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ok so there is this counselor at my camp and she is gross. she talks annoing, not to mention she has sweaty armpits with wet all around it everyday at camp! i would expect a teenage GIRL to be a little more sanitary. i mean boys its ok but its just disturbing with girls. ick! and it is also kind of gross the kind of bra she wears. she has like e cup boobs (if there is any lol) n she wears like an a cup!!!!!! its like pushing into her skin and its even more gross in the front. im the camper, she is the counslor. i dont think that sounds right. what can i do to tell her about this gross problem without actually telling her? i hate going to camp now!
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anonymous -
First off, because she may not have an appearance up to your standards, does not mean that she's any less of a person. So please, don't treat her like one.
If this bothers you so much, why not speak to whoever is in charge? Tell them that you don't believe her appearance is as appropriate for a camp counselor and it makes you uncomfortable.
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Okay, first of all, clear your mind of all prejudices. Get rid of male/female double standards. It's okay for a guy to be disgusting but not a girl...this is not a good way to think...now, take a deep breath and say to yourself that you're just going to ignore it. Accept that she's a disgusting pig, and move on, and don't look at her so much! And maybe you can talk to one of your friends when she's around and say how you don't really like to wear bras because they're mostly too small for your breasts, and maybe she'll get the idea not to wear bras, which I know is still gross but atleast better than bras that are too small. Maybe you can do the same thing and say like, "I wear men's deodorant because women's is weak and doesn't stop me sweating."
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be nice try to be friends with her, so you can tell her without herting her feelings (even if you dont like her)invite a bunch of girls to hang out like a sleep over and invite her talk about bra's and then say something to her but laugh about it (not mean or anything) then give her sugestions like wearing a bigger bra and tell the peole you invit over b 4 so they know to say something to her too and make sure to say something to someonae alse to it wont make her feel like you are ganging up on her
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