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Smoking: Can a Non-Smoker and a Smoker Have a Happy Marriage?
hey I dont know if its possible to make a thread on this site, so just added the link to your previous answer:
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Im just afraid that if I tell him he can, he's gonna go full blown with it again, because he is addicted. And I doubt he wants to quit, he tells me he really likes it, so I guess the only thing stopping him is me..
I dont want him to lie to me about it, and thats bound to happen in the current situation. So do you think that I should let him, but ask him to scale down? Does it really help with stress? Doesnt it just cause more? (because you now also have to feed your addiction, you'll smoke even when you dont have other stress?)
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Some people live wth stress every day lke me .I'm not sayng that's his problem but people smoke for different reasons stress is just one of them .it could be bordem I mean every body has an addiction .some people are addicted to over eating some are addictid to tv some people are addictid to gossip and list goes on and on does that make it healthy of course not but we all have are own addictions . And like I said before if you force him to quit it would only complicate matters .I mean if you realy love him you would except his flaws .lke me when I smoke I do it outside because I dcont like the smell either .I mean its real complicated but you can't force him to do something he's not wlling to do .just ask him to not smoke as much to slow down .that's all you can do dear .except hm in his flaws as he excepts you in yours .and be happy if you need any more advice by all means let me know
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