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Is it rude or not rude


Question Posted Thursday January 31 2013, 4:11 am

Is it rude for my girl to call and text other guys in front of me? I tell her that its disrespectful an ask her not to do it an she gets all mad an defensive ahe says all they are is friends. I mean they get morr attention than I do.

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kittenlover2000 answered Thursday January 31 2013, 4:04 pm:
It honetly depends what she's texting them, but yeh it does seem abit ignorant.
However, whislt its best to be protective like this don't nag her about is as you may come across as jealous. Why not sit her down and talk about this sometime?

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miczz121 answered Thursday January 31 2013, 2:23 pm:
Yes actually its very rude to be honest you guys shouldn't be on phones while together :) especially with other girls or guys you should talk to her about it. Don't make it sound like u don't trust her though
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~michaela~
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DuhxxNina answered Thursday January 31 2013, 2:05 pm:
It's definitely rude. I'm a girl and the only boys I ever text are boys that I've been friends with for 6+ years. I'm 17 years old and have been dating my bf for a year and we've actually talked about standards... Maybe you guys should do the same. And tell her that you feel like your not getting attention. Do NOT say "I think YOUR not giving me attention" or anything like that. It's called the "I factor" that u need to use. " I think we should come to an understanding with eachother, because I feel like their getting more attention than I am" when people use the word "you" it sometimes makes people feel defensive.

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Amanii answered Thursday January 31 2013, 11:18 am:
Honestly,it is rude fo her to do that in front of you.I mean if she wants to talk to her guy friends when shes in a relationship,the least she can do istalk to them ehen shes not around you.If this bothers you,then i think you two should seriously should talk about this case before your relationship gets distant.I also think that if your relationship is close and intimate,then you should trust her,even if she talks to several guys,you should know that your relationship is ganna be the same.But if this matter us bothering you,then put an end to it,or at least make her reduce her calls with her guy friends.
Goodluck :)xx

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