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Q: Hi, I'm 17, female, and a kinda past love of mine is coming to visit soon, I haven't seen him in two years. While he's here I want to get him to fall in love with me? Any tips?
there's not much you can do. Just be a good friend and show him how your there, I think the only thing you have to remember is to not act or be a certain way to be liked by him, it might not end well and he might not like you once he realizes..

Q: Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help
Ok, I know that if your underage the law can protect you but if your not then Im sure your going to have to sue or something. It's not always a good idea to share pictures like that is all I can say.

Q: I started dating a girl in December, I'm not going to say all the normal love stuff, because, this was a normal relationship, we believed we were perfect for eachother, we loved eachother, ect. Her parents liked me, I went to church and all with them, they were Catholic I'm Baptist.

Well, she would always say how she's always hungry, she doesn't eat as much (later finding out they sometimes don't give her food for like a day or two), her parents call her names like slut, whore, bitch, just cause their mad or so, or they'd slap her, like, they slap her all the time when they don't get their way basically. Sometimes they whip them (her and her sister) with a belt I believe, but it never leaves bruises so she thinks it's "not illegal" because of that, but it burns and hurts her like hell. One time she said "my mother whipped me with a belt 15 times because I drew on the blinds"

Anyways on with the story, everything was normal, until the day before valentines day, her mom grounded her because we were 30 minutes late from the lake which was half a mile away. February 17th or 18th I forget, she got in a argument with her mom, as always the slapping, name calling, she was unhappy. We ran away in the middle of the night together, she said she was going to run away even if I didn't.

So, I protected her, we ran away, we were gone for 18 hours. When we came back, we went into the house and talked to the parents, well, the parents are HIGHLY manipulative and all so remember this later. The mother said how she doesn't even want my girlfriend there, if it wasn't for the dad she wouldn't be there, and responsibility this responsibility that, basically saying their all gonna die if she doesn't do things right, her mother is literally mentally unstable or something... The cop came obviously, the dad said I was a good kid he liked me and all, and we hugged when I left. Everything was normal.

The next day I went there, the mom was mad obviously, we hanged out for 2 or 3 weeks in a normal way. Then I had to goto another state for 3 weeks, I told them I was leaving, and I really was, but I had problems and went to the state over instead with my family for 5 days. Well, we snuck out when I got back because we knew we wouldn't be able to see eachother until the weekend, we always wanted to see eachother. This wasn't the first time we snuck out, and we've been caught 3 times before by her parents. They forgave us though each time.

This time, I lied to the mom sadly saying I was in Missouri. Acted like I was worried the next day ect, the sister had told the mom the truth I guess. The mother 2 days later (March 7th) filed a Protection Order, for no legit reason. Ill say the statements later. The P.O. was served to me March 9th

The dad, is like loyal to the wife because their catholic and all, not to bash the religion in any way. But he just is. I know he would never do this, he didn't file anything. Anyways I went to the house to reconcile with him and he just kept saying go, go, go bla bla no reason then just started saying I was too old. He knew I wasnt, he liked me, he was just doing this for the wife. Cops ended up coming I still refused to leave because I wanted to reconcile, then they tresspassed me.

Anyways, March 17th, I went to walmart, they were all there, the dad walked like "Hey (my name), I see you got a job!" What? "You're wearing your uniform!" Oh yeah "Well, bye!" he was all happy and everything.

After seeing me 3 more times he left with my gf to the car.

March 20th came, the P.O. court date, the statements on it were "Ran away, sneaking out to the lake several times, reporting bullying and saying everything will be okay" I reported her being bullied from people.. And they think thats bad? Hah. Well, the mom anyways. We told the judge about how their using me as a disclipinary tool, how they call her names and mental abuse, how I always just helped her. Not really detailing it but that's short for it, Judge said "Everything was in good intentions for her nothing was done wrong, all he did was help her." and set the P.O. for 3 months.

We got letters on March 24th and March 27th saying how they hurt her she doesn't wanna be there that they say their the "dictators" of the family and they slap her, call her bitch and slut, and that her Aunt threatened to kill me and has a plan and a gun in her car. And will do anything for her mom she doesn't care cause she loves her mom.

Sad.

April 3rd we violated it, she was being starved I heard so I was going to take her to McDonalds, cops caught us within 5 minutes because I "ran a stop sign", well I was on a slope. It was dark, so yeah.

April 9th, the mother chased me, followed me, I ran from her to my friends house and a cop started grabbing me for no reason when he came to investigate so I pushed him and got charged for assault and battery and a violation, went to jail for 6 days. I really did nothing wrong, this cop just started grabbing me then shoving me into the police car because I yelled my mothers number at my friend because he wouldnt let me call her, I KNEW the cops wouldn't call her thats why I tried. Cop wasnt listening to me say they were chasing me before all this, he detained me as soon as he saw me in my truck he said get out and I did then I was like am i being detained he was like yes. He cant do that without any further cause...

So yeah I was arrested. Went to jail for 6 days and now I'm under 24/7 supervision for awhile, we believe their going to give me probation in another state...

Well, we have around 3 open DHS cases on her, then 2 more from other people we believe. But DHS hasn't visited her since ending of March, its May now. And their all open cases.

Now here's where things get interesting, this just happened, and is why I'm looking for help.

2 days ago she showed up to my house, freezing, wet, covered in grass. It was a 4 mile walk to out here, through the lake woods and all. I was so sad I let her in, got her my sweats and got her warm, held her, she explained what happened how they hurt her and she doesn't wanna be there, she showed me a bruise which is the size of a french fry, my friend and her said it was bigger, it's 4 days old, still blood red.

Her mother ended up showing up, we called the cops, but she was saying she doesn't wanna be there they hurt her they hit her they call her names and just wanted help... A Sheriff came in, I was in the other room then because the PO, my mother was with them, my Gf had said all I've said how they hurt her and call her names she doesnt wanna be with them shes scared and unhappy and some stories on how they hurt before.

So sheriff took her to the police car and then talked to us then talked to her parents. There was another sheriff here then, they pulled out a letter. They talked for like 30 minutes. Now before we continue, this family is highly manipulative, believable, looks normal but when you leave their house their evil and hitting her. They've lie to the POLICE (not sheriff) to think were Sex Traffickers, idk if they believe it just because "were from Arizona" and my mother said it was okay if my Gf wanted to live with us, when she ran away, if it was okay with the parents. So because of that they lie about some stuff.

My gf said to the sheriff how when the police come her parents make them goto the room and their never really questioned or get to talk that the police and her parents just get along... So now theres gonna be more DHS and police involved I guess.

Anyways, sheriff sent her back with the mom, said theres going to be in-house DHS counciling, police, and all. It's devestating because my GF absoloutely doesnt want to be with them, they seriously hurt her. They wont let her go with her real mom the sheriff said "THAT IS NOT POSSIBLE" in a loud voice, because the mother lied to them we think.

The letter the mother showed them was a letter, in short, saying "I'm running away to see (my name)" which ruined everything I think. Because cops said she didn't run away because they hurt her, which is WHY she did run away, she told me, but yes, she came to me to tell me first, she wanted help they do hurt her.

What can we do?!

I've made about a 6 page letter to the dad since theres no Protection Order from him...

Were not doing this just so we can see eachother, that's part of the reason, but they really hurt her she wants out.

I have just turned 17 and she has just turned 15, at the end of April and beginning of May.

When she came here she said her mother had said "Now I see why (cousins name) mother let her boyfriend move in."
Hey, I'm here for you when ever you need to talk. I honestly wish I could help you out more but I can't, but what I can help you out is on giving you advice and I think what you have been doing for your girlfriend is the most amazing strong love because you protect her. You seem like a great guy too. the part I didn't quit understand was the part you said the police didn't do much about her. They should've left your girlfriend stay at a safer environment. I also think she should've mentioned how they don't feed her for so many days and have police give her a check up or find some sort of evidence against her parents abuse, but you said the parents lie a lot about who they are, so your girlfriend is going to have to fight hard on her freedom out of her parents home or she might have to wait until legal age to live on her own. I know you really want to help her, and sometimes things get tough. Keep in touch if you would like to talk:)

Q: I think I started my period but, I'm 2 months late if I did. I haven't had sex or anything like that I'm just scared and confused.
I actually asked my doctor that once and she said it ok if your in teen years because teens have Different hormones and stuff but if your older Im sure you should ask a Doctor about it can be something serious.. Hope I helped :)

Q: Look I have been on this earth long enough there is no hope in the world. No peace no Love no caring and I feel there will never be caring. Will some person who feels my pain please and I ask of you nicely please. Give me the answer to this question. First I tell you I live my life everyday in sadness. I know many things and don't care anymore that I know these things. I don't know if im a Christian because I cannot Love this world and cant seem to understand why the person who created this world is putting all of us through this. I just want to die... die....die die... fastest way to die please? Anyone? Suicidal people help me... ones in depression who feel my pain help me..... someone who is more exspericend in what im going through help me.
I'm going to start out this by saying iv only been in this world for only 18 years and I'm no on one to change your thoughts. I went through so much pain that I created myself yes I created myself .because I kept looking at the world very negatively. I went through two deep depressions in my life that almost ended my relationship with my friends and boyfriend. Trust me I know how bad theses thoughts are they never go away they make feel so mad angry inside for no reason and sit there thinking about how bad this world is when really instead of wasting time you could be doing something you enjoy but when it starts to get really bad to the point you can't enjoy anything at all even the things you did enjoy before thats when to start searching for help. Yeah I know searching for help sucks but when you feel ready find it. About people not caring well I agree some people don't care but you just have to look hard enough to find those who do. Just because people don't care doesn't mean you have to be that way and people feel different about love so I won't be able to help you on that but there is hope for love even if you don't think so it just comes unexpectedly. Sometimes people don't grow up knowing how to hug or show affection towards people but of course those people can choose to be cold hearted or learn to love but even though everyone seems to not care its not like that people might be tired or they might be going through hard problems and try to cover it Believe it or not some people could be having the worst life maybe even worse that they may wish to have yours instead it's how everyone's life works everyone has something they don't like about them selfs but I guess you learn to embrace it or deal with it. I know how it feels to want to fall off a tall building and want to die in peace I imagined it a lot it made me feel like I wouldn't have to deal with anything anymore and thought no one would care about me being gone but all I have to say is that music inspired me to never kill myself because some lyrics made sense to me and had similar thoughts like me. It made me feel like I wasn't alone with this feeling. I know its hard to think positively and you know there's many people out there that say religion will help get through it. Well it not true I consider myself a catholic because both of my parents but I realized that some of the things thy said seemed untrue which is why some people have a hard time believing in god but I grew up knowing that god was there just to protect me but other them that I didn't really learn much nor it wouldn't have helped me get through life but if you feel religion could help you go for it anyway I hope I helped in a way. Good luck :)

Q: Okay so I'm a junior girl in high school and there's this guy who is a freshmen and is like my best friend. We started texting each other basically all day for the past 2 days and is continuing on. I'm not saying I don't like the texts but I can't tell if he's just being really close friends or wants to be bf & gf? You know what I'm saying? anyway I guess my question in a short story would have to be what does it mean when a guy texts you all the time?
If the guy flirts with you then I think he does or at least hints to you that he wants to say something but he doesn't. That all got but if you like him then ask him why messages you a lot but don't make it seem like its a bad thing if you like texting and messaging back just ask him in a way that you know its cool. If you like the guy then go for it you have a good reason to anyway. :) good luck!

Q: Please tel the way to die?
This is ridiculous.. No one deserves to die plus everyone has a reason to live believe me I had suicidal thoughts and I never killed myself because something inside me always stoped me and realized theres a reason. Don't kill yourself :/

Q: I have been friends with a girl since the 3rd grade (i am now in the 8th grade)when we went into the 8th grade she started spreading lies about me and started spreading rumours about me.I don't want to be her friend any more but she knows all my secrets and blackmails me into doing things i don't want to do by saying that she will tell everyone.she is my only friend and nobody in my school likes me because i am socially awkward and dont get good grades ( i live in india and everyone judges you by what grades you get )what should i do and how can i get better grades ?
First shes not a great friend at all. Just cause your awkward does not mean you can't make new friends and about your grades you should maybe study or just focus on homework instead of all the lies your friends is making up that only letting get what she wants. What she wants is you to feel like you only have her as friend. Prove to her that you don't need her and that you can get better grades. You said it yourself that people judge by grades so just focus on that then the lies your friend is saying because if you get bad grades they won't focus on the lies or secrets they will focus on the grades. Maybe even then you can find the true friends that you are looking for. I'm going to give you a tip never trust your friends right away with your secrets because you never know what could happen it more like a lesson learned I mean went through the same.i was with a group of friends that I thought were true but they weren't I eventually found new friends just know that there's lot of other people that go through bad friendships. Good luck! :)

Q: hii so my mom is allways yelling at me. And I think she is to over protective I can't go to my best friend for a weekend because she have brothers. I told her before that I won't play around like that because im not that sort of person. I try to talk to her but then she is just yelling again.... please help!!
You didn't really say how old you were but it's alright I'll assume your young and maybe it came to your mom's mind that your friend's brothers could harm you but you need to let her know that your gonna be staying in one room with a door locked or something if you actually want to do that. If you don't you could just try to explain it to her in a more calmer state that your not hat kind of person. Sometimes you just have to wait for her to calm down not only because she's yelling but because it could get you stressed out and then get you to say no sense or thing you don't mean when your arguing.. Good luck!

Q: Can anyone please confirm that cutting works on relieving the pain?
How do you start, what's the easiest way?
Would it be better for me to just die?
How would i hide it?

I'm feeling really bad, and this is the only thing stopping me from suicide... i don't know what to do.

Thanks for any answers
I myself felt like this. I never ever cut my self before mostly because I was too chicken too and there was always something holding me back so I knew it was for reason Im sure but I have thought of it and I've also thought about how nice it would be if I wasn't here alive . First off the pain you have inside you will not heal you just have to learn to deal with it. Reflect on everything bad that happened in your life and I'm not asking you to look at it as a positive way just in way that you know it had to happen not just cause of that but there's always a reason behind bad situation. People often think that a bad situation was not meant to happen and then the say way it had to happen. Even bad situation could lead to those good ones. Not everyone's life is prefect and if you were brought to this world it probably was for a good reason. If you don't like the way your living change it to make Bette sure you can't change anyone but you can change and make a new beginning or just start enjoying life don't waste time listening to all those negative thoughts in your. Start over with a life that you like..

Q: Hi friends,

Can any one tell me the importance of live chat software and please also tell me how and where we can find best live chat software for website............
Iv only used Skype and oovoo their both alright with phones that have cameras and of course computers but it all depends the kind of chat form your looking for

Q: Alright so I known this boy since 6th grade. I told him I liked him in 8th grade and also in 9th grade. We're in 10th grade now.. And we would seriously call each other every night. Text, facetime, snapchat, you name it. But these past few weeks have been different. I think it's because we just started school again & he may possibly like another girl. Him and I have study hall together & my friend, Sierra, joins our little group. They've got close. His wallpaper on his phone is Sierra. He wrote her a note and called her 'babe'. But I know they aren't dating. And the word going around is that he might ask her to formal? Well I've confronted Sierra. She said it was true. I was heartbroken. It's the fact that I wasn't even thought of. He knows how I feel about him & all of a sudden he ignores me. I don't know if she will say yes or not. But Sierra knows that I like him. I come to school everyday and tell her what he and I have been through. I could never look at them the same. But my question is..what should I do? I'm pretty sure that Sierra doesn't like him. But I have a feeling that he likes her. Should I not talk to him until he talks to me?

*note*
I have never had a relationship before so I wanna be smart about this
Just don't talk to him until he talks to you but if it starts to bother you just talk to him about it. If Sierra and the guy you like hangs out a lot and Sierra says she doesn't like him but she still hangs with him she might like him back too. Sierra might just not want to hurt you. If they don't hang that much then she's telling the truth. Don't try to act jealous or obsessed just don't cut in between the two if they like each other or not even if you know it might not work out. Let the guy find out for himself that you do like him truly and if he doesn't he might not be the one.

Hope I help a little bit :)

Q: So I have a boyfriend I've been dating for 5 months and my parents have met him but they don't know we're dating and they think where just friends and I'm not sure if I'm even aloud to date but this boy means the world to me and I only get to see him once a week at church and every time I do I have to be sneaky.......and I want to see him more and not have to be sneaky.....and my parents are super overprotective and strict...I'm 14 years old...........so how do I tell my parents that I'm dating him?



This is what I recommend you to do. When I felt like my mom would not understand that I wanted to date someone was hard and I couldn't talk to any of my parent about it without getting shy I made a card with things I had to say and gave it to my mom and liked it so much she understood it perfectly. If you prefer to speak it out just write down ideas that you want to say it really helps. So your remember what to say.it also so helps so you show your mom how much you care for the guy.

Q: I am 15 and if i am myself im considered wierd and i cant get a popular cute boyfriend and now that im homeschooled its even harder help
Love comes unexpected it all has to do with waiting and being yourself you don't want to end up falling In love with someone that thought you were someone you weren't.

Q: I m 21.my parents were divorsed when i m 12.after that my mom looked after me n my brother.but from last 3years i m working and taking care if my mom and brother and also doing my graduation.i m loving a boy so much he too loves me but now a days he was changed.no one cares for me not my family or lover.i m nt happy.i love them so much but they dnt.so i want to die
First off I hope you don't mean that you want to die but if you do please don't days like these could be really hard for you but it will get better and you should maybe move out sense you said you have to support your mom and your brother their big enough to probably support themselves. Try your best to stay positive which I know how hard it is but its the only way out and even though it may seem people don't care,Im sure you have someone who does care just look hard enough..

Hope I helped (:

Q: My sister is 11 years old. Believe me, she isn't a child anymore. She knows more than I do tbh.
And she's been so closed up lately and quiet. I know her as a happy kid always smiling. But today I found out she wants to be like those way to skinny models. My mother once had to take laxative. And she used that too today...my mum hid it though. I found it in her room. I don't know what to do I'm actually really worried and panicked. She always says she isn't hungry and skips meals
She needs help :(
You should tell your mom about how much you worry about your sister she might need professional help by a doctor. It will only show how much you care for your sister.


Hope I helped (:

Q: . . . So I'm into this guy in my foreign language class, and now that the school year's ending, I want to ask him out---or at least suggest it (without actually SUGGESTING it) so that he asks me. We're both juniors in high school, btw!

Here's a little background information:
. . . In our class participation is highly encouraged to practice speaking Spanish, and the two students who participate the most in class are him and I. We used to sit at opposite ends of the class---our teacher purposely did that because we talk too much---and whenever there'd be something funny or fascinating happening during class, I noticed he would always look at me/we would make eye contact, as if we were laughing with each other. I didn't think too much of it then.
. . . Last week we were given the option to choose our seats for the rest of the school year since there's only a few weeks left. The guy chose the seat right next to mine, and now we can talk to each other more easily. For the last week and a half we've been watching a lot of episodes from a spanish soap opera in class, and every time something funny happens he would laugh and make eye contact with me, holding it for a few seconds.

. . . Now, I don't know if I'm reading too much into it, but I think he may be interested in me. I feel like the way he acts in class sort of gives it away that he likes me, but I also don't want to be wrong, you know? Outside of class he's never really made an effort to speak to me, unless we were both already somewhere (like if we see each other on campus or are at a school event). But even at those times, it's just small talk.

. . . We're both into the same things. We both like a lot of the same bands, and we have the same favorite shows/movies. We have the same kind of personality too. We get each other's sense of humor, which a lot of other people don't. He's in a band and I'm a musician, so we both appreciate good music. We also dress pretty similar (like guy/girl versions of each other). But we're not too much the same that it would start to get boring.... So now all I'm thinking is, like, "match-made-in-heaven", you know? LOL jk. I think we'd just be really good together.

. . . Anyways, he has an outgoing personality (so do I), but when it comes to girls I know he's more on the shy side (as am I when it comes to boys). Also, I have been told by multiple people that he may be intimidated by me and afraid of asking me out because---and I don't mean to be conceited---I am out of his league. They say that I'm much more attractive than him, so he probably assumes I'm just not interested.

. . . I really don't know what to do because I would really like to hangout with him sometime alone so that we could have an actual conversation, but I don't know how to propose the idea. I just don't know how to go about it... What would be the right time, the right place? What would I suggest we do on this "date" or "hang" or whatever..
. . . Does he even like me?

. . . Your advice and personal experience would be much appreciated! Thanks so much.
Even if he doesn't like you. You should tell him how you feel or simply just hangout with him as friends you know the best relationships are great when starting off as friends perhaps maybe he will ask you out later after. Just one step at a time

Hope I helped (:

Q: Hi so I got a new iPod yesterday, and it dropped. It fell on the screen on a hard floor (Not concrete, but sort of like a sidewalk. I dropped it in my bathroom). Do you think it will be okay? I see no scratches and I'm able to type this, so... I'm sort of scared that I'll not work or something.

P.S. I don't know how it dropped. I was holding my iPod firmly.
I think your iPod will be fine but if you can get a new one you probably should get one. if you can't and it works still then it will be ok.

Q: please help i bought a new house and i need ideas for a bit of decorations somthing like girly girl kinda thing kkk
Hey congrats!!! Well you dont need to worry much about how your house has to look like go with whatever you feel your place should look and feel like but here are some web site that might get ideas going..

http://www.roomzaar.com/rate-my-space/girly-girl-room/sgallery.esi


Q: how do i get a boyfriend who might not like me
first make sure you he likes you or tell him you like him either way.maybe talk to someone who has a lot of confidence and maybe they could help you get a boyfriend also do activities that might help you meet some guys..

hope i help (:

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