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Okay so i`m in the eiqhth qrade &+ i like this quy whos a senior. hes seventeen &+ im thirteen. It seems like a huqe difference but aqe is just a number if you ask me. We have talked alot he is extremley mature &+ wants to wait for sex just like I do. At midniqht he always takes his parents car &+ comes see`s me. We have a qreat time toqether &+ what not. He said I was one of the closests friends he has &+ I admitted I liked him to a friend who told him. &+ now he has talked to me alot more lately. he calls me all the time. i was wonderinq does he like me or does he feel bad. My parents love him &+ his love me. I like him alot i`m confused.

he must like you some atleast, if he just felt bad i doubt he'd go out of his way to call you n stuff. good luck though, hope things work out =]

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ok so like what do yall consider virgin? does that include even if youve been/done fingerin & like oral stuff ?

if you haven't had like 'sexual intercourse' than you're still a virgin in my opinion. Fingering & oral doesn't mean you arent a virgin anymore.

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ok this is for girls i guess.

what is the right way to shave the vaginal area? becuase some people have said shave in the way the hair goes...so like down i guess? but then the area isnt smooth. so then if you shave the other way you can get cut and really bad razor burn? is there any way to get it smooth with out any or little razor burn?

and is it ok to use nair for down there?

wellll i dont think you should ever like bring the razor up cuz that just hurts and yeah, but bring the razor down, then like diagnol and it gets it pretty smooth. hope i helped =]

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is masturbation bad for your body?

no it*s "safe && healthy"

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u helped alot and i apreciate it alot.

IM you well what is your thing at hotmail or what. anywho i just wanted to say thankyou for all u said.

monn

i use hotmail and AIM. On both of them my sn is crazlilchelc152. I*m very glad i helped you!!
xoxo, chelsea

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hey i heard you were advicenator of the day so you must give good advice so heres my problem... my boyfriend really wants me to sleep with him, beacause youve answered tons of sexual questions you must have had a lot of expierence and i was wondering do you think we will still be as close as we were and would it be awkward and does it hurt and how was ur first time like?

thanks a billion answer soon!

heyy, sry i didn*t get to this sooner, mi fricken comp is broken!! Anyway, yeah i myself have never had sex but i know a lot about it and stuff. I don*t know how long you 2 have been together so that might change what it*s like afterwards. I think you should only do it if your positive about this guy. Also i*ve heard that it hurts the first time because your cherry pops (hymen rips). BUT you could*ve already popped it with a tampon. The pain really depends on the person. SOO be safe, make sure he*s protected. Hope i helped hun, and have fun! *chelsea

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how do you make your advice column pretty? with colors and stuff, haha thatd be helpful and i'd definately rate you!

-meg

WELL i personally think mi site is very pretty hehe so here*s some sites that helped!!

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=BestBackgrounds2

I went to this site and found a background i liked (i just used one of the VERY small glittery things at the bottom) and i rite clicked it and did like copy image location. Then you go put the URL in the spot for it on column settings.

http://www.xanga.com/layouts_galleries

That site has all the color codes listed and when you find one you like put the code (example:: FFCC99) in the page text, page links, sidebar text, and sidebar links.

OR if you want a background picture of like a puppy (random.. yeah) then go to google images and search for what you want!!

hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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OK i've never worn eyeshadow that much but i sorta wanna now..is it true that a brown or tan shadow goes with hazel eyes? if not, then what color goes with hazel?? thanks!!

yeah browns//gold look lovely with hazel eyes, try to find one with some shimmer it looks GORGEOUS! hope i helped hun! xoxo, chelsea

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whats a good way to sorta spice up my hair? My hair is about an inch or two below my shoulders, i have sideswept bangs, and i wear a sidepart. I usually wear my hair just striaght or up. Any ideas to make my style a little more interesting and different?

scrunch it to make it wavy i absolutely love that!! All you do is take a shower and when your hair is still like towel dry (deff. still wet) put mousse in your hands and put it in your hair and put your hand at the bottom and pushing your hair up//scrunch it! It looks so cute and it*s reallllly easy!! hope i helped beautiful! xoxo, chelsea

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i've liked this boy for about a year now and i told him i like him and i THINK he likes me but once i got the feeling that he liked me i started to dislike him mroe it was wicked weird..and i liekd him so much when he didnt like me that i actually cried..whats wrong with me???

ooh i no EXACTLY wut your talkin bout, it*s one of those things that you want what you can*t have and as soon as you do it*s like.. oh ok and it*s not exactly what your looking for. Part of you gets so excited and your expecting sumthing AMAZING and then when you get him it*s not wut u like anticipated you know. There*s nothing wrong with you, maybe you should just find sum1 else.. sry i prolly wusn*t much help, but yeah, lol. xoxo, chelsea

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i'm just wondering, who would you guys recommend as giving the best advice??? like you could say people on the top rated columnists but i want ones from other people's personal opinions. thanks!

hey hun! well here*s sum of mi personal faves!


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Mackenzie
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My brother is away for the week and i'm normally allowed to stay up to 11 and my brother makes sure i go to bed. So i'm staying up later (a lot later) and i'm eating a lot at night. i'm afraid that i'm going to gain a lot of weight because i'm not going to be able to work it off. i don't want to throw it up because 1.that's just nasty 2.it's unhealthy 3.if i try it i might continue and become bulimic. could someone help me on what to do?

oh gosh one of mi biggest problem. Whenever I start getting hungry @ night i either go to sleep then or get miself something to drink. After a few nights the cravings begin to stop because your on a sort of schedule, hope i helped hun! xoxo, chelsea

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13/f
My best friends friend who i meet on AIM, is now my boyfriend...i havent met him yet but we say i love you and stuff. I'm not sure if i really want to break up with him but i dont want to have my first kiss with him. I mean he's nice but not cute, and i dont know if i should tell him i dont want to kiss him becuase he said he really wanted to,can anyone help me?

I think you should just break up with him and tell him that you*d just rather have somebody you can see on a daily basis, but remain friends. I know wut online relationships are like and believe me they are easy to like stop loving//liking that person i promise!! hope i helped hun! xoxo, chelsea

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ok so in 3 days i leave my dad u see him and my mom are divorced and well i visit him every summer now that the summer is almost over. well i am goin back to my mom. but i am a male so it is hard for me to say goodbye to him ever since i was little sain bye killed me but as i aged and got older it got harder. i pray to god to protect my dad so i may see him again. and i ask for me to be safe while taking the plane. and then i ask y does my heart hurt so much. now it is about 3 days till i leave here. and i am not ready to leave because at the age i am now 15 my heart needs my dad. my question is well what are some versus i can look into to help me with my heartache. and if u all would pray for me to have a safe trip and to be able to handle my heartache with passion and with out guilt cause i always feel like it is my fault. i am apodted and since i didn't know my real parents and my real dad the dad i have here is the closest thing i have and withouth him i am a lone or so it feels like
thny
monn

I know exactly what your talking about. Unfortionately though I don*t see my dad anymore but every 4-5 years for a day!! it*s really hard and reading that almost made me cry, but i*m an emotional kid.. anyway enuff about me. I will pray for you because i know what your going through, i*m adopted as well!! But just remind yourself he*s fine and that you will see him again, maybe see if you can visit him on a holiday or if he can come visit you!! I can*t say i know of any versus but i can promise you, you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Just give him a huge hug, tell him you love him and you*ll miss him and try talking every weekend. Me and my dad used to do that and every sunday we would take turns calling eachother. I hope i helped sweetie and have a safe trip!! xoxo, chelsea

*please tell me how things work out, and if you need anything else leae one in mi inbox or im me @ crazlilchelc152

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Okay, well someone on here told me to use "sun in" for my hair to lighten it. And i was wondering so i can tell my mom and see if she will get it for me.. how much is it? and where can i get it?

♥ thanks

oooh please don*t buy that! i know 2 people who tried it and it does make your hair orangy ugh it completely RUINED mi friend angie*s color, she had to go get it professionally fixed. I do NOT suggest it!! but if you reallllly wanna take the risk they have it @ like wal mart n drugstores for around $5. hope i helped hun! xoxo, chelsea

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I'm on the cusp of girls sizes and junior sizes. The thing is, I don't like any of the girls styles anymore. I love the stuff at american eagle but I just can't fit into it. I can't even wear abercrombie jeans becaus I have a large butt and a small waist so the waist is always big and the butt fits. What do I do?? I found a pair of really nice tractor pants at Bloomingdales, but thats just ONE pair!!!

Well i suggest just seeing if you fit into a 00 or 0. Get a size that fits over your butt and if it*s big in the waste just get a cute belt!! I have a problem similar to that, but i have big hips and a big butt but skinny legs ugh it*s frusterating but you*ll find stores that fit your shape i promise!! hope i helped hun! xoxo, chelsea

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my dad has never told me he's loved me until last week when we were on the phone. I said it first, but i am glad he said it back. it is awkward to say it again. My question is...is it normal for dads not to say he loves his daughtor and should i keep on saying i love him when i see him or talk to him on the phone?

well, even if your dad doesn*t tell you he loves you it might be because it*s painful for him ( I take it you don*t live with him ) but he loves you whether he says it or not. Just keep saying it even if he doesn*t say it first, he prolly LOVES hearing you say that, i know my dad does. hope i helped hun! xoxo, chelsea

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Is it safe to wear a tampon to sleep in? I'll probably sleep around 9 hours tonight .. I'm just not sure if that's safe (TSS). If I wear a pad, it usually leaks and gets on my shorts im wearing to bed. What should I do?

i ALWAYS wear a tampon to bed and i don*t have TSS just make sure you put it in rite before bed and take it out rite when u wake up!! hope i helped hun! xoxo, chelsea

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okay. i recently found out that my sister is bi-sexual, so today i confrounted her about it, and at first she was all like no, then she finnaly started talking so im like okay... gross, i mean its her choice, but i dont know, its gonna be weird to hang around her and stuff, knowing that she doesnt trust me and it makes me mad, b/c now that i know, i dont think she'll trust me or anyone else. so what do i do??? im very confused and betrayed, so is she. but what do you think i should do?

- JC

i don*t exactly understand your question so could you resend it in a like different way? sry i*m a complete idiot

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me and my boyfriend both want to have sex the problem is we are both virgins so its gonna be weird lol...how exactly do u have sex???? weird and stupid question but i need to know..i rate high

hmm well i*m actually a virgin too, but basically the guy sticks his penis in the girl*s vagina.. haha yeah i*m sure you get that. There are tons of diff. positions though but i*m sure you guys won*t get too confused, but it*s not really gonna feel too amazing the first time so when your doin it it actually mite hurt so don*t freak out!! sry i couldn*t help much but good luck i*m sure you*ll do fine!! xoxo, chelsea

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