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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.
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sorry if this ends up being long but i have two questions kinda...
17/f
ive never understood why society made it so bad for teenagers to have sex. i mean people 13 and even younger were having babies in the past, and that was considered acceptable? In fact if a girl WASNT married by 17 she would be considered too old...
i just dont get why its SUCH a horrible thing for someone my age to have sex if they are ready. and i know about sex. i know that it should be done only out of love, and only if youre mature enough to handle it, and only if you can take on the responsibility of sex and protecting yourself to avoid pregnancy. but if everything is perfect, then whats the big deal? thats my first question if someone could explain that to me...
the second ???? is more personal.
ive been dating my bf for a month, and weve been talking for two. hes already said he loves me, and hes proven it. but then again i can never again trust someone so blindly and im not sure its even possible to love someone after only going out for a month. (i havent said it back btw)
and i asked him how long he would be able to wait because im a virgin and i wasnt planning on having sex anytime soon so he should know that. he looked at me and said "i dont want you to have sex with me until you can look me in the eye and tell me honestly that you love me". That was great to hear, but of course i still get paranoid sometimes. because we started having oral sex and sometimes we get so into it we both just want each other, and i feel like i really wanna do it. BUT i know i shouldnt yet and want to wait longer...just that he forgets about what he told me about sex in the moment as well, and im understanding of that. I asked him if he remembered what he told me later and he said "yeah, but its easy to forget when youre in the moment" which is true because it happened to me as well. i guess my question is...can someone give me a reason why i shouldnt have sex with him, becacuse im running out of reasons... i already told him to get tested before we even had oral, and im going on birth control next week for acne issues so pregnancy wont be possible. and i really feel like im falling for him, and he shows that he loves me everyday....so...y wait? can you have love without sex for an extended period of time? im turning 18 this year btw...
I think WittyUsernameHere said most of what I was going to say but they left out the part about people who were getting married and having kids at that age were also dieing a lot earlier. And out of the 10 kids they had only 2 might survive. People grew up faster then girls weren't in school for the most part all of that jazz. Now listen I get where you are coming from. I'm 19 and I didn't have sex until I was 18 and don't regret it one bit. I'm the oldest out of most of my friends and one of the last ones to do it. But hun it came with a lot of drama for them.
I don't miss highschool but I remember it well. I was like you, I wouldn't tell a guy I loved him until I felt I did. I thought there was a lot behind those words. I even told a few not to say it to me and that they don't know what it means.
You want your first time to be special and with a guy that truly cares. Make a rule for your self. That if you still have strong feeling for him in 6 months and can say you love him you will have sex with him. If you can't wait that long maybe when you turn 18 or maybe you want to make it 3 months. I know its hard. But I'm now so glad I waited with all the other guys and after that time saw I didn't want to be with them. My rule was 6 months. I'm still with the guy I did truly love and we're engaged.
I look back and say thank goodness I didn't do it with the others because weather you realize it or not you will be emotionally tided down to this guy. If anything goes wrong it will be hard as hell for you to get over him. Make sure you really want to remember him as your first. & if you need more reason to wait then just think about how much it will hurt. You won't enjoy it the first time anyway or many others after that for that matter.
I'm glad you had him tested. & birth control is great but my friends mom had her little brother while using a condom and being on birth control.
& I don't know where you live but 17 is the legal age to have sex in NY.
I hope I helped or at least gave you something to think about.
Good Luck!!
Does anyone have a livejournal?
because i am so confused on what to do for the layouts and CSS and stuff so if you do have a livejournal will you help me? haha im soo in the dark.
and if you want to add me my journal is http://letting-gooo.livejournal.com/
Thankyouu please please helppp me
I have one, haven't used it in ages but I use to be really good with all the codes.
Are you just looking for a cute layout?
http://community.livejournal.com/0_layouts_4_pie/profile
http://community.livejournal.com/___spacelayouts/profile
a few communities that made them for you. You can always search for layouts.
Hey my names Whitney.
Everyone on myspace has like cute display names
& I want one.
Any ideas with my name?
Truly Whitney
The magic of Whitney
Whitney - forget the rest
Whitney is what the world was waiting for
Whitney - to feel free!
Whitney wanted
http://www.sloganizer.net/en/
everytime i wear a tampon it kills!! i've had my period for about a year and i swim so its not like i can go without using them. what can i do to make them not hurt so much?
thx!
Is it just painful and uncomfortable? Then I'm going to guess that you're just not putting t up high enough. Sometimes thats all it takes.
Hope it works.
is it true, that guys like it when girls eat french fries. for somereason thats what everybody keeps sayin. like i saw the guy i liked at wendy's and my friends like here quick eat these,guys like it when you eat french fries. lol is that true?
Umm haha think about it hun. Banana, French fries the way you put them in your mouth. See where I'm going with this? Yea so thats probably why they say that. & guys just picture you putting something else in your mouth in the mean time.
Hope that answers the question
Guess I'm not as cool as I used to be...
I'm sitting outside in my back yard, typing on my brother's laptop, taking in the beaming gleam of the sun. it seems like I'm losing all my friends to a number of illegal substances. No one wants to come to my house anymore, because they aren't going to get plastered or toke up a fatty. As if I'm in a competition with drugs to have friends, I don't invite people over anymore, I don't even look foreword to weekends anymore, because my house is a boring place to go all of the sudden. I guess when you grow up to a certain age, you have to start doing drugs and drinking to be fun? How long ago was last summer? No one ever mentioned drugs last summer, what with the change? I guess life is boring without uppers and downers, being sober is being square. My house is a last resort for people to go to have fun. "hey guy, let's just go to my house, there aren't any parties tonight, I guess we'll just have to be sober for once… goddamn.". I only have one friend that hasn't smoked or drank. And we hang out all the time, and have a lot of fun. But I guess it isn't actual fun because we remember it. I guess we're just boring people, it almost makes me want to toke up and get hammered just so that I can hang out with all my friends that have ditched for the shit. But I won't, and I guess that means I have to continue living my boring, sober life alone, with my one friend… in my boring house. Any generic after school special would say "well, those guys aren't your true friends, go find some real ones!" sure thing A.S.S. I'd love to. But I don't know anyone that hasn't been incapacitated. Not only that, but those people ARE MY REAL FRIENDS! Just today Anthony ditched me, at my house, we were all about to leave to go to bowling green, to go to lake malone with my brother; he didn't even say 'bye'. What the hell is that? That sounds like something my brother would do. And it is something my brother has done. I don't care if he went to do drugs, it was still a shitty thing to do] But I'm not here to cuss out my friends, I'm here to query myself, to ponder… I don't do drugs, that makes me a loser, no seriously, it does, I have lost all but two of my friends to drugs, and it kills me. Goddamn it, and people wonder why I play online games? I play them so I can interact with people and have fun! I can't any other way! I don't have any friends! I'm not going to hang around drunken and high people, unless it's Westray, because he's the same sober as he his high! I didn't mean this as an insult, I'm saying that Westray is a cool person to be with no matter what, we can talk to eachother and laugh with eachother, no matter what]
But I guess that's the end of this rant. If I can't have friends while being sober, I guess I won't have friends, maybe I'll find some more real friends like kaleb and nic. But i just gotta live and find out. I know that things won't be the same this summer, I won't have many memories this summer, not without buddies to make them with. and my old buddies that get high and shit, they won't remember the memories that they made. I thought I was cool, but I guess you can't be anymore, not without that shit.
Have any advice for me?
I know exactly how you feel. When I started going to high school I met all these new and great people. Turned out they all started doing drugs and getting drunk. I still hung out with some of them but not when they were doing what they did best. The next year I stopped talking to most of them. They had to much drama in their lives. I started meeting new people and making a totally new group of friends. I'm going to be entering my senior year in the Fall and I have changed friends quit a bit. I have never gotten drunk and never did any sort of drug. I want to grow up and be able to tell my kids some day that they can do it too. Stand up for what you believe and don't ever let them influence you. Stay with the two friends that you have and try to make new ones when the new year comes around. Join clubs and play a sport maybe and met some new people. There is hope that some aren't stupid. Our generation is really messed up though. I wish you the best of luck!!
My boyfriend is Russian and has a lot of Russian pride. His birthday is coming up and I'd really love to get him a cool tshirt with some Russian writing or a Russian phrase on it.
I'm not looking for anything that's political, religious, or anything that would insult someone. Just a nice, clean tshirt with a cute Russian saying or word.
Anyone know of a website or store that would have them? I've searched everywhere. :) Thanks for your help guys.
http://coolgear.sochi.ru/links/RU.html
http://www.cafepress.com/buy/ukraine/pride/russia/-
The second one is a mix of Ukrainian and russian.
I had more sites but I can't find them now. Hope these work.
15F
I cut myself, and I really want to get therapy for it. I can't tell my parents, though. I'm too ashamed to tell them. Also, they're kind of neglectful. There's a large chance they wouldn't even get me help. How can start seeing a therapist without them knowing?
You should have one in your school that can help you out. Go talk to a guidance counselor. They will arrange for you to talk to a school psychologist. I wish you the best of luck. I have had friends who did it when they were your age and I tried to get them help. I really do hope everything works out and you can stop.
Last night was my first kiss. I was hanging out with a group of my friends and everybody went home except me and this guy I've liked for a while. We sat in his car listening to music and talking for a while, and when I got out of the car, he commented that he didn't need to be home for 5 more minutes (we were just up the street from his house). I asked if that was an invitation, and he said that depended on whether I was interested or not. After a few more minutes of playful banter and me almost leaving again, he finally shut up and kissed me. This is with 2 minutes left on the clock. There was tongue involved, there was necking, it was very nice, but only two minutes long. When we broke for air I said to him "time's up" and he pulled me close and asked how late I wanted to make him. There was some more playful banter, but nothing else happened. I really like him and certainly wouldn't say no to a relationship, but I'm a hormonal teenager and he's a good kisser. Does this fall into the "friends with benefits" category and if it does, how do I bring up doing it again? We have never been on a date before and we used to be really close, but we don't have any classes together this semester so I don't talk to him very much anymore.
17/f
Friends with benefits is when you do that on a regular bases and call each other up to basically just mess around in any way shape or form. It was more of a random huckup. But it seems like it can lead to more. I would say he likes you and may be interested in a relationship. Ask him what he's doing on the weekend and see if you can just hand out. Or you can always do it the middle school way and have friends find out for you and just make it a group of friends hanging out again type thing. Good luck hun!!!
hi,i know this is long but i need help please!! im a 16/m and i like this freshman girl...we've been talking for about a week online but i never really see her in person so i dont get to talk to her in person..tonight i asked her if she had any free periods when i did and she said no why so i was like well i figured we could hang out get to know eachother...this is after i previously asked her tuesday if she could hang out this weekend hbut she couldnt...well now at the end of her away message it says uhmm stalker so now i am afraid this might be me so i dont know if theres anything i can do to find out if it is and if i dont find out what should i do? thanks in advance
Give her space. Don't talk to her for a while. Girls that age are like that, and it most likely is about you. If she keeps telling you she's busy and is making no effort to have free time or a way to see you then it's probably deliberate. Sorry!!
Hope I helped.
Ok.. well junior prom is in two weeks, and I don't have a date. I'm a girl, so I don't plan on asking anybody, and if anybody was going to ask me, they would have asked by now.
I was just going to go with a few friends but trying to find a dress and stuff... I just realized that I really don't want to go. I mean, the only reason I'm going is to say that I went, but I have a feeling that I won't enjoy it very much (especially without a date). And I don't know if it's worth the money if I'm not going to have fun, especially because my parents can't afford it.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to not go, because then I'll be sitting at home on Saturday night while all my friends are at prom and I'll be sorry I didn't go... but if I go, I won't have fun and I'll just be miserable.
I don't know. If I had a date, it would be okay, but I don't think I'll have fun without a date. What should I do?
My Jr. Prom was two days ago. I had no desire of going. All the pressure to get a date, waste money I didn't want to waste for one stupid night and everything else. So I didn't go. While at home that day I really didn't feel like I was missing anything. But when I started seeing all of my friends start posting the pictures and saying how much fun they had. I started to wonder if I should have gone. But I see it this way, we still have Senior prom. So if you don't feel like going and stuff don't, save he money and have an amazing senior prom. But you don't need a date to have fun, you just dance with everyone it's not like everyone is going to only be dancing with their date.
like on myspace you know how every profile has codes on it and stuff.. how do you change it so like you have all the html disabled?
Go to the home page of your myspace. Right by the picture click on 'Account Setting' then click on 'change setting' by profile settings. Then just click on which html you want to disable and click 'change settings'
does anyone knows of some songs like forsaken by david draiman, slept so long by jay gordon, or not meant for me by wayne static. they are kind of vampiric, like they are all from queen of the damned soundtrack. i like that kind of stuff. if anyone knows any songs or bands who play that kind of music i'd appreciate it much.
Well I personally don't know of any songs, however if you take a look at this website you can. What it basically does is find songs that are similar to the ones you like. So you have to type in a name of a song or names of songs and it will find other songs for you that sound like it.
http://pandora.com/
I hope it helps =)
i need help finding a picture of these shoes that i want for my birthday.
http://www.finishline.com/store/catalog/product.jsp?sourceid=channel&productId=prod579614&PUMA&cm_mmc=shopping-_-shopping-_-n-_-product
like that, but the puma on the side is silver and filled in. i see people with them all the time.
daddy is going to buy the black and silver pumas for me for my birthday and needs a picture. i looked but cant find it anywhere.
if anyone can send me the url... =]]
the style is called Puma Speed Cat Big.
Every pair they have. You are bound to find them =)
http://store.puma.com/pumaUSStore/category.asp?catalog%5Fname=PumaUS&category%5Fname=WomensFootwear&mainCategory=Women&productType=Footwear&Page=0&shopBy=style&siteid=1
okay so i had my period from the end of march to like april 4. it was unusually light and i usually get real heavy at least for 1 day. well the next week, i got it AGAIN. it was weird. but it was the same length (7 days) and i don't know if that's normal. should i see a doctor about this? because it was really random and weird.
It perfectly normal to have more than one period in a month. & same goes for missing a period during one month. Nothing to really worry about. If however it starts to happen regular or you just really feel uneasy about it, talk to a doctor and have some tests done.
Hope that helps, take care =)
hey..im in 10th grade regular global history i do really well in that class high 90's and im thinking of doing Ap u.s. history next year do you think I will be able to handle it I never took any advanced courses before. like do they expect you to know everything the first day. Because I dont have everything in my head. I am a fast learner and do well in school what do you think? thanks
I recommend you ask some people that are in that AP class in your school. Because in my school AP US is the hardest AP class. On the first day they already had a test and had to know all the presidents in order when and for how long they served where all the states on the map where and I think the constitution. However I know in another hs it's a lot easier. So it all depends on your school. Ask around and find out about the teachers that teach AP US.
Good luck!!
Ever since the new SAT's have come out (with the new scoring and stuff) I'm really confused as to what's considered good. I got a 1710 and I know it's not bad, but is it good? Also, how many times should I retake it? I'm a junior and I took it at the end of January. My councilor (who seriously doesn't know what she's talking about half the time) said that I should take it in the begining of my senior year that was colleges get an updated score and that's what they want. Is that true? The reason I doubt her is because she's told students they're not good enough to get into certain colleges and then the students end up getting full rides there. (Like one of my friends and UNC Chapel Hill.) Also she doesn't let students take the classes they want. I want to work with kids and she says that I need to take AP and honor classes rather than "wasting your time taking foolish early childhood education classes" Isn't that total crap?! Anyway, I just wanted to know if I truly have to take the SAT's any more because I've already gotten the scores to get into the college I want to go to. (ASU) and I planned on taking them this summer just to see personally if I can improve, but I'm guessing I'm better off waiting until August or Sepetember.
Anyway, summed up - what are the new 'good scores'? Also, should I just wait until schools starts (I'm not wasting money taking it more than twice)? Okay, I think that's really all I wanted to know. I guess my question didn't need to be so lengthy, so sorry about that.
Ok I'm not exactly sure which test you took though. The new SAT is out of 2400 I believe. 1710 is very high. They recommend you take it twice. However if you like your first score there is no need to take it again.
In the early 1990s, the SAT consisted of six sections: Two math sections (scored together on a 200-800 scale), two verbal sections (scored together on a 200-800 scale), the Test of Standard Written English (scored on a 20-60+ scale), and an equating section. In 1994, the exam was modified, removing antonym questions, and adding math questions that were not multiple choice. The average score on the 1994 modification of the SAT I was usually around 1000 (500 on the verbal, 500 on the math). The most selective schools in the United States (for example, those in the Ivy League) typically had SAT averages exceeding 1400 on the old test.
Beginning with the March 12, 2005 administration of the exam, the SAT Reasoning Test was modified and lengthened. Changes included the removal of analogy questions from the Critical Reading (formerly Verbal) section and quantitative comparisons from the Math section, and the inclusion of a writing section (with an essay) based on the former SAT II Writing Subject Test. The Mathematics section was expanded to cover three years of high school mathematics.
Taking the test
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SAT
Also you can register for collegeboard.com. It gives you a lot of information on it and you can register there if you want to take it again.
http://www.answers.com/main/ntquery?s=SAT+scores&gwp=13
Hope I helped
Ok I really want the wing brush from this site
http://www.photo-shop-tutorial.net/quick_angel_wings_montage.php
If I did it right, after I saved it I clicked load brushes on my photoshop and loaded it but something popped up that said, "Could not load the brushes because the file is not compatible with this version of photoshop."
Is there a way it can? I REALLY want that brush
It might be for a newer version for photoshop and won't work for yours. The only way you can get it is if they post an image pack. Meaning they have all the brushes saved as gif or jpg. Or something like that. Then you can just open it and load it.
Also you can give me your e-mail if you want and I'll just sen you it as an image.
Alright, here's the deal. My best guy friend has recently sort of been brushing his hands up against mine and stuff, I don't know if it's accidental or on purpose, but it's been happening alot. I like him alot, nobody knows it. I want to hold his hand so bad, but i'm afraid that if I do i'll look like an idiot....like if what he has been doing is accidental, ya know. What should i dooooooo? It's killing me! Whenever he does it I get all nervous and giddy!
Just grab his hand too so you guys just hold hands. & if you looks at you just smile, and laugh. Like its a joke and two friends having fun. If you don't try you will never know. & by holding hands you won't ruin your friendship either. So just give it a try. I hope everything works out for you =D
ok so for my paper i made a heading and in it i have the page number. how do i hide the heading on the first page, but keep it on the rest of the pages? thanks!
Ok for Microsoft word
You go to File- page setup- hit the layout tab and then check the box that says different first page.
Hope I helped =)