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Alright so I known this boy since 6th grade. I told him I liked him in 8th grade and also in 9th grade. We're in 10th grade now.. And we would seriously call each other every night. Text, facetime, snapchat, you name it. But these past few weeks have been different. I think it's because we just started school again & he may possibly like another girl. Him and I have study hall together & my friend, Sierra, joins our little group. They've got close. His wallpaper on his phone is Sierra. He wrote her a note and called her 'babe'. But I know they aren't dating. And the word going around is that he might ask her to formal? Well I've confronted Sierra. She said it was true. I was heartbroken. It's the fact that I wasn't even thought of. He knows how I feel about him & all of a sudden he ignores me. I don't know if she will say yes or not. But Sierra knows that I like him. I come to school everyday and tell her what he and I have been through. I could never look at them the same. But my question is..what should I do? I'm pretty sure that Sierra doesn't like him. But I have a feeling that he likes her. Should I not talk to him until he talks to me?
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I have never had a relationship before so I wanna be smart about this
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It's very clear that he likes her. If he didn't, he wouldn't have a picture of her on his phone.
Don't ignore clear signs and make up excuses for it.
I was in the same situation once. I was heart broken so I stayed away, but before I did, I told him how I feel about the whole situation. I wasn't dramatic or anything. I spoke from the heart sincerely and calm. Afterwards, I just left and I said to myself, if a man does not see how much I love him, then I will waste no time in loving him anymore. It's very hard, but I know my worth and how I should be loved by a man. So, I left him and her to do whatever they please and I did me. Needless to say, when it didn't work out, he came back to me. But DON'T fall for it. When no one wants a man, he run back to the woman who actually loved him. And remember, you're not an old shoe that he can run back to.
And your friend may lie due to making you feel a little better. But watch, she could easily go behind your back if she is not a true friend. Be careful.
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It's good that you want to be smart about this. A lot of girls get dramatic and forbid their friends from dating their crushes because they still like them and don't know how to move on.
It does sound like he likes Sierra. I mean no guy just has a girl on his wallpaper, call her babe and ask her to formal if he doesn't like her.
Guys will stop talking to other girls when they like someone else. It sucks, but at least you know when someone has lost interest in you.
If she likes him, she's definitely not going to tell you she does. So I don't think you should hold it against her if she does like him. I know a lot of people get so upset if their friend starts dating their crush. But you really have to choose whether you want them as a friend or not and not let a guy get in the way of that.
You shouldn't keep telling her what you and this guy have been through. She simply might not date him just because she feels bad for you. And that's nothing something you want.
So yeah, don't talk to him and move on.
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Just don't talk to him until he talks to you but if it starts to bother you just talk to him about it. If Sierra and the guy you like hangs out a lot and Sierra says she doesn't like him but she still hangs with him she might like him back too. Sierra might just not want to hurt you. If they don't hang that much then she's telling the truth. Don't try to act jealous or obsessed just don't cut in between the two if they like each other or not even if you know it might not work out. Let the guy find out for himself that you do like him truly and if he doesn't he might not be the one.
Hope I help a little bit :)
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