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HI im 12 years old and one of my best friends cuts herself ive been told to tell the guidence councler and stuff but either im nervous or she thinks shell get in trouble do u have any advise of what I can do to help her? thanks
i rate high
dazed & confused

listen, when someone cuts themselves like that, they don't want a guidance counselor to know. it's because it's considered shameful. however, it's so incredibly dangerous, and there's a lot there psychologically that your friend needs to work out in her life. and she's not going to be able to do that without help; after all, her solution to her problems is to cut herself. please tell someone, either a guidance counselor, a teacher you both have, or parents. but an adult needs to know soon.
good luck with all of this, i wish you and your friend the best

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for one and a half years. He still has his exgirlfriend's engagement ring in his drawer. When I ask him what he is going to do with it he just tells me he don't know. He says, "what should I do with it?" I am sick of looking at it. She has caused so many problems for us. I just want the ring to be gone. He says he doesn't want to just give it away because it cost too much money. At this point I am ready to throw the piece of metal in the dump. What would you suggest to do with it.

you can always melt it down and recast it into something fabulously wonderful for you =o)


that way, not only do you get the guy, but a kickin' new piece of jewelry too

or just tell him that it makes you uncomfortable to have something of hers in such a personal "you and him" kind of area

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How do I get my ex boyfrind to want me back?

alrighty
so girls seem to be the most desirable when someone else has them
because as girls, we're twenty kinds of happier when we're with someone

try to achieve that same happiness, it should show him that you're still an amazingly awesome person


and if it doesn't, just recognize that sometimes, people break up for good reason

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http://tinypic.com/i5tawn.jpg
First of all, that's my dog. It's a red dacshund and I need some good names for HIM

i like lou

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ok. theres this guy that i like. his names ricky. and hes a major hottie. and i think he likes me but im not sure. ok. and he wants to hang this weekend. i dont know what were gonna do yet. but he was saying he wants to hook up with me. and i dont know if thats kissing or sex. but im not worried about that right now. ok. and like he seems like he likes me. but then sometimes he doesnt. like.....i dont know how to explain it. but anyways...like hes nice to me. and seems fun to hang with. and i like him alot!! and i really wanna hang out with him. and do a lil more. =] ha. but anyways....do u think he likes me or just wants to get some....? cause im a virgin. and he aint gonna get that. he might get kissing and maybe a lil more. but not that.

i'll rate high!!

hooking up = kissing mostly

you're too young to be having sex i think... don't just do it with someone because "he's a major hottie"

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14/f
okay i have perfect teeth, and have never had a cavity, but today they are pulling this one baby tooth that never came out because the bigger tooth is coming in above it. well more like it came out above it. but i really like it, but the things is if the baby tooth comes out ill have a gap and ill be screwed. see, i really dont what them to pull it because then ill have braces, and i really dont want them. {it doesnt even look bad. and i like it!} should i nevous about this or am i just being dumb? ~ace

don't be nervous

it's likely the baby tooth would fall out later in life, and it's easier to correct gaps like that now, because adults with braces are a lot less common.

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The guy I'm kinda seeing likes the "natural look"; no makeup, real breasts, and he prefers I don't shave because it's more natual, things like that. I'm at that point where I haven't quite snagged him as a boyfriend yet, but I'd really like to, so I'm willing to kind of change my style to make myself more attractive to him.Right now, my style would probably be labeled as "emo", and I wear alot of vintage-inspired clothing as well.

So here's my question: how can I achieve the "natural" look with my style, hair, and anything else?

wow... um, first off, how old are you, and why have you discussed your genitals with this boy?

anyway, as for your style. i've always seen the whole vintage thing as pretty natural in itself.

and for make up, you don't have to not wear makeup, just tone it down. browns and cream colors for eye shadow and stuff
minimal eye shadow
dunno about your hair or anything though, so good luck!

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i just ruined my friendship with a girl i know because she found out something i said...i mean, she still is my friend but she knows something i said that i didn't want her to. she pretty much knows i said it but not for sure...what do i do to make it up to her even though she is not mad i still want to do something nice

15/f

apologize to her

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lately my bff has been getting on my nerves. everything i like, she has to like too. but evrything i cant do, she makes a huge point that she can do it. and every time i like a guy she always decides she likes him a couple days after i tell her i like him. and theres other little things but enough of them to make me want to scream! i will rate 5s 4 good answers!

stop telling her things.
she's not your best friend any more
she's a copy cat.
and it's annoying as anything, probably not just to her.

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my hair is SOOO dry..any suggestions on how to make it soft and "lush"? lol

use garnier fructice shine enhancing serum.

it's in a ball shaped container, with a green top, and a clear bottle. it's roughly the size of a tennis ball (the container, not the pump)

it works wonders.

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my boyfriend and i have been together for a year nnow, i love him so much. but my problem is i have had dreams that ive been making out[and more] with guys (that i know like me) and in my dreams i feel happy when i cheat, but when i wake up i feel horribl. anyone know what is going on?
15/f

you're sexually frustrated?
as long as you don't act on it, there's absolutely nothing to worry about.

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What is the exact location of the Arabain gulf in relation to Asia

http://www.unu.edu/unupress/unupbooks/80858e/80858E1E.GIF

find saudi arabia on the map. look east. there's the gulf. look east more, and past a few countries. there's asia.

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There is this guy who a little younger then me (nothing illegal or anything)...he goes to my school and we always make eye contact in the hallways and sometimes i catch him staring at me. I think he's really cute and maybe kinda like him but i dont really know him. I want to talk to him but it's hard because i'm so shy n he seems kinda shy too. I'm mostly scared to talk to him because he might not even like me, thats what usually happens anyways. I kno i shouldnt waste my life thinking what if but im to scared to make a move, it's not my kinda thing, is there anything i can do to maybe talk to him?

drop a pen when you walk by him. have your hands full. ask him if he could get that for you

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I'm 17/f and my boyfriend is 18/m and he doea not understand the meaning of time. He is constantly late to everything. And I mean everything! I used to put up with it (we've been dating for almost 2 years) but I just can't anymore.


About a week ago, my dad threw a party for his company and instead of going with my family, I went with my boyfriend. My family left for the patry and I left to his house. When I got there, HE WAS STILL ASLEEP! I got him up and he had to take a shower so he did that. About 30 min. later, his parents were leaving for the party and asked me if I wanted to ride with them. Of course I said no. My boyfriend and I ended up being an hour and half late to the party. My dad was really mad.


The next day, we were supposed to go to the mall at 2pm. Of course, he wasn't on time. It got to be about 3:00 when he finally got to my house. I told him that I didn't feel like going anymore and we got into this big fight about how he's always late.


How can I get him to understand that it's important to not olny me but to ohter people as well that he get's to where ever he's supposed to be the time he says he will?

buy him a watch for christmas. better yet, start programming things into his cell phone scheduler when he's not looking

or just tell him to be ready for something an hour before he needs to be


for revenge: start showing up to everything he arranges late.

arrive entire days later.

ask him if it annoys him.

orrr.... promise him that you'll come over and show off lingerie as a christmas present (don't actually do it)

then tell him that you just sort of forgot about it... and that you couldn't be where you were supposed to be because of it

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okay recently my friend has got her dream guy and already we dont hang out because shes always with him. obvisouly i knew this was going to happen but now im always mad at her for talking about him. i am TOTALY happy for her but is there any way that i can get her to realize that she is blowing off her friends for him without being rude. thanks for any advice you can give me!

next time she blows you off to be with her boyfriend, just kinda laugh about it, and say, "wow, that's the third (or whatever) time this week!"

see how she reacts. sometimes you just need to plant the idea in her head that she's ignoring you.

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why do you think religion is important?

because it's what's given me something more important than myself to work towards when things get difficult.

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what types of precautions should a person take before taking part in sexual activities if they have never had sex before?

use protection.
try and use more than one form
for example: a condom and the pill

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I know this sounds really weird, but is it normal to have a little crush on a character in a movie? Not the actor, but the character. Because, I have no idea why, but I kind of have a crush on the Phantom from "Andrew Lloyd Webber's Phantom..." I don't know why. Maybe it's because he's so dramatic, you really feel for him, has a great voice, and/or the unmasked side of his face is goodlooking. Is this pathetic?

nope.
don't worry 'bout it.
just don't become obsessed.

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Okay I'm 13/f and I have liked this one guy scince last year. Me and my one friend talked to him about it. He said that I'm prude and weird to my friend and when I asked him about it he said that He loves me and never would say that. Then he asked if I could give him a hand Job. At first I said sure but I didn't really feel like doing it becuase I was neruves. After that he asked my friend if I would let him eat me out and let him finger me. Then my friend asked me if I would and I said I dunno and she told him IDK[I odn't know] and then he asked if I would give him head[blow job]. I wanna do this stuff to him. Like I've fingured my self before and like I want him to do it. I'm just kinda worried. Would he like it shaved. Would he like me after. Should I do it?
13/f

your guy-friend crush thing is using you.
don't do it.
you'll regret it so much later

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I have a unibrow..no doubt about it..but i started shaving for at least 5 months. Im not stupid and i new that it'd grow back darker and thicker. But i just thought i'd shave it all off before anyone could see. But now it's really dark and there are black dots.How do i get rid of it?

um... wax.
it makes the hairs finer and pulls out some of them forever

it's like the reverse of shaving

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