Iv been here for a few months and I belive that helping others is a way give others hope in there lives my advice is straight forward .I have my own problems like anyone eles out there but I keep looking for the answers .sometimes life isn't easy or not fair but you live and learn every day .I hope that anyone looking for the advice they need truly helps and if you need my advice I'm here for you .I might not have all the answers but I will do my best with this said good luck to all
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I have a maltipoo who is 6 months. She weighs 2 pounds and has thinner fur. She's very tiny and when I
take her out to go potty, she freezes! She has boots and a jacket. But they don't seem to help much. I'm trying to potty train her but I don't know, should I switch to like .. Litter box or something :/ (link)
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I have a small dog also he's a chuhuaha .I guess that's how u spell it .anyways I use a pee pad that he goes on especaly in the winter time .since I live in an apartment and don't have my own yard .its covienint .I live in dallas tx and the weather is not predictable here .especaly in the winter time it can get cold .so if you get your dog poty trained on a pad first it will be very easy to train your dog to go outside.its all about routine .my dog will now go to the door when he wants out and if its raining or too cold he will go to his pad in the spare bathroom .just be patient .
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my dog ate an entire bag of Reese Peanut butter Cups. What should i Do? (link)
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Choclate is poison to a dog .you need to take him to a vet imediatly .small amounts won't hurt hm too bad but a whole bag !!! Not good
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Well l am a teenager and I'm dating a guy who has A LOT of experience. He wants to have sex, and I do to but there's only one problem....I am over weight and I have stretch marks on my stomach. I don't think he knows because I haven't told him and I always wear a shirt around him. We've been dating a long time, we know all about protection, and I can honestly say I love him and we are planning on getting married when we graduate high school. But I need help, I am scared to death that when we are going to have sex he will take one look at my disgusting body and never want to get physical like that again. Please, any advice? Serious answers only please. Thank you for your time. (link)
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Well if you two have been together for a long time like you say .and if he loves you then he loves you flawes or not .don't be so self awere of your flawes everybody has them .your either too big or too skinny or too short or too tall and it goes on and on .if you plan on getting maried you aren't going to hide it from him .just bare t all ! You might be suprised .my wife used to weigh 200lbs and now she weighs 150lbs so you could emagin the stretcmarks and flab on her .but it doesn't stop me from getting to my most intament moments with her .why ! Because I love her no matter what its uncanditional .that's what its all about flawes or no flawes .so don't wory about stretchmarks .just be comfortable with yourself .and he will be comfortable with you .and if you please him he wll please you .trust me you will thank me latter .
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when having sex i like to do anything that feels good for my boyfriend and i want to give my boyfriend an amazing blowjob. but other than "dont use teeth" i dont know much about it. what feels good for you? what dosent?
anything will help!
thanks K-17 (link)
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Frst of all start out slow by teasing use your toung and swerle around the tip of his penis caled the head .then go up and down like your sucking a lolipop .the rest wll come natural to you .but don't take more in than you can handle .my wife once used a cough drop especialy menthol while she was going down on me and to my suprise it was the best orgasm iv ever had .but there realy isn't. A wrong way to do t unles you do use your teeth lol but they always say practice makes perfect .
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what is the factor that prevent illegal sex (link)
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Its the law ....
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 1 year and a half... We have a 3 month old daughter... I'll admit I get a little jealous... I found out that he has been texting his ex girlfriend who lives in california (we live in texas) and deleted all the messages from and to her but the rest he left... he said its nothing were just good friends... and he said he deleted them cuz he knew i would get mad... We got in this HUGE argument about it and said that he'll stop contact with her... and he did... NOW i come to find out hes texting another ex gilrfriend of his who lives here in the same city.... I'm torn... I dont know what to do.... any suggestions compliments advices will help. (link)
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Girl I hate to tell u this but it sounds to me like he's playing .why eles would he be talking to his ex .put two and two together .know you are wondering should he stay or should he go .should I try to salage what we got because we have achild together .that's a big queation?? First off you need to finde out why he's talkng to his ex .I mean tthats what the are ex,s I don't talk to my ex wife .I haven't in 10 years so why is he talking to his .so how many ex,s does he have anyways ? You need to have a long talk with him .and be firm and tell him its either them or me you decide .don't back down either .he has no reason to talk to them .period.... I'm with you girl good luck ..........
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OK so i don't no if all vagina's look like this, but i fell like mines really ugly. like my outer lips of my vagina are like darker then everything else, there also like wrinkly. is this what all vagina's look like or do i just have an ugly vag? (link)
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I'm with adviceman49 I haven't seen an ugly vagina yet .unless your like 80 or something .my ex wife had a large labia but it maid it more enjoyable sexualy .but don't be asamed of what you got .enjoy it .you didn't say what age you where .but I asume your in your teens .but here's what eles. Can tell you when you finde the right person he will love you no matter what .guys do the same thing with there penis is too small .will I please her .and so on .trust me everybody has concerns about there private parts that's normal .so don't worry about it your fine just the way you are .
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19/f i feel tired all the time. my weight is pretty low, like 94 pounds. i am 5"4. i have been put on remeron by my psychiatrist and it works, however i am still sleepy. i feel like its been getting worse. i think a lot of it is my diet. i eat junk food and a lot of meat. yesterday i took a 2 hour nap. i woke up and i was okay for a while but then i was extremely sleepy again. on Saturday night i felt sleepy at around 8 o clock, and i usually sleep a little later on the weekends. yesterday i was sleepy at 9, and this was even after i took a nap. so i don't know what to do. what's wrong with me? help! (link)
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Well here's your problem its the side affects from the medications .I used to take remeron for my depresion but. Had to take other medications on top of the remeron to couteract the side efects from the remeron and then I had to take another medcation to counteract the side efect of that medcation and so on and so on its a never ending cycle .I literealy had a local pharmacy right at home .but to the point its the remeron and other medications your tacking .you are takng other medications right ??I'm telling you get off of that stuff before you realy go crazzy .it cost my mairage and my family .but that's why you are sleepy all the time and have weird sleeping patterns .ts the sde efects ....
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I'm 22 years old, but grown for my age.
Iv been living with my wife for 6 years, since i was 16 ( she was 20 at the time ).we have had our problems for a while now. and im sick of it. for the passed 2 years i havent felt the same way about her as i did when i was 16 years old. she was my first girlfriend, well first and last everything. I feel like have haven't fully lived my life. like iv limited my self to one person. hard to explain. It like i grabbed the first book i saw in the store and said * good enough * before looking around. and she was soo much older then me back then, but now that im 22 and shes 26, iv relized that im not having the fun my friends are. Im not going out to the clubs, im not going dancing, bar hopping, ect. i know marrage is a commitment but, if i only live once, im going to make it count . what if there are other girls that can make me happyer? what if there someone eles that shares more hobbys with me? argue less, better sexually. im so lost right now. i just got back from iraq but iv felt this way since befor i left.i feel oblagated to stay because my military insureance covers her medical problems. and with out it she couldnt afford it herself. i donno what to do. do i stay married and unhappy? (link)
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There comes a time in your life where you have to do what's right for you .but on the other hand you do have a commentment and being married at an early age always is no good but you have to decide if you love this woman or not and find in your heart what's right for you .marage can be a beautiful thing if you both make it happen but and I do say but both of you have to be cmmited to eachother and make it work .I'm not saying dvorce is wrong but if its salvageable than why go to the truble .if I where you talk to your wife and tell her how you fell .it sounds like to me you are bored in your rlationship .get out and discover differen things together make your lives more intresting spice it up at home when you both go out together .it makes a world of differance when you rediscover eacother it will make thing new again .that's what me and my wife did to save our relationship .it works trust me
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I am suffering from bipolar disorder. I cannot concentrate on one thing. Because at one moment i feel that it is a very good thing and i get very much interested and the next minute i get bored from that thing and get least interested in that thing. I want to stop that task at that time and want to do something different. The same thing happens with that task also and evenually i keep bouncing from one task to the other, be it studies or any other thing, any thought. It goes with money, girls, internet, everything. For example, At once i get interested in making money, i make many plans of making money, read as many articles as i can, and am very very interested. Then after few minutes i get bored and come to the conclusion that making money is not a good thing or is a very boring thing. Then i go making girlfriends. Same thing happens with it. Eventually i waste my time doing nothing worthwhile. Please help. (link)
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I don't think you have bipolar diorder I think you have adhd diorder because people with bipolar diorder can be happy one minute then pissed off the next and they also engage in risky behavior like for instnce gambling shoplifting multiple sex partners etc people with adhd can't concentrate and git bored vary easy not able to complete tasks and are preocupied with two many things .I don't know who diagnosed you with bipolar but I do belive its the wrong diagnosses .you need a second opnion defanatly .
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Ok so I have been masterbating for about 2-3 months and its making me feel horiable like i stop a day or 2 at a time then just start up again i realy need help i know people will say its good for you but it makes me feel horiable plz help (link)
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You shouldt be asamed of masterbating .its human nature to explore yourself and a desier for doing what feels good .I can't tell you who dosent masterbate .you should only feel guilty if you do it obsesivly .then there's a problem .and that's your personal thing nobody needs to know about it .my opinon is you are mormal and no need to feel guilty about it just be yourself and do what you do and be happy loosen up your fine !!
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I'm bleaching my hair (This is not the first time I've bleached it so I know what I'm doing) and I just washed it out of my hair but I smelled some of the ammonia and I feel light headed and I kind of feel sick like I feel like throwing up almost so can it make you pass out or sick? :( (link)
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Well if you smell enough of it .it can make you naustious and also lightheaded I sugest you get plenty of fresh air and you should be just fine .you should always open a window before putting any color in your hair so you won't feel sick ,ther more air the better
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I want to really show my girlfriend that I love her a whole lot. I always tell her I love her but I want to prove it. What are some great ways to show my girlfriend who much I really care for her and love her? I want her to know that I completely and totally love her with every cell in my body. How can I prove that love to her? All idea are accepted and appreciated. (link)
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Its not just words but actions .if you realy want to show you love her buy her a ring like a promis ring that will show her that you are committed to her .she would melt n your hands .
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hey I dont know if its possible to make a thread on this site, so just added the link to your previous answer:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=587331
Im just afraid that if I tell him he can, he's gonna go full blown with it again, because he is addicted. And I doubt he wants to quit, he tells me he really likes it, so I guess the only thing stopping him is me..
I dont want him to lie to me about it, and thats bound to happen in the current situation. So do you think that I should let him, but ask him to scale down? Does it really help with stress? Doesnt it just cause more? (because you now also have to feed your addiction, you'll smoke even when you dont have other stress?) (link)
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Some people live wth stress every day lke me .I'm not sayng that's his problem but people smoke for different reasons stress is just one of them .it could be bordem I mean every body has an addiction .some people are addicted to over eating some are addictid to tv some people are addictid to gossip and list goes on and on does that make it healthy of course not but we all have are own addictions . And like I said before if you force him to quit it would only complicate matters .I mean if you realy love him you would except his flaws .lke me when I smoke I do it outside because I dcont like the smell either .I mean its real complicated but you can't force him to do something he's not wlling to do .just ask him to not smoke as much to slow down .that's all you can do dear .except hm in his flaws as he excepts you in yours .and be happy if you need any more advice by all means let me know
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Me and my boyfriend were raised very differently. No one in my family smokes, and Ive never wanted or needed to and in the event it would simply not be allowed. My boyfriend's whole family, parents, stepparents, siblings etc all smoke, and he used to smoke himself a few years ago. He still had the occational social cigarretes, but after we've been dating for a while I told him that I dont want him to smoke at all. We have now been together for 2 years and even though he smokes every now and then 'because he cant help it', he is mostly off of smoking because he said he'll try not to. The only problem is that he really wants to smoke. He says he loves it and to his friends it seems ridiculous that I dont let him to do what he wants... I wish I could tell him that Im totally fine with it and he can smoke whenever he wants, but I cant get myself to feel like its okay. I really want him to take care of himself, many of his family members have had cancer and its possible that he is susceptible to it. I hate the smoking lifestyle, I hate how dependent people can be on something that damages themselves, I hate how much money they 'need' to spend on it (and he always complains that he is broke), I hate the smell... etc. And we talk about getting married, but I dont want a smoker's home for myself one day. Do you think this means that we cant have a future together, or must I suck it up?? (link)
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That's kida ironic because I smoke and the bad part is I hide it from my wife because she doesn't want me to smoke either .I whear cologne a lot to cover up the smell .chew gum . Brush my teeth a lot and use mouthwash too .all this just to hde it from my wife .I don't like that I do this but you see I smoke because of stress working two jobs .without it I would be in big trouble maybe even jobless because I let people get to me a lot .but what I'm getting at .is ths if you tell him not to smoke he's more than likely going to do t behinde your back like I do to my wife and belive me I'm asamed of myself for doing this .if a person is going to quit smoking he or she has to do t because they want too not because someone eles does . Iv tried to quit several tmes and ts also a bad habit and can be very expencive also .I sugest you talk to him and ask him to at least cut down .and if he does that then he might quit all together but it won't be overnight its a gradual thing .the ciggeret patches do help control the erge also but the downfall to that is it could also be expencve .you can't make him qut but be suportive when he decides too.
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Nobody understands me. Nobody understands how it feels to be all alone like I am. Nobody understands how it feels to feel so lost all of the time. Nobody understands how it feels when nobody cares or loves you. Nobody ever listens to me when I tell them these things and I feel like I'm such a hopeless cause in the world and like I'm just taking up space. I'm not happy. I don't fit in with anyone.
I don't want to live any more and have decided to kill myself. I want to commit suicide soon. What are the quickest ways to commit suicide? Preferably I want to do this at home for ease. (link)
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Hey !!!!!
Life sometimes sucks for everyone ! Look at me for instance I had a controling father who always thought the worst of me he bused to beat me grab my hair and bang my head on the counter if I ddnt get a math qestion rght on my homework .my family disowend me . My ex wife told lies about me took my daughter away from me who I haven't see in 10 years .I work 2 crapy jobs just to make ends meet but guess what life goes on ! And iv been there n your shoes where I wanted to just give up on life .but I asked this one question .s realy worth it .I don't think I want to burn in hell cause my life sucks .NO I try to finde happyness somewhere .you see life isn't fair but you just got to keep moving forward .people do care at least some do .and for what its worth .I care my friend .don't do it!!!
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I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and she's so shy around me. I think it's adorable but at the same time I know she isn't comfortable and that makes me unhappy. Why would she be so incredibly shy and how can I get my girlfriend to loosen up and relax while she's around me? I want to know the real her, inside and out, and it seems like her being overly shy is causing a barrier between us. How can I get her to just relax? Why is it like this? (link)
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Well first of all I'm not for sure how old you two are but some girls are just that way its normal .nothing to worry about .all I can tell you to do is just talk to her about it but don't do it in a mean way just tell her its ok to just be yourself .she will come around eventualy just give her some time .take her out .take her out a lot. That way she wll get used to being with you and she will be more comfortable around you .then you will see her true side of her .trust me it works the more fun you have together the more she will open up .its all about trust .kida like getting a new puppy it takes a while for the puppy to trust you right the same with her only she's a person .just trat her with respect .
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im thinking abouut rrunning away and i would just like to know the consequences and whatt im gettin myself into. and also if yu havv any advice about gettin outta here when no one knows .i ahve 7 ppl living with me so thhats goona be hard. uhhh thanxx:))))) (link)
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I'm not for sure what your problem is but running awy from t isn't the answer .I tried that before and it was only temporary .your problem is still there only the seneory has changed .the best way I can explain it is you need to face your problems .fist of all if you did run away where would you go .do you have money saved up .do you have anyone to help you when you fall .you have to thnk of the pros and cons before you make a split descsion on anythng .don't be rational about it .plan plan plan .ts better to face it then run from it .you know the old saying you can run but you can't hide .its true !!!!
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Lately alot of people have been treating me like dirt, like after I leave some where they go and party it up I don't go because they only invite me if I overhear them talkin about it, I also get thrown aside after I do somethin to help someone in need of it. I'm not the most handsome of guys in high school but when I meet a new cute girl I like I usually introduce her to some friends within days her and someone close are together already. I have lost self will to go on I've tried to stick up for myself grow a back bone but it's all the same, making new honest friends isn't easy in school so I hardly have anyone to talk to. How should I approach my problems?
-Thank you (link)
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Hey man don't try so hard !!! Friends will come .and the people you hang around are not true friends .you know the old saying with friends like this who needs enemys well ther you have it .don't waste your time trying to impress people who clearly don't give a shit anyways .if they don't like you for who you are then screw them .look at me I'm 39 I have no friends at all period .don't need them .of course that's not for everybody sure but don't try to help people out especaly if they take you for grannet .do something for your self think of what benefets you and seeize the day .I'm not telling you to be selfish but what do you think everyone eles is doing .go to the lbrariy find you a girl that you might like and talk to her .if she's with someone already then find someone eles there is plenty of fish out in the sea so go shoping .I hope this brings a light into the subject
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okay me and my boyfriend had sex and when i looked down i saw blood. i thought it was me but my boyfriend looked and it turns out that his penis head like cracked like dry skin on hands. well he said its becasue we were both dry and i get that but it shouldnt do that and i keep asking if i can see it he also said that its okay now but i think hes afraid to have sex again he kinda got blood in me so i took a shower to get it out i dont know why this happend am i okay is he okay how can we prevent this? (link)
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First of all I would both get checked for STDs .the reason I say this is I have never heard of a man bleading from his penis after sex unless there is a STD .it might be posible that what you said about being too dry but not likely .I'm no doctor but it would be safe to say get checked out and if you are both clean then use some ky
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