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i wont to die

Because your not mean't too, when god's ready to call you home HE WILL!.

don't try hurting you self.

you sexy beast!

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so i love to use words like fresh and legit.
what are some other words like that?
besides like bogus or something.
what exactly does legit mean anyways?

Ay bay bay(:

I'm the same way'
try boss play playaaa lmfao.
naw seriously dawg and sh!t like that;
legit to me means like that's cool, tight ect
feel me; make up you're owns stuff and pretty soon that sh!t will be big because other people will use it.
hope I helped(;

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Okay so i've been deppresed for the past couple weeks, not anything like suicide, but I am always sad.
I know this sounds stupid but recently i just finished reading the twilight series and i love how they are in love. But I think i'll never find some one like edward. I will never have a true love :( I will end up being lonley. I am only 14.


Does anyone know a website, or somthing where you can receive counseling or anything for free.

Hiiiiii[:

I've been in you're shoes.

I wouldn't say you need "counseling" or anything like that & you wont be Lonley forever Everyone has a soul mate and you'll fall in love-
maybe not with a guy like edward but you'll fall in love, If I know anything it's you wont be single forever or loney-

for now I'd say hang out with you're friends
so You're not as lonley girl!

You're only fourteen just have fun with it-
don't look for the guy let him find you, Trust me it workks everyyyyyytimmeee(;
-Promise you, has for twilight keep reading it it's a great book,

I hope I helped
-xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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17/f

i want a boyfriend... even wen it come close and i think a guy like me it always turns out that they dont. its not far like=[

like just recently i had was hangin out with friends and stuff and one of my guy friends kept flirting with me and he even gave me a hikkie [long story] but he said he doesnt like me.

wat kind of wrong signals is that? i dnt get it.. maybe im just not girlfriend material. this always happens.

help??? i have no idea wats wrong with me.

hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, (:
I know were your coming from on this girl.
listen It isnt that your not 'girlfriend material'
because I've made it clear to everyone I do not like cuddleing [what girl doesnt like cuddleing?]
yeah and I've heard boyfriends don't stress it jus don't even look for a boyfriend let him find you, because he WILL and when he does you'll less exspect it trust me just have fun with your friends don't worry about a boyfriend he'll come soon.


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Well i am so friecken tired :[
im 15.
and i look like at lease 18 or 19.
at first i thought its because the way i dress.
(no that i dress sluty or anything)
but its not.
because the other day i was wearing no make up and in a regular shirt and jeans and this guy(looked at lease 20) came up to me.

i hate it.
because like guys my age dont even come up to me because they think im older.

and guys that shouldnt be talking to me do.
ugh >;[
well yah.
i dunno what to do anymore.
what do i do!

ahh your a luckkky one,
don't take it to heart though.
I'd say get bangs aswell.
and swich up your style a bit
don't worry too much

I'd kill to be youuuuuuu lol.

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so theres this guy. and we're always texting/iming and stuff.
he is ALWAYS asking me who i like. and the one who i like, is him.
so i really can't tell him yet. i don't know. it seems like he might like me since he's always asking me that. he has greeted me with smiley faces, loser (haha as a joke), and sexy. once. but still.
and today he asked me if i was prude. and was hypothetically speaking, what if i liked you and you liked me but we never knew because you wouldn't say who you liked. so tell me!
what do you think?
the only reason i'm doubting it, is because him and this girl were like in love and they broke up a while ago, but they stayed really good friends. and they like stopped recently. and sometimes i'm like whats up, and hes like talking to _____ :/.
i'm like is that bad?
hes like i don't know yet.
soo....help?

ahhh ahhh ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh-
let him know YOU LIKE HIM!!!
same thing happened to me i wasn't ready to let him know I like him now I lost the guy i really really like, do me the favor and as soon as you get the chance bettr yet as SOON as you talk to him let him know YOU LIKE HIM!! and there isnt any one else.
cause he likes you! he sounds like my guy
don't let him get away your chance is now.
go for it let him no now

_xoxo

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well i'm in a blah situation. homecoming was tonight, and i danced with this guy who is totally amazing. and it made me realize how much i like him. the problem is everyone would probably think i've totally lost my mind. and we don't talk, like ever. tonight was basically the first time we've really talked, and we only said like 2 sentences to eachother. but he's so sweet and gentle, and he gives me the cute little butterflies, and ahh. i don't know what to do. can anyone help me? id greatly appreciate it.

lalalaa, same thing happpend to mee.
so I understand where you coming from 100%
listen don't worrie about what your friend 'will have to say/think'
seriously don't to him more, get to know him you have nothinnnnnng to lose don't stress the friends thing _xoxo

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ok so i like this guy and i think he likes me back. we havent talked to eachother yet though haha :) only smiles.
so i dont know how to talk to him. im very very shy and dont often talk to attractive guys, because of it. :S
we go home by the same bublic bus so i thought that's a good time?! sometimes hes with his friends though. so how should i start a convo ???? *_*

hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii girll.(:
well there is NO way he likes you because he doenst know you yet ;)
but sounds like He thikkkkks your cute .
which is a really good start, honestly I'd say just talk to him bump him or something to start the convo off , don't be scared you might miss out on a really great thing! Go FOR IT girll;


i really hope things work out great_xoxo

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Well, this guy and i have been messing around for about 3 years now. And hes 5 years older than me, but its become more intense. Like, now he wants me to sleep over and all that. But he has a girlfriend of two years, but he says he doesnt care about her. He basically just needs her for now because of work. Well, we are on the level of more than good friends and less than a couple, its confusing. I really have strong feelings about him, and i go over his house everynight and its not always about sex. I dont know if he is using me, and i really doubt it just because of how he acts towards me. I know he cares, but its like we cant be together right now because of our age difference and because i am 16. Am i a booty call? or is this all that can be at the moment? and until i become 18 this is all that can happen?

PLus, i stay over and we cuddle and all that.

idk, please any advice?

hiiiiiiiiii, whoa big thing is He has a girlfriend.
let me be honest my best guy friend is doing the same thing with this girl & she has a boyfriend of two years.

what HE should do is break it down to his girlfriend so you can have HIM to yourself & he wouldn't have to stress her as much -feel me?

but if you say he cares then he must right?
he could be telling you what you want to hear or he could just mean what he says I know any guy who wants a booty call doesn't cuddle so hey sounds real .[:

& you too can be together as long as you don't really tell your mom & dad about him as long as they don't care about the ages cause honestly I know alooooooooot of people who date that are 14 19 and all that .
do what makes YOU happy.

hope i helped_xoxo

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How do you pop kiss? Please show steps. Thanks!

hiiiiiii, (:



listen. pop kissing is like kissing your mom or how you'd kiss some one on the cheek it isn't a big deal! Don't worry about; it's not a big deal just got for it(;

-hope i helped_xoxo

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Anyone no where i can get a shirt that says nevershoutnever?

Thanks!

I Don't know if this is what your talking about but I really want to help you So i found this site.

-zazzle.com
Try looking online.
Like Ebay.

but if you don't want to do that try.

hot topic
Or pacsun.

Sorry if i didn't help.
I hope i did some what though good luck.

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15/f

i really hate when people smoke weed. the thing is like everyone i'm around smokes it. i don't know why it bothers me so much because it really doesn't do anything to you but it just bothers me soooo much. i think it's just because if its people i care about i don't want them to get hurt or get caught. does any one know how i can make it not bother me when it's people who i don't care about as much as like my boyfriend or best friend? or to not even worry if it is them?

or just give me all the bad things it does and that can reassure me that its stupid.

ha i know i might sound crazy right now butttt i don't want to get peer pressured so i want to know all the bad things about it.

Hmm I've read the other one's and they have a few things right -
Smokeing weed could ruin your life but then again It could also make it better.
I know that sounds stupid but it's true.
If your any one who has had a bad life or near it, You prolly smoke weed.
1. Because It makes you care free.
2. Because it makes you laugh at stupid things?

It is very stupid to smoke weed I don't think it could kill you or harm you but that's me.
Everyone thinks different.
I've tired it!- NOBODY DIED.
actually i know alot- of people who do it.
& their really SMART. it doesn't make you dumb.
but it does make you for get LITTLE things.
Don't get me wrong here I'm not saying it's okay to smoke a blunt, & I'm not saying it's not okay.
being addicted to things runs in my family,
I AM NOT ADDICTED TO WEED not in any kind of way and of done it over 5 times i do it because I WANT TO- not because I think it's cool.
Don't let other people tell you what you should & shouldn't do.
but Before you smoke a fillie THINK ABOUT IT!
& Don't judge others because they do it sweetie.
I hope i helped.

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i'm 15/f and i have never had an actual boyfriend and i've never kissed a guy. I feel so behind from all the other girls at school. I just don't feel like i want to take on all the drama that comes with a relationship.

I'm not ugly or anything and i think guys don't ask me out because i'm kind of one of them. I love video games and playing guitar, and skateboarding. The dresses and stuff don't really get me.

I'm worried about being single for the rest of my life! I want to keep my guy friends though, they're like my brothers and i'm worried that if i ever get a guy he won't let me hang out with my boys!

heyy :)

psh same thing swinnging this way girl,
don't worrie about it though you [WONT] be single for ever truth me this is coming from a girl who has only had ONE boyfriend and just got her first kiss a few weeks ago and IM 15 xD haa yeahh, in all honesty some one will come along and nothing will need to be changed about you! :] yeah he might not like the fact that you have alot of guy friends thay will grow on him though because really you say their like your brothers! but no you wont be single forever, the right guy will come sooner or later you just have to wait around to see; don't look for him let him find you ;)

- i hope everything works out for you!

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I'm 16/f and my bf's sixteen too. We've been together for 5 months. I have a best guy friend who I've turned down many times. I used to not like him at all, actually. Now, I think I'm beginning to like him...Like, I suddenly walk into class one day and I feel something for him. And he always tries to make my boyfriend jealous on purpose..Like he'd grab a hold of my arm in front of my bf..and make him go insane. In math class, he caresses my arm and hair..and giggles and stuff. And I don't really have a problem with it. But it's my bf..who, frankly, I like less. And I just don't know what to do. I can't really be sure about my guy friend..him liking me and all. Ive asked him..he said he doesn't. But I don't believe it since the body language proves otherwise. Soo I'm kinda stuck in between..and can't decide. I don't want to be a bad girlfriend either. What would you do?

Hey Girl! :]
well i hate situations like this thay suck;
but i'm going to try and help you as much as i
can because i know how you feel by this point,

real tip, sound as though your best guy friend still does like you but doesnt want you to know because of the past, hes your best friend meaning you two must hangout alot, so the feelings haven't gone any where, [good news!] [:
the only problem is your boyfriend, if your loseing feelings for him wait a little and then if thay go away completely break it off to him
in a nice way let him know you just want to be friends, then your guy friend will then be their for you because he is your best guy friend then some where along the lines show him you have feelings for him! and by that time he will spill he still likes you!

i hope i helped and i hope everything works out for you and whatever you choose.

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I liked a guy.

We have one mutual friend, and I wanted the friend to drop a little hint to him, so I could test the waters and see what was up, how he reacted to it, etc.

Well, my friend did that today. She made the comment (after seeing me), "I think _____(my name) likes you." She said this to the guy.

The guy stares blankly for a second. And then goes "I don't believe you." And the friend goes "What?! Why don't you believe me? I'm telling you so." and the guy goes "I don't believe you, that's not possible.". Then some of the guys friends came, and he stopped talking.

I have a class with the guy, two periods later. In that class, I was sitting on a desk, waiting for class to start, and I happened to be looking at the door. He came in late, and was trying to sneak in past the teacher, so obviously, I was watching him. He sees me watching him, and gives me some awkward wave, and goes "Hey". I'm sitting about five feet away from him.

What does any of this mean? Any help would be nice. What should I do now? Should I tell him I know? Does he not like me?

(:

wait a little befor you tell him you like him
get to know him and talk to him! sound's like he's interested; so stick around and talk to him about anything the class your both in school idk myspace? lol anything then once you guys become friend's work on a relationship just talk to him silly what's the worse that could happen?(:

i hope i helped.

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ok, well you no how you have the signs that your periods coming soon..well, my friend says that your vagina hair has to be black. is that true??

not true!
you feel sharpe pains your legs may hurt.
you'll know when it's coming.

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Hi everyone!!

im getting a little sick of the usual picture comments on myspace and facebook. (you know, "wow u look pretty"... ive said that a million times!

so i was wondering, what are your favorite comments?
just anything cute that youve seen.

Thanks so much!

ha i got you covered (:

-uhm, could you stop being so pretty?
kthanks(:

-hello ms drop dead gorgeous!

-All those curves! And me with no brakes!

-uhm, please share the beautiful.

-If you were a new sandwich at Mcdonalds, you’de be called McGorgeous

-oh [their name goes here :D] your so fine your so fine you blow my mind hey [their name goes here] (:

haha!

-you should already know this by now, but whoa baybay your gorgeous; (:

AND F0R THE FELLAS!

uhm, nothing needs to be said let's get married RIGHT now kthanks(:

lol

-whoa.. can i buy you a drinkkk :D

-You must be the reason for global warming because you’re hot.
lmfao xD

-Do you believe in the hereafter? Well, then I guess you know what I’m here after.

-Are you an overdue book? Because you’ve got FINE written all over you!

-How much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice- can I get your number?

-It’s a good thing I have my library card, because I’m checking you out.

-Damn, I’m glad I’m not blind!

-Excuse me can I borrow a quarter, it is an emergency. My mom told me to giver her a call the first time I fell in love.


lol i hope i helped.

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i think i am going to have my period i and having a lot of discharge a few cramps and i have broken out some pimples, and the worst i am having the worst back and leg pains ever is that a sign?

yess most deff a sign, i feel all those signs befor i have mine so you might be having one soon just get ready, is it your first time?

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I dont know how to break up with this guy! My friend dared me to date him, but it got out of hand... and i dont know what to do!
Should i tell him it was just a dare?
HELP!!!!!!
HELP!!!!!! he is driving me nuts and i dont know what to do about it
I dont want to hurt him
but i dont really like him...at all.in fact i hate him! i dont no how to break up!
i am leaving on may 20 so should i just stick it out until i leave?
once agian, HELP!!!!

hmm, well if you don't want to hurt him then deffoh don't tell him it was a dare that would kill him, or anyone just talk to him tell him you would rather be friend's don't GIVE him a reason just say you don't want a boyfriend right now and your leaveing anyway so it will work out, break it down to him nice in person would be good but if you HAVE to over the phone would work aswell, other the net or thru a text LAME; and could turn in to him thinking your joke pick a phone or in person, i hope everything works out for the best.

-hope i helped. -xoxo!

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16/f
alright so, ive been dating this guy for 2 1/2 months, and i dont love him is that normal? like.. if i dont love him by now should i brake up with him.. what would other people do? everyone around me is saying to brake up with him.. i do like him a lot i just dont love him..


thanks.

uhm, yeah don't break up with him, it's okay not to love in it's only been two months i think it's silly when girls that have been only dating a guy for about three months or less or even more say thay are INlove or LOVE them crazy, because you cant BE INLOVE with someone after only two or less or more months a know but it's okay its normal don't listen to your friend's that's crazy there telling you to break up with him if you like him alot then GREAT but love in theres no way, so i understand what your saying keep him around later down the road you just MIGHT love him

i hope i helped take me advice to heart, -xoxo!

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