. talk to your friends (i forgot that part!) becuase they will always be with you... friends are there even after a breakup. i personly would say not to go out with him but i can't say i've done that. I was a bad girl!
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Q: ive had fast metabolism like since young and im really thin, people just stare at me. they go "are u aneroxeric or something?" and questions like this piss me off, because im not! and i love my body for whatever size i am. im slightly underweight only and im quite a big eater (lol) what should i tell people who ask me questions like these? i dun wanna sound angry or vulgur to them.. please help -Rei
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haha skinny kid you! its okay i have a fast metabolism too. i do wear clothes that are sorta tight alot and that might be a problem for you. it can show how skinny you are. if you wear slighty looser clothes people will think you have more meat on you body! lol if its your arms and legs that look like chicken legs wear pants and long sleeves... but i dunno for summer...
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Q: I have a best friend named Amanda, and today at lunch at school she didn't say a word to me so I was like hmm o-well. So I just asked her on aol and here was our conversatoin...
me: Are you mad at me?
Amanda: No, why would I be mad at you?
me: you didn't say anything to me at lunch
Amanda: hmmm yea
me: yea?
Amanda: yea?
Then I told her I had to go...I didn't know what to say...is she mad at me ? What do I do?
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girls need to be alone sometimes. i know if i'm feeling like crap i don't want people talking to me so i won't talk to them. maybe shes thinking about some stuff thats been on her mind lately. if shes like this for another week or so maybe she is mad. just get her to talk to you then or find out from a mutal friend
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Q: This girl keeps being mean to me over msn IM (the reason is too long a story to explain) she wont leave me alone. I keep telling her to leave me alone and that I don't want to fight but she wont leave it. What shall I do? We go back to school soon and I'm worried of what she may do to me.
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well i dunno if on msn you can block people but if you can do that! and don't worry what this girl does because she can't do anything to you during school... teachers are there and she would be dumb to do anything! props on the word shall! so lauren kellyish!
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Q: Hello, over the summer a few of my freckles got REALLY dark on my face, and I don't like the way it looks. I heard that lemon juice works... is it true? How much would I put on? And how often?
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according to the brady bunch its true... try it... it can't hurt
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Q: Me and my b/f have been going out now for 3 months. And i haven't kissed him yet..not even a peck. Is there something wrong with me? He has tried once to make a move but i backed off. Does anyone have any advice on how to do it or anything??!!!
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no nothings wrong with you at all! maybe the reason you back off is bc you're worried on how good of a kisser you will come off as. even if your not prude you can be afriad he'll think your bad. chances are he won't notcie...as long as hes getting some? lol maybe hes afraid of getting rejected again because of the first time! lol maybe he doesn't wanna do anything now? talk to him about if you want?
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Q: can you make a guy love you?! and if so..what kinda stuff can you do?!
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no you can't... you can tease them thou! hehe
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woohoo! i finally got about to this! ok so i'm lauren! and i am always hyper unless you catch me on a bad day. even thou i'm hyper everyday i can still be serious! apparently thats when i sound smartest! haha but i know the time of firendship even thou i act like i don't.
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Member Since: August 20, 2004 Answers: 49 Last Update: August 29, 2004 Visitors: 4700
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