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Falling in love again?
Hi, I'm 17, female, and a kinda past love of mine is coming to visit soon, I haven't seen him in two years. While he's here I want to get him to fall in love with me? Any tips?
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Get over him. You're 17. You aren't the same person you were when you were 15. This dude could actually be lame as hell, and even if he's not, there's a whole world of guys out there to experience. I'm sure your romance feels like the be all end all of great loves, but it isn't. Be cordial to him, but go find some new boy to chase.
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Think about some really good moments and times you had two years back. Get them sorted in your mind. Like little 'scripts' in a movie, maybe? OK. Then when you're together...replay them, talk to him about them, encoraging him to think back himself and remember them. Get him to talk about HIS best/good memories of the period. Why? Because when we think back about happy times we feel more relaxed and happy and we feel more optimistic and confident about the future. Relaxed, confident and happy are very good things to have in the mix if you're planning to fall in love and be fallen in love with. No gurantees that the 'chemistry' will be there, but you'll be giving it a shove in the right direction! Good luck.X
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there's not much you can do. Just be a good friend and show him how your there, I think the only thing you have to remember is to not act or be a certain way to be liked by him, it might not end well and he might not like you once he realizes..
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There is no guaranteed way to make any person do anything they don't want to do. Thats just life. Everyone has a will and a choice. If there really was a way to make a person fall in love with you, the the nerdiest guy in school you can't stand, lets say he believes he's in love with you, then he could use this special trick to get you to fall in love with him, right?
So, the best thing you can do is to be yourself. You want someone to fall for the real you, not the person you are pretending to be, because if a guy fell for the false you--meant to catch a guy and then you went back to being yourself, you'd lose the guy. Nope, no one is able to continue on a false personality long term, its impossible because it takes such focus with your conscious mind and lots of energy to do so that everyone at one point or another lets the facade slip.
One thing that is attractive to all guys is a girl with self confidence.
Another trick, guys love to feel needed, like they can help you with a task. Asking for a guys help and letting him know how much you appreciate him will draw a guys attention to you more.
But in the end, its a matter of chemistry and if you are able to connect on that level. Some times its truly only felt one way. Good luck
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You can't actually make someone fall in love with you.
So I think the only thing you can do is be yourself and remind him of the good times you guys had. Be friendly, be happy and have a good time and enjoy the time you get to spend with him.
If it's meant to be, it'll happen. If for some reason he doesn't feel the connection, there's nothing you can do to fix that.
So pretty much be happy, be friendly, look extra pretty, and just remind him of the good times you two have had.
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