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k well, every guy i go out with i really like him and what ever, well, i have this issue, ive gone out with most of them for at least a month, and every time they ask me to do something with them, or hang out, or come to their house, i always make up a lame freaking excuse, i hate it, the one guy im going out with right now, i like him so much, i seriously think im in love with him this is our second time going out, and he always askes me to go to his house, and i always make up an excuse, i guess im afraid of whats he gunnah think about me, because i mean, im not pretty. at least not to me. i mean i have random people come up to me and theyll be like awe your so gorgeous, i dont think i am, im really self concious because i have ache. like so freaking self concious about it. can anyone help me like.. figure out why im self concious, i mean i wannah figure out why i keep doing this, i wannah spend time with my boyfriend so bad, but i keep stopping myself.
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you should always put yourself down. there gotta be a reason why your boyfriend is goin out with you. If Its not beauty, its something you have that he must like. Just let yourself loose, the first time you chill with him,u are not going to feel this way anymore.
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there is this one girl at school who treats me better than others. Like i am extremely impared or something {well i do hang out with the impared people sometimes}. Is she in love with me? How can I tell if a girl likes me. (link)
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Well i wont say that she is in love..Love is such a strong word,maybe she really likes you and she wants you to realize that,Talk to her and ask her.
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sorry if this is long but i really need help.
ok im 14 and i will be 15 september 13. this guy name tyler is 12 and will be 13 september 1. he is goin to 8th and im goin to 9th. he doesnt hang out with 12 year olds, he looks and hangs out with 14 and 15 year olds. we are really good friends, and tuesday night he asked me out but i said no. i like him, but i am scared to go out wtih him. i mean if we break up, then it will be weird. and he isnt really cute. but i like him alot. last night he got mad at me because he thought that i was gonna go out with this other guy, but im not! and then his mom told him to get off the phone and he told me he would call me back at 1 and he never did. he hasnt called or got online today either. i think hes still mad at me and i dont know what to do. i told him i didnt like the other guy but i dont think he believed me. what should i do?? should i go out with him if he asks me again? some people say i should and some people say heck no. i have no idea what to do! (link)
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Ok.first all i wanna say age aint nothing but a number. It reminds me of when i was 14 and the boy i liked was 12. UntiLL i turn 15 and now he is 13 and we are going out, and our relationship is Great. So since you like that Boy i say go for it, but when you talk 2 him again just explain to him that you is not gunna date someone else. i wish you LucK!
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my friend just told me she was talking to my boyfriend ont he hpone and he told her he didnt really like me anymore =[ and i kno shes not lieing cause like i dont kno you can just tell and cause the way hes been atcing . and knowing him he won't tell me this for like a week and i dont kno what to do (link)
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i say u talk 2 him, and ask him if its true what u have heard.
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ok I'll start from the beginning,
one day I ask this girl out. I tell her a few nice things. then I ask her out. she says let me get back to you. well she goes and and tells her friends what happened. so they go hide & talk.
well after lunch shes yes. two days after shes yes she breaks up with me. now thats been about 6mons. ago. and I still have feelings for her.
I also hear she still has feelings for me.
but I'm scared that if I ask her she'll say no.
what should I do? (link)
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Give it another try, if she says no then dont waste your time on her.
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I am not racest at all..but I have a problem..Okay well I have a really good friend..hes black..im white..I have liked him for about a month now..I really like him..hes all I think about! I found out a week ago that he liked me and wanted to go out with me..he even wrote the sweetest peom ever about me..I cant go out with him because my mom would flip if i went out with a black person..she just doesnt believe in black and white..and neither do some of my friends..It just wouldnt work..I really like this kid and I need to get over him! what should I do?! please help...
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i dont think its right for someone to actually say that black and white dont mix. If u really like him tell your mom how you really feel about him.tell her the goods things that he does,convice her that he is a good guy,and for her to let you go out with him..Or u can just go for it.because in the future your mom is not going to tell you who to go out with or marry..:) hope this works!!
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ok well theres this new girl in our school and me and my best friend have known her sence we were in third grade and now we're in 7th and like shes a really big flirt and shes really annoying and like everyone talks about her and pretends to like her..and she flirts with everyone! like my boyfriend plays football..and everyday he has practice right after school cept on Fridays and like she'll walk home with him and shes been over his house and stuff and I'm afraid she is like gonna try to do something with him..like I've talked to her about it and stuff and I trust my boyfriend..(-she has a boyfriend to and I dont think he would like her over my boyfriends house-)am I just paronode or should I worry about it..please help! (link)
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Tell her to back off.do dont mess with your b/f..and whenever u see her with him. tell her 2 get away..there is no need for her 2 be next 2 your b/f.
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okay im 13/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month and like 9 days and we havent kissed yet and i want him to make the first move but i want him to do it and get it over with and like yeah and his friend said that i should just do it but im scared...what should i do? (link)
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dont rush things.let it just be the perfect place and timin. you can also talk 2 him..and ask him why havent ya kiss yet..Talk more about ya relationship. Hope this works
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well, im 14/f and im a freshmen also! well i have this problem, me and my ex-best friend charles (ever since this yr) were planning on going with each other to the freshmen dance, ever since 5th grade, we just talked about it in the summer too! but in school now we don't talk ever, i wanna talk to him, its just he has his own crowd, and i have my own, he talks to me sometimes, but when i asked him if he would still go to the freshmen with me he said. "no, im taken karissa" (some chick from a differ. school) its like, he used to LOVE me soo much from 2nd grade to 8th grade, but in the summer he stopped. and i liked him ever since well the summer, and we couldn't date cuz he liked karissa, its horrible i jus dunno what to do, i've told him how i've felt n stuff, what would u do? i really wanna go with him. i rate high thanks!
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i think u did the best thing by telling him how u felt. Now if he dont respone back with the answer that u want to hear then dont waste your time on him..because this mean that he not goin 2 like u. Just try lookin for some1 better who will pay more attenion 2 u.
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Theres this girl i really like thats in my class. The problem is my best friend likes her a lot too. He works with her so we both see each other a lot. I dont want to lose my best friend but i think she likes me more than she likes him. What should i do? (link)
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that happened to me.i likes this boy.and my friend liked him to..but i have realize dat it wasnt worth trippin over him..cuz friendship is more important.i had realize dat she liked him more.But there was nothin i can do cuz she would always talk bout him..but mean while i stop likin him..And now a days no1 likes him..So dont mess up no Friendship over nobody.keep it alive nd strong!
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i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\ (link)
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ight well u should tell her how u feel..Im sure she would understand!
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hey...
i'm really shy around my boyfriend most of the time ... how do i stop being shy? (link)
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i feel u, i used to be shy to.But then i realize why i was shy.and it was bcuz i really didnt knew my b/f.and i couldnt act like myself.Cuz i barely knew him..but if thats the case.then u should try talkin to him more.Ask Him questions.but U should never be shy around your b/f. just act like yourself..It taught me a lesson! I hope this work. Good luck!
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I am a 13 year old white girl (almost 14). I am intrested in this black kid. some of my friends are ok with it but one of my best friends think i shouldnt like him because he is black. he is one of the nicest and sweetest people i know. i just dont understand why she cant see him for an amazing person and not just him being black. What can i do to get through to her? (link)
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dont worry go 4 it!! tell ur friends how u really feel, they should understand.If not they arent really your real friends.cuz they are suppose to accept u for who u are!
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I have really thick hair and i can wear it down there is only one way i can... if i hairspray it when its wet. other than that it poofs out. and if i sraighten it then it looks bad. i am alsoo constantly pukking it back into a pony tail. what are some cute ways i can wear my hair that it isnt too much of a hassle? (link)
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u can try to spilt ur hair in half. let it be half of ur hair down. and the other half in a ponytail.but its pick up.and it will look nice!
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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??
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its normal..but its also good to be strong.
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hey, okay hes the scoop,
My friend brittany likes this guy, and then my other " friend " is a slut, they have been hangin out alot and she had sex with this guy that brittany likes,then they stopped hanging out and everything, i don't balme her, brittany came to me and started saying shit about her, this girl ( the slut ) before she had sex with him didn't like this guy now she says she has feelings for him, and my firend brittany, shes always been betrayed by the slut, and the guy lieks the slut, how do i drive this guy away from the slut, and try to get him intested in brittany, (link)
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whoa thats mess up. I think that u should tell "the slut" to back off.and tell her that she is wrong. tell Brittany that to dont waste time on him.cuz after he been with 'the slut"im sure she would not want her left over.
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Ok, this is going to be kind of long because I need to give you all the details. I haven't always been overweight, but when I was finally aloud to stay home in the summer by myself, I started to get bigger. I couldn't go anywhere when my parents were home, so I sat and watched TV and ate constantly. Well, the big problem is that was about 6 years ago! Every year I say I'm going to finally lose weight, and I still haven't. Now I'm at least 30 pounds over-weight, and even though I love playing sports and being active, I also love to sit at home and eat the "tasty" foods. I am going to be a junior, and it is so hard to be an over-weight teen. I know all the stuff I need to do if I want to lose weight, but I just can't find my motivation to do it. Do any of you have advice to try help me? Please, I would really appreciate it. (link)
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u need to start doing exercise..and stop eating.instead on stayin home watchin t.v and eatin.u should clean up the house. and do some exercise.to stay fit.u dont wanna get so big.so EXercIse Iz the right thing!
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I have this habit of always goin out and its so hard to stay home becasue my sister..well i tried to talk to her and i tried to be soooo nice and injoring her nuthing is working ...and i wanna bbe home alot but i just cant stand her at all..all she does is yell at me an i cant take it ...should i try again or should i just keep wat i do....or if you have anyother ideas..plaease help
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i think that u should tell your sister how u feel.And tell her not to yell at u no more.If there no reason. But just try tellin her how u feel.if that dont work.then just stay home.but not next to her.
Ps: Its best if u tell her.so ya can become really close.
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I am a 15 yr old who plays sports but i got injured (i fractured a vertebra in my lower back) ne ways i had to sit out for over a month i could not work out... Just a simple yes or no is 5'9" and 140 fat or not ? (link)
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nope..not at all.4 me i think is good.just as long as u dont have rolls(lol)
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I would like to thank y'all in advance before you read this. It's probably rather long just because I think you need a little backround information about me... Good luck and thanks if you give me advice... I'll rate you high for this one (That sounds like a bribe)... ANYWAY... I'm having kind of a friend/idenity crisis. First off.. I use to NEVER hang out with girls. I was always one of the guys until 8th grade (I am not going into 10) When I grew boobs, had a NICE body, and was the captian of the competition cheerleading sqaud of my middle school. I had everything I wanted... I was beautiful, and popular (Shalow.. I know) Then, I didn't even make the high school cheerleading sqaud and I was kind of at an all time low. It was one of the most depressing time periods ever for me. That summer I gained 30 pounds and had no friends except my boyfriend. Luckily, I had my boyfriend there for me, which is still with me. At the begining of my freshman year I told my boyfriend how I was kind of nervous about going back to school because of my drastic change. So he told me I should hang out with girls. And so I did. I found a group of girls to hang out with. Turns out the year before I had bad thoughts about them but once I got to know them they werent what I really thought... (big lesson you all... don't jugde) Anyway, So that year was okay. I had girlfriends and stuff.. But I was kinda over weight and feeling really crummy about myself. But I wasn't gunna let that get me down... So I decided to get in something to take the place of my lifetime love, cheerleading. I became an active member in student council. There I became class president, And now I am student body president. I kinda prefer this position over cheerleading. ANYWAY... back to my friends... This summer was kind of weird with my girl friends position. I was happy i had girls to talk to about girl stuff and do girl things with. My boyfriend was happy too. So this summer I started big with TONS of partys and tons of drinking. Me and my girlfriends had a riot. But then I went to 3 leadership camps and decided that I wanted to be a role modle. So i stoped smoking, and drinking, and the parties. Well after I didn't want to do that my girl friends kind of left me behind even though we were really close. We barely talk anymore... And if we do its because they don't have anything else better to do and they wanna chill because they're bored. I know my possibilities.... I know my position.... I know what I can do... But what do y'all think about my position? About me? And what I should do.. Thanks (link)
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do whatever make u comfy.lucky u. u have a b/f and he was alwayz there for u..So dont care what any1 say.dont let no one bring u down.keep doing what u doing.and alwayz follow ur heart.
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