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I need to run away from the pain... does cutting really work? Would it be better for me to just die?
Can anyone please confirm that cutting works on relieving the pain?
How do you start, what's the easiest way?
Would it be better for me to just die?
How would i hide it?
I'm feeling really bad, and this is the only thing stopping me from suicide... i don't know what to do.
Thanks for any answers
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Before you do anything please just read this.
I know this wont change your mind. BUT I used to cut and it gives relief for only a short while. Then it just stings like hell amd u feel guilty and you get a yucky feeling.
Would you really want to wear long sleeves everyday? When its so hot outside that you feel like fainting? You can't do sports because youneed to wear long sleeves same with swimming. Remember it leaves scars so it will be there for long. Not just physical scars but emotional ones to. And dont say "I wont cut that deep" because trust me you start cutting deeper and deeper and t gets more and more. Eventually its on your legs so you cant wear shorts. Don't say "I can stop" cs u cant it becomes addictive you start craving it. And no you shouldnt die. Why mke a permanent decision to a temporary problem? Things get better in the end. It seems hard now but no matter what it is it gets better. Dont thinkbi dont understand cs I was sexually abused, attempted suicide, cut and was bulimic. Dont think im some old person just giving advice thats fake cs im 13. Please just hang in there. If you need to talk you can comment your number or kik pr something and ill send yoi a msg
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I have cut myself on and off for a while, and I regret the day when I started doing it. It's a horrible addiction, and it's so hard to stop once you start.
Maybe it does relieve the pain -- but after you relieve your pain for five minutes, you will look down at your wrist and feel ashamed. The relief is temporary.
It's the worst when summer comes. You will have to wear long sleeves and long pants in the hot weather. Not only will you feel too hot, but other people will also be somewhat suspicious or concerned about it.
If you get caught cutting, that's even worse than having to wear long sleeves in the summer.
I hope you do not start cutting yourself. I have gone through it and regret it so much. I have scars that I think will never go away -- both physical and emotional scars. And cutting does not just hurt yourself -- it hurts everyone who cares about you.
Cutting and suicide are not answers. There are better ways to relieve your pain and fix your problems. You just need to keep your eyes open and look around for better solutions.
I think you should confide in someone close to you about how you feel. They can assist you in finding help.
A therapist or counselor can help you find ways to fix your problems and find other ways to relieve the pain. Cutting only relieves you for five minutes. And suicide doesn't really make things better or relieve pain. It eliminates the chances of things ever getting better and the chances of you enjoying life again.
If you need someone to talk to, my email is athena4896@gmail.com.
You can get help and start to enjoy life again. It does get better, I promise. I know you will find a way to be happy. I believe in you.
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Oh my, please don't! I cut myself for so long and every day I regret it. I really do. People look at them and treat you differently. And forget bikinis (if you're a girl) ! I have had depression since I was little and I know that it's horrible to deal with. But no one should have to go through what you have to, whether it be self-shame or bullying or abuse. It was bullying for me. I got called ugly so many times a day I lost count. I would leave class just to go hide in the restroom so they couldn't speak to me. But they would write me notes and yell at me at recess, and everything was so unbearable that I tried commiting suicide. Suicide. Isn't that an ugly word? No one should die because of an ugly word. I want to die because of a beautiful word, like love or old age. Ok,maybe they're not that pretty, but they're nicer than suicide. After months of therapy, I still get the occasional jab in the self-confidence, but I have never felt so beautiful in my life. Don't do this. Trust me, nothing is worth it. Today is not your day. You're hot. You're pretty. You're handsome. Whatever or whoever you are, you are better than this. You'll make it.
-hope I helped.-
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You need professional help. None of us are even allowed to tell you how to hurt yourself or that you should die. It's our job to help you live.
Cutting or suicide won't solve your problems.
You're not the only one who feels like this. So you're not alone. You need to seek professional help. They will help you find better ways to deal with your problems rather than cutting or thinking suicide will solve your problems.
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I myself felt like this. I never ever cut my self before mostly because I was too chicken too and there was always something holding me back so I knew it was for reason Im sure but I have thought of it and I've also thought about how nice it would be if I wasn't here alive . First off the pain you have inside you will not heal you just have to learn to deal with it. Reflect on everything bad that happened in your life and I'm not asking you to look at it as a positive way just in way that you know it had to happen not just cause of that but there's always a reason behind bad situation. People often think that a bad situation was not meant to happen and then the say way it had to happen. Even bad situation could lead to those good ones. Not everyone's life is prefect and if you were brought to this world it probably was for a good reason. If you don't like the way your living change it to make Bette sure you can't change anyone but you can change and make a new beginning or just start enjoying life don't waste time listening to all those negative thoughts in your. Start over with a life that you like..
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