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okay recently my friend has got her dream guy and already we dont hang out because shes always with him. obvisouly i knew this was going to happen but now im always mad at her for talking about him. i am TOTALY happy for her but is there any way that i can get her to realize that she is blowing off her friends for him without being rude. thanks for any advice you can give me! <3
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i would just hang out with your other friends for now like when you go places still invite her if she doesnt want to go than she doesnt wanna go. tell her that you really want to spend time with her but you are always with your boyfriend.
hope i helped!!
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next time she blows you off to be with her boyfriend, just kinda laugh about it, and say, "wow, that's the third (or whatever) time this week!"
see how she reacts. sometimes you just need to plant the idea in her head that she's ignoring you.
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Just be honest with her. Just be like," Hey, I'm really happy for you and everything it's just me and all your other friends really miss you. We hardly see you anymore and we don't want to end up losing you as a friend". Or something like that. It shows that you ARE happy for her, but you and everyone else misses her too so you're not sounding rude at all. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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Well yea if you dont talk to her about it she will keep on ignoring you and pretty soon she might not even talk to you at all. If you really want to stay friends with her then you should talk to her about. Just tell her that you kno that she really likes this guy and your totally happy for her and everything but you dont want to loose her as a friend just because she has a boyfriend too. Just tell her how you feel and if she really isa true friend she will unerstand how you feel and include you. <3
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I know it is hard to have friends with boyfriends, maybe if you found a guy you could hang out with them. It is not right that she is blowing you off but maybe if you just told her what she it doing. If you dont say something the problem will continue and nothing will be solved. Maybe if you asked to lunch or go to the mall together and talk to her about it face to face.
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