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I think I love him but he isn't even mine...
Me and my friend (call him Paul) always flirted last year but he had a gf. (i already feel terrible for doing that, dont say anything about it please) But they broke up and we started talking more but now he likes this other girl. In the process of them talking, we stopped. I miss talking to him like crazy. I really like him a lot but I dont want to ruin that girls chance with him. He is a great, wonderful, perfect guy and she is so nice and pretty. I am happy for both of them but I still like him. I dont know what to do. I have been staying out of it but i dont really want to anymore but I could never do that to the girl he likes. What should i do? i am so confused
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I agree with mangy mama. He keeps dropping everyone? What says he won't drop you to? I feel for you I really do I had a similar situation but we never flirted and he was 6 years older than me and before his gf and him dated we talked but then he dropped me when dating her now they broke up and he goes to the next girl. Honestly I realized he drops everyone and would just drop me. If I was you I'd just stick to being friends nothing more
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~michaela~
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Ok, so he flirted with you WHILE he had a girlfriend (He was probably bored with her, I'm guessing?). Then when they broke up, he started talking to you more (I'm sure probably making you feel like he might have been showing interest, perhaps?) And then this other girl comes along, so he drops contact with you like a lead balloon.
Honestly, he sounds like your basic jerk. What's to like?? Think about it. He treated you like you're expendable, and honey, you are not.
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Let him know you value his friendship and want it to continue even though he's with someone else. If he knows you are a great friend and values that the friendship part of your relationship will continue.
He may not have spoken to you as the relationship is new and may feel as awkward as you do. If you hang back and be a friend to them both you never know what could happen for you if it goes south. It very well might if he realizes the connection with you is stronger.
For now hang back but I have a hunch it will turn out the way you want eventually but yes she deserves her chance. If you remain friends and he gets flirty while with her put the brakes on. He doesn't sound the type so no worries.
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