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my bff
lately my bff has been getting on my nerves. everything i like, she has to like too. but evrything i cant do, she makes a huge point that she can do it. and every time i like a guy she always decides she likes him a couple days after i tell her i like him. and theres other little things but enough of them to make me want to scream! i will rate 5s 4 good answers!
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Well I'm gonna say what adults told me when I was little. *sigh* It might not make you feel any better (It didnt when it was told to me) But it's almost always true, and it'll explain why your best friend has been acting the way she does.
"When someone copies you, they envy you"
So I believe that when she makes the point that she can do something that you can do, she wants to be like you. I think the same goes for your crushes.
Since you two are friends, she obviously likes you for who you are.. and I think some part of her wants to be just like you.
I really really do think that you should bring this up with her. If you two are best friends, then I can't see why you can't talk about it. But the way I'd tell her if I was you (which I'm not) if to bring it up casually in a conversation.. face to face if you can help it.
Well good luck to you and your friend.. Hope I helped!! -Ce
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OMG haha i had this problem everyone eventually has this problem. You really have two options.
1-Tell her to buzz the blank off
2-Deal with it
Sorry to be so blunt but its the truth hun
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stop telling her things.
she's not your best friend any more
she's a copy cat.
and it's annoying as anything, probably not just to her.
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well tell her how you feel when she does this stuff...and try to reason with her...tell her that she needs to be herself...tell her she needs to be a leader not a follower...hoped i helped...
♥ alley
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you definitely need to tell this friend how you feel. i mean, if they're doing this, than they aren't that much of a friend. tell her straight out "i'm sorry, but you're getting a little clingy and it's kinda ocward for me". be polite and nice. u dont(!!!) want to be mean. that'll make things worse!
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I think that girl is jealous of you lol I think she wants to be like you so she can get the boys that she likes or something or she is just a HUGE fan of yours and copies you... but tell her to stop doing whatever you do tell her she is annoying you and that she needs to find someone else to copy but just not you or something lol .... Hope I helped...
~*+*Dri*+*~
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First talk to her about it and if the guy thing really bothers you like no duh i would hate it too just don't tell her who you like or if you want to make someone up and see if later she starts to like him later to see if she really just does it to make you mad!! i think its a good idea to see and remember she might just look up to you
good luck; hugz&&prayers
julia
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She might be jealous. But i think you should sit her down and ask her why she's been copying you so much lately. Tell her you love her like a sister, but you like having your "own thing". If she apologizes and says don't worry, I'm just jealous or something like that, she's a true friend and she has just been sad or depressed recently. Some people could've made fun of her, or made her feel low on herself.
^^ let me know if i helped!
**Hope it works out**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O
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