Hey what's up Im Ryan, Im ambitious, playfull, funny, an all around great person to be with! If you want to know more ask me!
The United States Marine Corps is my life and i love being relied on to protect this country! I love going out to eat at a nice resturant and a very nice man or woman picks up my check just out of respect! I cant explain how it feels when people come up to me on the street and shake my hand like im a celebrity and tell me that im their hero! brings tears to my eyes. Mission before all else. God, Country, Corps, Self. We are America's 9-11 Force! First to fight, Last to leave. Thanks to all that care!
Gender: Male
Location: San Diego, CA...Originally from MN
Occupation: United States Marine Corps
Age: 20
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Hi Ryan! Thank you so much for helping me with my question about Dylan!! You really did make some interesting points that made me think. Here's what's happened so far as I followed your advice. I've realized that he is the kind of guy that on the phone and the computer he tries to act all smooth with the ladies but once you get to know him he is very childish so i suppose he isnt ready for a gf yet but when he approaches a girl he likes he's always like "there's___ my girl" to his friends so idk he just sends mixed signals. He does seem to like when I flirt with him but he'll never say he likes me though his friends continue to tell me he does. I dont know what to do anymore bc one minute he's supposedly telling his friends that i dont know how to act then he's acting so flirtatious and stuff...ugh i just dont know anymore! plus on top of that one of his other friends likes me and when i mention dylan he always says "dont like him he talks about you bad" but im never sure if it's true or if his friend is just saying that about him bc he wants a chance with me and doesnt want me to like dylan. andway if you could please help! you really knew what to say last time and i really appreciated it! thank you so much! please help if you can on this one! thanks again! (link)
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hmmm lets see...his friends tell you that dylan likes you but one of them that likes you says different. That to me is kinda weird? He's probably bringing up all the negative things and no positive points about dylan because he likes you and is jealous. It's not good to get information from a 2nd or 3rd party because it always gets mixed up somehow some way. It does sound to me that dylan likes you. Anyone can talk game on the phone or on the computer because you arent right in front of him. The childish part is probably because he hasn't matured yet. Im not sure how old he is but sometimes it will take some time for a guy to actually come around and stop being such an ass. Sounds like me when i was 16 haha. But what you need to do is not wait around forever for this guy. If he's going to act all childish and think he's top shit cuz hes got a girl that wants him then you have to show him different. Why don't you try to ignore him one day and see if he calls you up and asks you what's up. Now if he calls you dont give in and make it an hour long talk. Keep it short and sweet and say something like "hey im busy let me call you back later" and hang up. You have to show to him that you arent interested and ignore him a little bit and not be all over him and pull his ego into the sky thinking that he knows you want him and then he should realize that he really likes you and it will eat him alive to know what's going on. If that doesnt work then i would have to say move on. If you have anything else to add let me know alright.
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**hey guys! ok im 14/f. ive been friends w/ this guy since like 6th grade, and we r in 9th now. we have become better friends cause we have a class together, and we hang out sometimes on weekends w/ a group of friends. he talks to me a lot more now, and we r good friends. he even tells me like who he likes and stuff. recently he told me he stopped liking this girl cause he needed someone he could be himself around (his crazy...crazy self... lol) he'll call me babe and stuff like that sometimes 2 (im not sure if hes joking or flirting...?) what do u guys think? and... how can you tell if a guy likes you or not? for guys: what do u do to show a girl that you like her? thanks all** (link)
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guys usually flirt big time if they like the girl. Does he get physical with you...like wrestle, play fight anything like that?? It's usually a no brainer when a guy likes you because it's so noticable. Why dont you just ask him if he likes you?? what do you have to lose?
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PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!! (link)
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get his friends to get him to come around. I dont know how old he is but he could be afraid of a relationship...maybe he doesn't know what to do with a gf? But if his friends start gettin in his head that he's a retard for not going for you then he could probably come around. But you need to find something to light that fire under his butt to get after you! If you have any other questions let me know alright
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Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.
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well if it keeps burning up your brain by not telling him then you should. If he loves you in return he will find a way to forgive you. Next time you should think twice about going to an x's house alone and kissing him later that night. That isn't cool. But if you want to take that weight off your chest you have to say something because if you dont you will have that burdon on your shoulders everytime you see your bf.
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i've known my best friend for almost two and a half years now, and i have some hilarious pictures and memories from the past bit. also some serious ones and all that. anyway, i want to somehow incorporate everything he and i have been through into some sort of gift to be able to give him at the end of high school (we're juniors right now). but i'm kind of blanking on good ideas. i want to make sure it can have all of our inside jokes and all that, and be something he can keep forever, you know? any help would be greatly appreciated! (link)
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Well you could put together a photo album with comments next to all the pics. Or buy a book with a bunch of blank pages and you can paste all the pics into it and write what you want next to everything like a diary. I hope i helped you out a little bit
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ok welll.. im 14 and i gave head to someone and i told ONE person or two .. i forgot buh now everyone at schoool is talking about it . and tha kid i gave head to is yelling at me because people are saying that i told people when i didnt. right now i am in like trouble because ppl call me names like slut and stuff like that and they are like starting to hate me so idk. so right now i dont even no what to do. someone please help. (link)
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people are so immature now days! You know what they do that cuz they are jealous and just young! when you get older its no big deal like that nobody goes around ohh my god guess what she did ohh shes a slut.....dont worry just blow off those hatters.
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Ok theres this boy and we hooked up BUT now hes like I like this other girl better then u HOW do I get over him? (link)
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Keep busy with other things like...shopping with friends. Go out and meet new guys. The only way that will help you get him off your mind is to keep busy so you dont think of him
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Hey, a couple months ago me and my boyfriend got caught having sex. I'm 15 years old and my parents were not too happy with me. They had no idea that I was sexually active before. They grounded me and told me that I could never see my boyfriend again, but I talked them into letting me stay with him, thats all taken care of but how can I gain their trust back? please help.. (link)
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all with time....they were just shocked thats all. Dont worry it will blow over
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Me and my b/f have been going out now for 3 months. And i haven't kissed him yet..not even a peck. Is there something wrong with me? He has tried once to make a move but i backed off. Does anyone have any advice on how to do it or anything??!!! (link)
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maybe your nervous? But yeah you gotta give him some lovin for being your man! Let him kiss you...or go out on a limb and kiss him when he doesn't expect it. good luck
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i rly like my boyfriend but when he asks me to do sumtin gi dont really want to bt i rly rly like him so... idk i think its becuz im shy around him and dont tak much but i want to be able to talk more around him and not be shy anymore. (link)
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you need to relax. Get comfortable around him. Stop trying to think so much and go with the flow
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When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening? (link)
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morning after pill
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my friends parents didnt save up money for her to go to college and they tell her that she cant live away from home and has to go to community college or the one nearby even tho she wants to go away - shes smart tho, like she gets good grades and stuff just not high enuf to get a large scholarship and i feel bad bcuz she doesnt have much options and i do ~ is there any way to help? (link)
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there is always financial aid. Almost everyone cant afford to go to college they get help through financial aid. Or she can join the military like me and have it all paid for in full. But i doubt that will happen. Good luck though
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ok here it goes i really like my best friend but i dont think he likes me and i dont know how to ask him and i don't want my other friends asking him because i don't want them to lie to me to make me feel better and i was just wondering if anybody knew how i could tell if he likes me or not (link)
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well do you flirt with eachother...wrestle, tell him you like him...or ask him how he feels about you. what do you have to loose??
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As part of my value system, I feel it is necessary for me to save my virginity for whomever might become my wife.
My foresight has not predicted I would be in my early thirties and still not in the position whereby I would be in a deep relationship.
Being without this in my life has detimentally affected my emotional health.
How can I find the best way to cope? (link)
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Well it sounds like you need some female interaction. I know how you feel...Im in the Marine Corps and sometimes we dont get to see women for a while and yes you get depressed. Find some female friends and if you have some go chill and i know you will feel better! Good luck
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how do i prevent the red razor bumps on my bikini line from coming when i shave? and how do i get a very close shave to where you cant even tell there is hair there? i want it all gone but everytime i shave it just turns red and gets razor burn. (link)
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try a different razor....maybe the shaving cream you are using irritates your skin. Try waxing or the hair removal lotion.
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my parents only gave me 100 dollars to spend for school clothes. and i really need both pants and shirts any ideas on how to get alot of the stuff i want for that price. thx. much appreciated!! (link)
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tj max...goodwill...old navy would be good
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i love this boy nd see we broke up but it was a big mistake nd yea .. long story but umm hes suposed to mayb comin over onr day nd hes goin to kiss me or make out wit me in other words nd im scared bnot that i haven done it before but i feel real strong for him nd i wana kno wat should i do to help me not be so nervous ..
Help .. i rate (link)
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go with the flow! If he kisses you then kiss back...only do what you are comfortable with! good luck
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How do you de-stress?? I have been having the worst stressful days and I have been having horrible headaches as a result. I need to destress.
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Workout! I swear it's the best way to relieve stress! So go out and sweat a little and you will feel better
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I have been in a relationship for a long time. I recently discovered that my girlfriend wants to bring another woman into our sex life...what should i do??? I realy care about my girlfriend i wonder if it would ruin what we have??? (link)
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Bang the chick!!! OHH yeah buddy! dont pass that trash up!
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i have this best friend and i like him alot but he doesnt like me and like everytime he does something and i get mad he says something real sweet and i wanna like him more and like he doesnt wanna go with me cuz he doesnt like me im so love struck what do i do??? (link)
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You know what i would just try to move on....he's not the only person in the world for you. Dont' stress yourself over this guy. You are probably young and you have a lot of life ahead of you so move on and find someone better!
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