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What are different ways to style sidesweeping bangs? Im getting them tomorrow - should I cut them to the bottom of my ear? Cheekbone? Longer?

cheekbone bc you dont want them too long)i kno i have them)

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my best friend said shes gunna run away tomorrow. i said i'd always be there for her and i will. im planning on keeping her at my house and she said she wants to go to her boyfriends house some of the days. and thats fine with me. should i let her for a little while? or should i just say no u cannot come to my house. well...i kinda believe her but she kinda doesnt do what she says shes gunna do. soo what do I do?!
will rate 5's

let her stay at your house then tell her you are going to her boyfriends house with her or she cant stay at your house

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So theres this guy that was in my class last year and i went to the same camp as him and we would hang out toghter like evryday and people kept saying we liked each other.He flirts with me all the time.Hes older guy friends says he does like me but i dont know if i should belive them.Should we be friends or not?

dont flirt back have a friend go up to him and tell him you like him and then tell your friend to ask if he likes you, if he says no tell your friends to laugh at him and tell him that they tricked him and that you dont like him and that you dont kno that they are talking to him, then if he asks you about it act like you dont kno what he is talking about, but if he says nothing then go up to him and tell him that you found out what your friends did and that you dont like him , that way he wont think that you told them to say all of that stuff, and he wont kno you like him (if you do like him)but if he says he likes you then have your friends to tell him to ask you out, (never ask a guy ouy it makes you look desprite)

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My best friend, Lily, in the whole world just got in trouble with her parents because I was out later with her than I should've. Then her parents agreed that they didn't want me hanging out with her.

This really upsets me, but that's not all. She told her parents in the first place that my grandma was going to be there, but of course she wasn't going to be, but she had to say that in order to go. So the both of us had to walk home from this big thing my town was throwing on the 11th of this month, and now it's the 21st and I haven't talked to her since at all, not even online.

I'm really bothered by the fact that she told her parents all this stuff that got her out of trouble. Her parents hate me now, but they forgave her because she started this big scene and made herself cry... basically did the full drama thing.

Now I really have no desire to talk to her. Not because her parents don't like me, because she got herself out of trouble and didn't even attempt to make things work out between her parents and me. She used to be my best friend, and now I have no idea what to do. I'm really sad that she did this to me, and I really wanted to see her but she didn't even try to make things better.

I'm really sorry it's so long. Please help!

well you should go to her house and defend yourself tell them how she was the one who lied to them not you and that you dont want to be friends with their daughter bc she is the one who made them hate you by not defending you, tell them that you just wanted to tell them that you think it is unfair that they dont like you. then ask if you can talk to their daughter tell her that you wanted to talk to her and tell her how upset it made you that she did not defend you and that you dont want to be friends with her bc of it . (if she tries to apolgize telll her you will think about it) and if her parents still dont like you and dont care about anything that you say then tell them that you just had to explain yourself and leave

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a few months ago, i was rejected by this guy. now i like his friend. i wanna ask him out, but would i look desperate if i did?

wait to see if he likes you have a friend talk to him for you make sure he thinks that you dont kno your friend is talking to him for you cuz things could be really weird between you and him if he likes you then wait a few days and then have your friend tell him you like him and tell her to make sure to hint that you would go out with him , dont ask him out let him ask you and then you wont look desprite at all

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Advice needed ASAP!!!!!!!!!
I have recently moved to a smaller place and was not able to take my dog(pitbull)with me so she is now staying with a relative. They also have a dog(pitbullX) which my dog has socialised with for most of her life and they have gotten along fine UNTIL today............ I went for a visit (which I do on A daily basis) and next thing I know they are FIGHTING!!!!! and i dont mean play fighting. There was alot of blood and alot of tears (from me)... and now I am wondering WHAT TO DO???? My relatives aren't happy IM NOT HAPPY and certainly I feel the dogs wouldn't be very happy.I am thinking of buying a muzzle????? but am just not sure.. Does any1 think now that she has had the 'taste for blood' that she will be a vicious dog??? She is usually a lovely dog (until 2day) and now I am having trust issues. My last option will be to put her down :( as I will not be moving for a while... Any advice would be helpful as atm they are tied up and THEY ARE NOT HAPPY. (Oh and the dogs arent SERIOUSLY injured in case you wondering just lots of little cuts and scratches which are being tended to)

the dog is fighting because he is most likely a dog that needs all of the attention, i have a dog and then we got another dog they always foght over attention so we had to give our other dog away to a family that would only have one dog, so she could have all of the attention i was really sad but i knew that my dog would be happier with all of the attention.so i think you should find a new home for your dog and make sure to tell the people that your dog needs all of the attention and not to get another dog

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Hey. I am going out with my best friend. Before we were going out, he was so sweet and loving and everything. Now that we are going out, he doesn't act like that anymore. First he was really bad, he basically ignored me. (It wasn't because he was embarrassed)Now he has gotten better but still hasn't gone back to normal. I know he is trying, but how long is too long? (Its been 5 months!)

i think you have been waiting to long let him down easy tell him you like him but you want to go back to being best friends, it will take a while for things to go back to the way they were but if you try hard then you will be back to best friends.

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HELP ME! I WILL RATE 5s FOR ANYONE WHO TRYS TO HELP! i am going out with this guy that i really like and i kinda like this other guy to and he likes me and idk what to do cause i like the guy i am going out with and i dont want us to break up! what is a better choice. THANKS SO MUCH

you should stay with the guy you are going out with now because if you brake up with him for someone alse you dont kno what could happen maybe the other guy could change his mind, or maybe he does not even like you then you would lose your relationship for nothing

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i recently got kicked out of my house, illegally, by my dad. i had a job before i left, and i was friends with a guy there. i had a cell phone on my dad's plan- but he screwed me over too many times with the bill, and he always questioned me about who's numbers were who's. well, this guy offered to put me on his plan- because he's get the phone for free- and if anything- i'd be helping him out- with the bill and all- cuz weve been splitting in directly in half- no matter who goes over. ive had it for maybe 6 or 7 months. but since ive ben kicked out- i lost my job- and another guy at work has been paying my phone bills for me- (the last 3 months). my gramma- who i live with- has never liked the idea of me having a phone on someone else's plan. well, lastnight- we got into an argument about it- and we fought. like, physically. she told me i could keep the phone until monday- but that i had to give it back to him then. i feel horrible- but i just need to know- does she in fact have the right to do that?- i mean, she's not my legal guardian- and the phone was given to me- it's not like i begged for it.my phone is my only bit of freedom here- and i cant live without it. someone please share what you think.

well i dont think your grandmother has the right to tell you what to do but you live in her house so dont screw it up cuz then you might not have any where to live! you should give back the phone or you will havee to pay your friend alot of money, money that you might need. and if you dont still have that job, then you should find anew one so you can pay back that guy. and you might need money if your grandma kicks you out too because you guys are fighting.

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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?

well i think it is cute but a little weird but deffinatly more cute than weird.

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what does it mean to "sweat" something? like ex- "i sweat this song" what does that mean?

it means you like it alot

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I want to try out for my highschools cheerleading squad.. Ive never cheered b4 but i heard that high school tryout are hard. if u tried out for you high schools cheerleading squad, what did you have to do?

i would ask someone with experiance to teach me everything she knows about cheerleading and i would work out alot, i would also do flips on a trampoline of a friend and then try to do a flip on the ground because cheerleaders do flips

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RATE 5s!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

my little sister is OBSESSED with jamie lynn spears and her show zoey 101. she's watched every episode like 10 times and she even wears clothes almost EXACTLY the same as the ones zoey wears! she searches for them everywhere! and she always wants to role play them..and i get dragged into it! she wants to be zoey for halloween, but guess what..she's zoey EVERYDAY! this is driving me insane, my parents think it's cute. i thought it was at first, but now it's getting out of hand! please help, her room is covered with zoey 101 & jamie lynn spears. her aim is zoey101lover something and jamie lynn spears is her idol! she's so totally obsessed..it's becoming unbearable! HELP!

make her watch a new show so then she wont be as obsessed

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okay so like 2 years ago me and my friend begged our moms to get our belly button peirced.. they said after i turn 16..which is in august. but i duno, am i right wen i say getting your belly button peirced is played out?

belly button rings are so cute

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What are some jewlery stores that sell rings? I cant find any that i like!!!!!! Please Website would be helpfull! !

Signed,
Ringless

iceing, and claires

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What is the best energy drink to buy besides red bull? Does starbucks double shot give you alot of energy?

there is a gum called jult and i think it is a drink too. the gum really works

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ok so there is this counselor at my camp and she is gross. she talks annoing, not to mention she has sweaty armpits with wet all around it everyday at camp! i would expect a teenage GIRL to be a little more sanitary. i mean boys its ok but its just disturbing with girls. ick! and it is also kind of gross the kind of bra she wears. she has like e cup boobs (if there is any lol) n she wears like an a cup!!!!!! its like pushing into her skin and its even more gross in the front. im the camper, she is the counslor. i dont think that sounds right. what can i do to tell her about this gross problem without actually telling her? i hate going to camp now!

be nice try to be friends with her, so you can tell her without herting her feelings (even if you dont like her)invite a bunch of girls to hang out like a sleep over and invite her talk about bra's and then say something to her but laugh about it (not mean or anything) then give her sugestions like wearing a bigger bra and tell the peole you invit over b 4 so they know to say something to her too and make sure to say something to someonae alse to it wont make her feel like you are ganging up on her

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What are good hairstyles for people with bigger heads/foreheads?

to hide a long 4 head get banges if you dont like bangs get side banges there are really cute and are like banges but they are only on the side and they are not as anoying as banges

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my skin, like on most of my body is covered in (little) bumps. ive had them my whole like but i dont kno what they are and personally, all i want to do is get rid of them! i hate it. its not a rash or anything like that but it wont go away with lotions, exfoliation, or creams, or anything else i have tried. plz help me!!! i rate 5's!!!!!

ask your doctor for a perskription they always work and your parents will usually pay for them!

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what is the quickest/fastest way to get rid of a pimple?

ask your doctor for a perskription they work for me

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