I'm just a craazy 13 year old girl who loves giving advice. I've been through a lot of hectic things that I believe people shouldn't go through. I have big dreams of becoming a model when I'm older because I do modeling now
Need advice? Ask me :D I love giving advice
Gender: Female
Age: 13
Member Since: January 19, 2013
Answers: 12
Last Update: October 7, 2013
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there is nothing i want except to die.. (link)
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Hey hun :) I used to be suicidal and sometimes still feel like that. But you know what its nit worth it. So many people want you around. Ive attempted suicide and I uswd to cut. I understand what you going through. Please stay strong. You should try talking to a therapist. You may have depression. If you need to talk comment your number or kik and ill send you a message
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Can anyone please confirm that cutting works on relieving the pain?
How do you start, what's the easiest way?
Would it be better for me to just die?
How would i hide it?
I'm feeling really bad, and this is the only thing stopping me from suicide... i don't know what to do.
Thanks for any answers (link)
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Before you do anything please just read this.
I know this wont change your mind. BUT I used to cut and it gives relief for only a short while. Then it just stings like hell amd u feel guilty and you get a yucky feeling.
Would you really want to wear long sleeves everyday? When its so hot outside that you feel like fainting? You can't do sports because youneed to wear long sleeves same with swimming. Remember it leaves scars so it will be there for long. Not just physical scars but emotional ones to. And dont say "I wont cut that deep" because trust me you start cutting deeper and deeper and t gets more and more. Eventually its on your legs so you cant wear shorts. Don't say "I can stop" cs u cant it becomes addictive you start craving it. And no you shouldnt die. Why mke a permanent decision to a temporary problem? Things get better in the end. It seems hard now but no matter what it is it gets better. Dont thinkbi dont understand cs I was sexually abused, attempted suicide, cut and was bulimic. Dont think im some old person just giving advice thats fake cs im 13. Please just hang in there. If you need to talk you can comment your number or kik pr something and ill send yoi a msg
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First off, I apologize for the long question.
I am a thirteen-year-old girl, and everything is making me want to die. No, I guess I don't really want to die -- I just want the pain to end.
The main reason why I hate life is because I don't understand anything in school. And to make up for it, I work so much harder than any other kid would . . . but it's no use. I have a learning disability as well, which makes me work and process things slowly. I'm just SO SLOW AND STUPID! Ugh. (This makes things a lot harder for me than other people think.)
Several people hate me. I'm pretty sure my family hates me, to start with. Especially my dad. And I know all homophobic people must hate me because I am a girl who likes girls. But no one hates me as much as I hate myself.
I know some people might tell me to find a counselor or therapist. I already have two of those. But neither of them help me AT ALL. The first one just doesn't understand me, and he does a lot more talking than listening. And the second one treats me as if I'm doing something wrong by feeling this way. I have been self-harming for a while as well. But no one is helping.
I guess I don't have too many logical reasons to feel unhappy. Feeling like everyone hates me and not doing well in school do not count as reasons. But I'm just not strong like other people are. But what is the point of going on? Why don't I just die now so I don't have to suffer anymore? It's not like anyone would care . . . they all hate me.
I wish I could get help. But no one is going to help me. I feel so alone right now and just feel like dying. Right now, suicide is just a thought. I haven't acted on it yet.
Is there anything that can be done to make things better? I don't know what to do anymore or how to go on. But I will appreciate any advice. Thank you. And sorry for the length. (link)
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Im a 13 year old girl two :) I also self harm (cut) amd also wanna die. Ive attempted suicide. BUT its not worth it. Things get better in the end. Dont tell me I dont understand because I do. Ive had a bad childhood. Ive been thru sexual abuse, , cyberbullying, and girls always used to pick on me. Im also hated. But if you don't have haters it means youve never stood up for yourself. Its also not your fault youhave a learning disability. My best friend has one. You might think you weak cs therapists dont help but mine also didn't work. You just need to find the right one. Please stay strong. If you need to talk you can just comment on thos with your number or kik or anything like that and ill send you amsg :)
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So I don't have one of those shavers. However, I have an electric one. But my sisters used to use it like last year and stuff...
What should I do about hair down there? I don't like the actual shavers. But I NEED to shave there because I don't like a bush! Should I just use the electric shaver even though I use it on my legs and other people have used it? (I don'r think I can get a new one) (link)
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Hello :) I'm also 13 and have hair down there soo here's my advice..
You shouldn't use razors that anyone else used you should get your own one. It can cause infections. You can either trim it and then shave it or you can also wax(that's what I do) and its actually not that sore
Hope I helped :)
~michaela~
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I am 14/f. My best friend ( we will call her Jane) is being abused at home. We have told the counselors about it and i went with her for support. The woman who is abusing her is her dads girlfriend of 6 years who is still married to her ex husband. She is the one who is abusing her. She leaves deep nail marks that draw blood all over Jane's arms and neck> SHe drags her around the house by her hair and throws her around. It has made her head bleed. After we talked to the counselor, Jane was deathly afraid to go home. She was scared that her dad's gf would find out that she told. Long story short, she went home to a house full of enraged adults. Her parents called her a little sh** and carried her off the ground by her hair. She went up to the counselor today and told her and the social worker that everything was perfectly fine, but i knew that it wasn't, so i went and told the counselor everything that Jane had told me after she went home that day. Now she's really mad at me. She says she just wants everything to go away but i know that it wont just up and disappear. How can i help her? i cant just do nothing and watch my friend suffer. (link)
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To be honest I was just like jane*wanting to keep quiet* except I was sexually abused anyway my best friend got me to talk and I'm ok now :) u are a good friend for wanting to help and protect her. She might be mad at you now but she won't be once its done. Your only option is to tell the police because she is suffering and they can put her in hospital or even worse death pls take this advice and tell the police she won't be mad forever
Hope I helped and goodluck
~michaela~
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Is it rude for my girl to call and text other guys in front of me? I tell her that its disrespectful an ask her not to do it an she gets all mad an defensive ahe says all they are is friends. I mean they get morr attention than I do. (link)
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Yes actually its very rude to be honest you guys shouldn't be on phones while together :) especially with other girls or guys you should talk to her about it. Don't make it sound like u don't trust her though
Hope I helped
~michaela~
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Hi! I am a 19 year old, 3rd year college student taking up Film as my major. Nowadays, I am so very lazy to go to school and do all the school-required stuff. But I am not generally lazy. I mean, I work with my classmates for their projects and I also have an organization in my school where I commit most of my time to, but the school work itself is just so tiring and monotonous and I find no determination to do them anymore. I made it clear to myself that I need to finish school for my parents. They are a main concern. But I don't know what to do anymore. Well...I mean I really know what to do and that's to just work hard and all that but I have no clue how to start or where to get the motivation or ugh! I don't knoooww! (link)
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I'm only 13 in grade 7 so yeah but I rate you stay cs u might regret it,schools tiring for everyone,me to I'm bored to death,hating it more than ever,being victimised even but don't drop out or whatever
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What is a synonym? and where i can find it? (link)
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Synonym is words that's similar in meaning
Example: angry-furious or mad-crazy
Such as a antonoym is a opposite :)
Hope I helped
~michaela~
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I'm afard to have my first period at school HELP!
What should I do ?
I will be inbrssed if I have it at school and it bleeds throo my pants HELP ME PLE.AS (link)
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Yeah it happened to my sister she got it in detention x_x lol well I think maybe you can either take tampons/pads to school everyday if you want or if it does happen you can tell a teacher,prefect/moniter,principal or practically anyone who's old enough to help you if one of your friends have there period and should have something ask them and whoever you ask can give you a tampon/pad. Its not necessarily gonna go through your pnats/dress/skirt
Hope I helped
~michaela~
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Um, i am 13 and i want to dye my hair light brown, but i have not started my period yet. ( my original color is medium dark brown ) someone told me that if i dye my hair before i start my period, my hair could fall out. Will it really fall out, or is it a myth? Please help! (link)
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I'm also 13 haha hey :D well I have had my period but before I did I died my hair dark dark brown with a red shine to it so in the sun its red(not ginger) and my natural hair was light brown and I still have all my hair soo no you can't lose your hair :)
Good luck hope I helped
~michaela~
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Me and my Boyfriend have been using condoms for the passed 4 months since he took my virginity. None has ever broke or had holes in them and no sperm has got on me. My period is due in about 5 days and I usually will feel me starting to cramp. I'm feeling it off and on now but I don't know if I'm imagining it? I'm really paranoid about this and I need advice from someone who knows and can help, please. I'm seriously freaking out. My period isn't late or anything. Its due in about a weel or less. It switches around sometimes so should I be worried? Your advice would be very helpful. Thanks! (link)
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No you can't become pregnant. But if you late or start getting pregnancy symptoms I would suggest you take a pregnancy test
Symptoms can include:
Nasua,headache,tiredness,missed period,food cravings,a stomach of course ect
But just if you do miss your period take the test
Hope I helped
~michaela~
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Me and my friend (call him Paul) always flirted last year but he had a gf. (i already feel terrible for doing that, dont say anything about it please) But they broke up and we started talking more but now he likes this other girl. In the process of them talking, we stopped. I miss talking to him like crazy. I really like him a lot but I dont want to ruin that girls chance with him. He is a great, wonderful, perfect guy and she is so nice and pretty. I am happy for both of them but I still like him. I dont know what to do. I have been staying out of it but i dont really want to anymore but I could never do that to the girl he likes. What should i do? i am so confused (link)
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I agree with mangy mama. He keeps dropping everyone? What says he won't drop you to? I feel for you I really do I had a similar situation but we never flirted and he was 6 years older than me and before his gf and him dated we talked but then he dropped me when dating her now they broke up and he goes to the next girl. Honestly I realized he drops everyone and would just drop me. If I was you I'd just stick to being friends nothing more
Hope I helped and good luck
~michaela~
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