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hey its Rebecca! please dont afraid to ask me any questions!i`ve been through a dag gone lot in muh life so what ever questions you have i should be able to answer!luv ya!
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i really like this guy and hes in three of my classes, HOT. okay i like him, but i think he likes another girl, i didnt even get his sn yet what should i do? how can i show it?

Ok, so i get the picture, you REALLY like this guy. try and strike up a conversation, and once you get that going, try and find out a little bit about him. maybe you will get his sn. or if thats too hard, ask a friend to find it out for you, then talk to him online, maybe thats a little easier.

lyl. XoXo

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17-F I've hung out with this boy Chris twice this week and we like each other but whenever he trys to kiss me I pull away. I have kissed him but I dunno I don't have any desire to do it again. This past summer I was used by this other kid. Since then I haven't wanted to do anything with anyone. What do you think is the reason I don't feel comfortable with Chris?? I do really like him and I think he's getting frustrated with it.

You really just have to go with your heart on this one. It could possibly be your uncomftorbleness coming back, but just make sure he doesnt pressure you into anything you dont want to do.

hope i helped!

lyl XoXo. Becca_Boo

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i didnt know where to put this but when you get your braces off, how do they do it and does it hurt? thanks :)

It depends on how bad your teeth are. Mine arent that bad, and i get them off next june or july.

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i have a problem of keeping a thought during class, i often daydream and get off task, and im always forgettin himework, is there anything i can do to fix this?

Wow, sounds like you might have ADD,

talk to your doctor, they'll help!

If you dont, then it might just be ur not a listening person, dont worry, i daydream too!

XoXo Becca

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ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help

Ask her what she think about kissing. If she is willing to, then go for it! ITs not ur fault, dont worry, she could be thinking the same thing too! Or she could just be waiting for you to make the first move.

Hope i helped

XoXo Becca

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Recently, my girlfriend dumped me...for, I'm not even sure why. We were togehter for about 4 months, and I think towards the end of the relationship...she wasn't liking me all too well. I don't know what it is that I did. But, I just wanted her to be happy, so I made the breakup easy on her..at least. She broke up with me over the phone, and I just said, "Alright" and tried not to act real hurt, so she wouldn't feel as bad. But, truth be told...I am so hurt. It's been about a month. I just really, really, miss the girl. And I think that...-maybe- the reason she broke up with me, is because there's always been this one guy she liked, but he's younger. Like...3 years, or something.

Anyway, I'm so lost. I don't know what to do. I don't want to confront her about it...she just, I don't think she wants to talk to me. She won't talk to me on any messangers, or the phone, whatever. I'm like..totally out of her life now. But I miss her. She's perfect. I just, want her back...

AWe **hug*hug**

Its normal for yo to feel so hurt, and empty inside... I know, its happened to me.

Wow, i cant believe she dumped you over the phone, if she cant comfront you about it, then maybe she isnt perfect.

If shes the one (i dont know how old you are) then talk to her, if she didnt tell you why she broke up with you, then you should find out...

Hope i helped, sry if i didnt

XoXo Becca

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Hey, I've liked a guy for about 2 years now. He's taken, he used to like me, I think he's over me now. But I fucking love him. To death. Omg, help me.

Ur just gonna have to wait until hes single again, theres nothing else you can do.

Its not fair to anyone if he sees both of you.

Hope i helped, sry if i didnt

XoXo Becca

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Is it safe to cook with pans if they're getting rust spots in them?

I would get new ones, hehe, that doesnt sound good!

XoXo Becca

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okay..for the past couple of days ive started eating two meals a day and excercising..ALOT i feel soo guilty eating..im 5'2 and before i started this stuff i weighed 92 pounds ive got a lot of advice a lot to like not become anorexic or whatever no matter what but i dont no i feel so guilty about food.i need advice!!

You could be on the verge of becoming Anorexic, I would talk to your doctor, and he/she will help, its good you've realized this early on.

Hope i helped, sry if i didnt

XoXo becca

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Ok theres this girl, lets just say her name is 'Sally' and over the summer I have matured and have gotten to my senses. But my friend sally whenever I get together with her I dont laugh with her anymore and everything she says is, well, stupid. And sumtimes I just feel like we are friends only because Sally wants a messager girl. How am I supposed to handle this?? Please help?

Will Rate!

I know Exactly what you mean, and how it is to have stupid things being said to you by a friend you dont like...

If you have grown up that much, and dont like being around "sally" anymore, then maybe its time to break away.

If you have plans that you made months ago, you cant cancel them now, but if she calls to see if you can do something, tell her that you are busy, and you will call her when you have time, that way, you can decide when you want to get together.

Hope i helped, sry if i didnt

XoXo Becca

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My moms over protective what should i do?

There isnt a lot that you can do, it could be she doesnt trust you, or she just loves you a lot.

talk to her and maybe you can work things out!

XoXo becca

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alriitee..i`m c0nfused ab0ut my boyfriend..he says he l0ves me, but i haven`t talked to him in a while...we`ve been q0inq 0ut f0r ab0ut a year n0w and he d0esn`t call me..hardly ever unless i tell him t0. we talk 0nline and stuFf and we`ve d0ne s0me stuff 2qether and its qreat..but i d0n`t kn0 if he`s shy 0r what. but whenever i d0 talk t0 him he`s always happy t0 talk t0 me and stuff, and i`m always happy t0 talk t0 him and he say`s he l0ves me and all, but wh0 knows-- s0meone help. thankS in advance*

It could be he's shy, but Sometimes Guys get busy, but they shouldnt be too busy to not call or talk to their GF at all.

i would stick to calling him, and try asking him about it. For now that might be all you get, things should heat up. if they dont then maybe it wasnt ment to be.

Hope i helped

XoXo Becca

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HeY Rebecca...

I think ur REALLY HoT!!! WiLl you Go Out With me???

O thanks for da compliment, but sorry, i have a Boyfriend!

WHo are You By the WAy?

XoXo Becca

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HEy Beccca, how are you?

I'm just fiiine, and you?

XoXo Becca

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I think i am very fat. I am 5'1 and i weight 110 pounds..all my friends are tall and they weigh more than me but are skinnier than me. They are all 13 and i am still 12. Sometimes I feel like I am the fattest 12 yr old in the world. Do you think there is a way I could slim up my body? If so could you tell me how? I would really appreciate it.

Your BMI is 21, and that is a GOOD BMI, so you have nothing to woory about, but if you wanna slim up, there are many things you can do, i like pilates!
hope i helped
XoXo BECcA_bOo

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Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old?

If you REALLY like him/her, then no its not wrong, but ur parents might think differently

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tHis iS fOr tHe gUyS oUt tHeRe....iS iT oK fOr a GirL tO aSk a gUy oUt?

Ok, i'm not a guy, i'm a 12 y.o. girl, but i asked out the guy i like, and he said yes! so i say go for it!

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I need help because i dont kno if i should call this guy to tell him i like him or if i should just keep it to my self???

You should tell him! When i told the guy i like that i like him...well i'll just say he's my BF now!!! haha.
good luck!

XoXo BeCcA_bOo

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Hi see well I have this Boyfriend who cares for me tomuch!!! I mean love him and all but he gets to protective!!!! what should i do , I dont want to be mean to him either what should I do????????????

Ha. It sounds like someone i know! if you really like this guy, i would still give him a chance. but if you decide that its too much protection (which a little is fine!) then i would talk to him. It could be that he just loves you a lot!
lyl
XoXo BecCa_bOo

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i don`t kno if it`sz healthy that i`m 12 nd my bra cup size isz a 36B..isz that bad ??

Hun, its just fine! I know a girl who is a DD and she is ur age! just keep livin life!

lyl

XoXo BeCcA_bOo

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