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Hi Ryan! Thank you so much for helping me with my question about Dylan!! You really did make some interesting points that made me think. Here's what's happened so far as I followed your advice. I've realized that he is the kind of guy that on the phone and the computer he tries to act all smooth with the ladies but once you get to know him he is very childish so i suppose he isnt ready for a gf yet but when he approaches a girl he likes he's always like "there's___ my girl" to his friends so idk he just sends mixed signals. He does seem to like when I flirt with him but he'll never say he likes me though his friends continue to tell me he does. I dont know what to do anymore bc one minute he's supposedly telling his friends that i dont know how to act then he's acting so flirtatious and stuff...ugh i just dont know anymore! plus on top of that one of his other friends likes me and when i mention dylan he always says "dont like him he talks about you bad" but im never sure if it's true or if his friend is just saying that about him bc he wants a chance with me and doesnt want me to like dylan. andway if you could please help! you really knew what to say last time and i really appreciated it! thank you so much! please help if you can on this one! thanks again!
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hmmm lets see...his friends tell you that dylan likes you but one of them that likes you says different. That to me is kinda weird? He's probably bringing up all the negative things and no positive points about dylan because he likes you and is jealous. It's not good to get information from a 2nd or 3rd party because it always gets mixed up somehow some way. It does sound to me that dylan likes you. Anyone can talk game on the phone or on the computer because you arent right in front of him. The childish part is probably because he hasn't matured yet. Im not sure how old he is but sometimes it will take some time for a guy to actually come around and stop being such an ass. Sounds like me when i was 16 haha. But what you need to do is not wait around forever for this guy. If he's going to act all childish and think he's top shit cuz hes got a girl that wants him then you have to show him different. Why don't you try to ignore him one day and see if he calls you up and asks you what's up. Now if he calls you dont give in and make it an hour long talk. Keep it short and sweet and say something like "hey im busy let me call you back later" and hang up. You have to show to him that you arent interested and ignore him a little bit and not be all over him and pull his ego into the sky thinking that he knows you want him and then he should realize that he really likes you and it will eat him alive to know what's going on. If that doesnt work then i would have to say move on. If you have anything else to add let me know alright.
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