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I haven't got a clue where to go from here. I am so lost!
Lately alot of people have been treating me like dirt, like after I leave some where they go and party it up I don't go because they only invite me if I overhear them talkin about it, I also get thrown aside after I do somethin to help someone in need of it. I'm not the most handsome of guys in high school but when I meet a new cute girl I like I usually introduce her to some friends within days her and someone close are together already. I have lost self will to go on I've tried to stick up for myself grow a back bone but it's all the same, making new honest friends isn't easy in school so I hardly have anyone to talk to. How should I approach my problems?
-Thank you
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Make new friends, simple as that. Friends are not friends if they treat you like crap. You seem like a nice guy, be yourself. Confidence is key, dear, and as soon as you start having respect for yourself, people will have respect for you. People used to walk all over me, I've learned that friends won't leave you if you grow a back bone, they'll respect you for it. And if they do leave you because they realize they can't walk all over you anymore, then good, who needs them, they're rotten people.
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I know how you feel all to well. You feel like people ignore you and that they don't want to include you in anything. It hurts especially when you put yourself out there...I'm not a very open person I'm VERY shy in person. I finally found a group of people who I can relate to and who care about me as much as I do them! Why not join a club or something and make some new friends that share your common interests? It would be a great way to meet people because they like something you do so it would help in conversations. Maybe go talk to someone like a guidance counselor or maybe an adult you trust! My advice though is don't keep trying to talk to people who treat you like dirt they're not worth it and you can do better!
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Hey man don't try so hard !!! Friends will come .and the people you hang around are not true friends .you know the old saying with friends like this who needs enemys well ther you have it .don't waste your time trying to impress people who clearly don't give a shit anyways .if they don't like you for who you are then screw them .look at me I'm 39 I have no friends at all period .don't need them .of course that's not for everybody sure but don't try to help people out especaly if they take you for grannet .do something for your self think of what benefets you and seeize the day .I'm not telling you to be selfish but what do you think everyone eles is doing .go to the lbrariy find you a girl that you might like and talk to her .if she's with someone already then find someone eles there is plenty of fish out in the sea so go shoping .I hope this brings a light into the subject
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