Question Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 11:53 pm
i've liked this boy for about a year now and i told him i like him and i THINK he likes me but once i got the feeling that he liked me i started to dislike him mroe it was wicked weird..and i liekd him so much when he didnt like me that i actually cried..whats wrong with me???
I'm going to tell you something that'll probably hurt you, and wound your ego. He doesn't like you. If he did, you'd be dating him. He knows you like him, but he's not doing anything about it. That should be a sign. You can make excuses for that, or you could face the facts. That's right-- guys actually LIKE getting what they want (in this case, that would be you.)
There's nothing wrong with you. I think you're realizing that you don't like him as much as you thought you did. You liked him because you couldn't have him. That made your emotions dramatic, which usually intensifies them.
craZlilchelC152 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 1:14 am: ooh i no EXACTLY wut your talkin bout, it*s one of those things that you want what you can*t have and as soon as you do it*s like.. oh ok and it*s not exactly what your looking for. Part of you gets so excited and your expecting sumthing AMAZING and then when you get him it*s not wut u like anticipated you know. There*s nothing wrong with you, maybe you should just find sum1 else.. sry i prolly wusn*t much help, but yeah, lol. xoxo, chelsea [ craZlilchelC152's advice column | Ask craZlilchelC152 A Question ]
urmomsachltcvrddnt answered Thursday August 11 2005, 12:37 am: Haha, nothing is wrong with you. The whole "liking someone so much you're crying" thing has happened to a lot of people. ME!!! Again, nothing is wrong with feeling funny about him liking you. It was really brave of you to tell him you like him; I could never do that!!! [ urmomsachltcvrddnt's advice column | Ask urmomsachltcvrddnt A Question ]
ADViCEx4xY0U answered Thursday August 11 2005, 12:34 am: Sometimes people want something that they can't have until they know that they can have it. Once they can have it, they don't want it anymore. If this isn't the case, then maybe you're just nervous about being more than friends with him. That happens a lot. I hope everything works out & hopefully I helped.
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