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Friends or not?
My best friend, Lily, in the whole world just got in trouble with her parents because I was out later with her than I should've. Then her parents agreed that they didn't want me hanging out with her.
This really upsets me, but that's not all. She told her parents in the first place that my grandma was going to be there, but of course she wasn't going to be, but she had to say that in order to go. So the both of us had to walk home from this big thing my town was throwing on the 11th of this month, and now it's the 21st and I haven't talked to her since at all, not even online.
I'm really bothered by the fact that she told her parents all this stuff that got her out of trouble. Her parents hate me now, but they forgave her because she started this big scene and made herself cry... basically did the full drama thing.
Now I really have no desire to talk to her. Not because her parents don't like me, because she got herself out of trouble and didn't even attempt to make things work out between her parents and me. She used to be my best friend, and now I have no idea what to do. I'm really sad that she did this to me, and I really wanted to see her but she didn't even try to make things better.
I'm really sorry it's so long. Please help!
<3 Nicole
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well you should go to her house and defend yourself tell them how she was the one who lied to them not you and that you dont want to be friends with their daughter bc she is the one who made them hate you by not defending you, tell them that you just wanted to tell them that you think it is unfair that they dont like you. then ask if you can talk to their daughter tell her that you wanted to talk to her and tell her how upset it made you that she did not defend you and that you dont want to be friends with her bc of it . (if she tries to apolgize telll her you will think about it) and if her parents still dont like you and dont care about anything that you say then tell them that you just had to explain yourself and leave
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I would talk to your friend and let her know how you feel. She may feel bad about the situation and not know how to change it.
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Your friend acted really selfishly. She tired to save her own ass by making you out to be the bad guy but I'd like to try and break this down for you.
1.) Her parents are morons for blaming thier daughters bad behavoir on her friends, they are going to pay for that big time.
2.) She wasn't a very good friend when she let you take all the blame and she is not making this any better by refusing to talk to you or apologize.
If you really want to contact her I'd tell her that you are very hurt and would like an apology. If you want to see her agian with her parents permisson she will probably have to tell them the truth. If she isn't willing to do that then your friendship wasn't as important to her as it was to you. Thats terribly sad and painful but you can't fix it, just hope that your friend is capable of acting responsibly.
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