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okay so here is my story. my parents had me before they got married..but they got separated before that so i guess im technically a love child-but anyways thats not the point.
what my question is, is who should i live with as i go into my first year of high school???
let me give you a bit of an updated backround before you answer this not-easy question...
~dads house~ dad, stepmom, and stepbrother (17)
PROS: no crying babies, more alone time, more time with me/my dad, more attention(more like atleast some attention), good healthy food, spending money, dad usually takes me places on the weekends
CONS: i dont get to see my sisters grow up, i probably break the small contact that ive had with my mom to almost zero and i may be homesick because ive always lived with her since the separation, dad will be popping any zits he sees on me (ouch!), my stepmom has these 'moments' when she gets really pissed off and doesnt talk to anybody and she slams doors and all that crap to let everyone know shes mad**that lasts for days**and it is unbearable!!, and i hate my room (but i understand that can be changed)
~moms house~ mom, stepdad, half sister (5), half baby sister (14 m)
PROS: i have friends here that i get to hang out with, i get to go to the bball court and 7/11 and Osco with a friend(walking distance), i looove my room, school has been good(friends, no enemies, good teachers, good year)*so i am in hope that the next will be just as much fun*
CONS: my mom and i have little contact(i always feel like im bothering her), i cant stand my sisters(their parents didnt raise them the right way)+ i have no say..i am yelled at for yelling at them when theyre bad*mainly the 4 yearold*, i have no say in anything, i only get to see my dad on the weekends, my mom is too overprotective of me, were moving after 8th grade(and not sure if im going to my designated high school)*that means new friends and new neighborhood*(ive moved alllot), not so good food(so i go to fastfood places and eat junk-not good), and no spending money + i havent been shopping in like 3-4 months, no one takes me anywhere..i always have to ask for a friends ride
alright well even though there may be a bit of a lopsided diference..some 2 things combined equal to one thing on another list (and they are both equally bad)..so if you can help me decide before i finish 8th grade..that would be great. and please explain..dont make it a MOM or DAD answer....thx soo much. ill rate high!! (link)
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dude i would kind of go with dad because the pros are kind of better i mean as of now you can see him on the weekends and you could do that with your mom too...umm why dont you see if you could switch houses for each school quarter or something...if you need someone to talk to im me on aim and ill see if i could clarify myself better...my sn is xoxoyayaxox
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ok well i have the same problem as this other girl on here that ....when she tried to brake up with her boyfriend he started to cry and make her feel bad so she stayed with him...well, i have the same problem...but i want to be his friend and he dont want to be my friend if we brake up...and that hurts me :( how can i get him to be ...my friend? (link)
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yes it makes plenty of sense and well as for the how do i make him want to be my friend...just talk to him more and more about it before you break up with him and maybe hell change his mind about wanting to be your friend in the end or at least by the time youve had it up to here with him lol not only that..after you two break up, you could hang out with his friends and just be around him alot so hes obligated to want to be with you...this way theres no avoiding you and he wont feel as akward doing it...if you dont understand what im saying then i guess you could im me on aim....xoxoyayaxox
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This is not the kinda question i should be asking, but im curious. (dont get grossed out)
Im a guy who is very sexually active with one partner, my question is the following..my girlfriend hardly ever gives me head not because she doesnt want to, but because for the last 8 months or so, ive had this very bad odour comming from my penis. The thing is im the cleanest person ever, i shower everyday and pay extra attention to washing my penis properly, however 10 or 15 minutes later, the smell is back. Ive gotten checked for all stds many of times, and i know for a fact that im my girlfriends first and only lover. Any body have any ideas as to why this odour keeps on destroying my feallatio fantasies? (link)
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that doesnt sound to good...you see the thing is if this started happening to you before you had your fisrt encounter with your gf (not oral, sex wise) she may have had a yeast infection and even though it sounds gross and impossilbe because according to a lot of people males canet get yeast infections but they can....only if there partner had it while they had sex..but i forgot the name of it for a boy...o well...if she didnt then you probably just have some sort of condition and im sure your not the only one...i guess you could use lotion or something durable to rub on your penis to make the smell go away, i mean just imagine the look on your girlfriends face the next time she goes down there and it smell like powder or something sweet...there are also things that they make exspecially for guys to rub on there penis's to make them taste better for when the recieve head and im sure that would work too.but the good news is if you do have a yeast infection then it can be cured because there are a million things you can buy to treat them...hope i helped and im realy sorry this ran long
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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.
lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??
thanks!! (link)
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not unless you sit on it and push it up into after a couple of seconds after the other ppl had the sex
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Okay usually I have no problem talking/flirting with guys. And I usually never fall for the popular type.
But now I'm head over heels for Adam. We have a few classes together and share some similar intrests. I'm also the cheerleader for his basketball team. We talk occasionaly in class but I never know what to say around him cause he's more of the popular sort. When we do talk; its really flirting. He smiles alot and so do I. We make each other laugh alot too. However; after that its like we don't even knew each other.
How do I make things idkk .. more pumped? Hah, like how do I get us to talk more without it always being me saying " how was your day " then getting a one word answer.
Help equals instant 5. (link)
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well i dont usually answer these type of questions but i have too once founs yself in a similar situation...why dont you try to get a couple of your friends(guys and or girls) to goto the movie with you and invite him...decide to see a scary movie and have your friends help you set something up that makes you have to or wind up sitting next to him, and since its a scary movie try to get close and at the real scary parts(or if its a lame movie at the most scary parts)act scared if you have to and jump at lot and grab him(like his hand) or try your best to cuddle with him....then youll just have to wait and see where it progresses from there...let me know if i helped you in any way....goood luck
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Ok, I'm going to go through all of this and try to not sound vain or concieted. I'm just going to be totally honest because I am the 'advisor' of our group and I am totally killing myself trying to help her.
So my friend Angela and I were fat geeks two years ago. I was the one with the sense of fashion though. Last summer, she went on vacation and came back totally transformed and in shape. She has a really nice body now. I passed on all my advice to her and she started wearing designer labels and boots and pretty much copying my "style". I didn't mind though, like it's flattering to me that she would take whatever I said to heed.
Over the last two years, I got thinner too but I a little overweight and not nearly as thin as Angela.
The problem with Angela is that she isn't the prettiest girl on the block. She has a huge forehead which she has covered up with bangs but now her face is totally square-shaped and it kind of looks like a block. She has no-lips, not thin lips, just no lips. The thing that stands out about her is her gorgeous blue eyes and her body. Anyway, she's not very attractive but she's a very nice and honest (although sometimes she annoys guys by nagging and starting arguments).
So I don't have that great of a body but I'm lucky, I inhereted good genes from my parents. I'm not as beautiful as mother but I'm fairly ok.
All my other friends are really pretty too.
So we recently found out that Angela was upset because the rest of our friends complemented me more than they complemented her. Well, I was pretty mad because I didn't think she should be that superficial. People usually commented when she went the extra mile to get ready when they do that all the time to me. Honestly, I thought it was a fair trade, I was... I guess prettier than her but she has a great body.
Now guys aren't all that interested in her. She's pretty much labeled herself desperate in fun (something no one should do even if they're joking, in my opinion). Some guys say it's becasue she comes on too strong and some say she isn't that pretty.
Recently, this guy told one of my friends that he thought I was hotter than Angela. That friend told Angela and Angela hinted that she didn't understand why. When we're all together and I talk about how so-and-so might have been hitting on me, she agrees with everyone when they say that he probably was but I can kind of -sense- that "Yeah right" is on her mind.
For example, if a guy in our class talks to me a lot, the next day, she'll wear a more revealing sexy top to the same top and try to talk to him a lot.
I'm wondering what's going on with her. Does she think I'm ugly or something? Is it jealousy? Or she thinks I'm unattractive and doesn't think guys will like me? Is she competing with me? She doesn't do it with my other friends and they're prettier than me and have better bodies. I'm afraid that this thing will escalate and I'll lose her.
I need to know how to fix this- and also try to get her a boy friend because she really wants one too. I rate 5s. (link)
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well i'll say that it sounds like your friend is a little jealous that she took her time to loose weight and she did a great job but she still doesnt get hit on or have a boyfriend....she probably thinks that you are out to get because your prettier then her and in her head she probably thinks that you think that if your prettier then her then you shouldnt have to waste your time trying to be skinier then her, then again she probably cant stand the thought of rejection and gettin rejected because of her looks and not her body(do you understand what im trying to say?)give her time to cool and if she keeps at this or gets worse then i suggest that you have a talk with her....let me know how things worked out and if my advice did or will help you any
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ok for some crazy reason when i am on myspace sometimes it wont let me go to the next page it just says (javascriptnextpage('1') now my question is how can i fix this? thanks so much. (link)
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just double click the next page buttin and it might not work and then again it might....it does that to me all the time
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*14//female if it helps* ohkk .. so um theres this kid who i like and im pretty sure he like me too (we'll call him bob) and he just broke up with his girlfriend cuz she was cheating on him =o .. but one of his friends likes me too - and i sorta like him whos been single for a while -sometimes it seems that they're fighting over me - ahhh i dont know what 2 do (link)
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go for the one you like best and hey, if one turns you down go for the next...jp
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In what solutions can osmosis occur out of these 3:
Salt Water
Grape Juice
Water (link)
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i think its grape juice but im not positive
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can someone tell me why my cat pees everywhere?and how can i make hi stop doing it?all 5s (link)
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he is probably marking his sanctuary he could also have a bladder or urinating problem....you can always nueter him....also...this also works for dogs....after he pees somewhere...clean it up however you clean it up then sprinkle the spot with vinegar...not to much so that you can smell it...just enough for the cat to smelkl it...this prevents the cat from peeing there ever again....after a little bit (a couple of days to a couple of weeks) reclean the spot to get rid of the smelll...the cat still knows not to pee there in most cases
hope i helped
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I'm getting a new red puppy daschund tomorrow. I need help with some names for her. I like the name Roxy. I need more similar like that. I don't want it to me a characteristical name like brownie. (link)
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foxy
ladie
angel
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on december 26, a new family is moving in to the house next door to mine. my mom talked to their realtor (another neighbor) and found out that the family will have a 3 yr. old and a 5 yr. old. by the way, I'm 13.
the question that i have is, how long should i wait before i introduce myself, and how should i do it? i really want to babysit for them, and i work really well with little kids. i've never worked for pay before, just as favors for my aunt (with kids age 2 and 7) so im not really sure what to charge either.
i know this is really long, and has a bunch of different questions. but any answers will be appreciated to the tone of a 5! thanks in advance! (link)
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have your parents introduce you and why dont you have your parents ask them if they need a babysitter....when and if they want you to babysit for you, when thy want you to tell them how much you want to be payed be like 10 bucks a night that is like an hour to three hours and for 3 or more hours 6 to 7 $ an hour because that is minimum wage these days....you never know...maybe they wont even ask you and pay you how much they think they should pay you..ive gone through this before...if you have any other babysitting questions or any other questions dont be afraid to ask...ive been through a lot when it comes to babysiting...even losing my weekend babysiting job for my aunt because her 6 month old son tony passed away on mothers day and she didnt need a babysitter as much for her daughter...
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i am 14/f and i dont have a thong. am i the only one? how can i get some w/o getting embarrsed. how do i know my size?thnx 4 help! (link)
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wow-dejavoo all over again-my cousin is 15 and we went to mandees once- we were talking about thongs and if we should buy more because our moms threw all of ours out because we aint allowed to wear them- we had our sisters but them for us-well they refused to do it again and they werent with us this time anyway so we decided to buy them becase they were on sale for
$12 for 5 thongs. we took ten minutes to get the courage to go up to the rack- then it took us 20 minutes to find 5 each- then she didnt know her size so we went into the dressing room- i told her to put it on over her pants and she was so embrrassed that when she went out she had to grab the same looking thong but a different one becuse she didnt want to remember doing what she did with that very thong each time she put it on-so we had all of ours and we were on a huge line-she chickened out and made me stand there with 10 pairs of thongs in my hands when a whole bunch of guys came in- i was so embarrassed when they started looking at the candy and jewelry wrack right next to me...i got off the line and handed them to her and said i aint getting them unless you go up with me- so we got back on the even longer line and i made her pay- we did it one more time 2 weeks later and she bought her own all by herself i was so proud
moral of the story-go with a friend and maybe try one on in the dressing room-over your pants-and see if its the right size
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can you have sex during your period? (link)
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yes you can most definately have sex on your period-but i'd suggest youdo it with a condom because if he cumms in you-even if your on your period- you can get pregnant
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My boyfriend is FAR too calm. I hate it. I mean i love it at times but sometimes a realationship needs some tension. Like and I wanna fight with him than kiss and mkae up. He never gets mad. Like last week this guy completly tried to get in my pants right in front of him and he just laughed it off. PISSED ME OFF!
Today one of my best friends whos like obsessed with me and he put his arm around me and was like kissing my cheek and my bf wasnt even like mad at all.
How should I make him madder like cuz this calmness with be the downful of our realtionship. (link)
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tell him that your relationship has no tension and you hate that- if he dont change break it off- or at least pretend to cheat on him or leave him for someone else- thats should get him pissed.
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Here goes:
I'm 17 now but when I was in the 8th Grade (last year of Junior High) I was considered a "geek". I was bookworm. Overweight and quiet. There was this pretty popular boy in my class who used to make fun of me all the time. He really made my life hell. After about two months, he started acting different around me. Sometimes he'd be really mean and then sometimes he'd be super nice (like random acts of kindness) and the one day after school, him and his female friend were talking in an almost empty classroom while I was trying to finish up some math. She asked him a question with my name in it and my ears perked up and then she called me and she said "--- likes you" and I made a face at him because I thought he was an ass at the time. Anyway, I think I hurt him a bit. He told me he hated me a few weeks after that incident.
A few months passed and we entered high school and I started liking him (he was still pretty popular but I was still a geek) but I figured I only liked him because he used to like me and I thought I'd get over it.
That year he told my friend that I was a geek.
During high school I’ve grown to love him more. I'm not a geek and I've lost a lot of weight (although I'm still a few pounds up). People who used to know me consider me considerably ‘cooler’. I'm sort of what you would call semi-popular but I'm not sure if I still measure up.
I don't know if he likes me too. My friends aren’t sure either. They say that over the span of the past three years, he stares at me sometimes when I'm not looking and –I- catch him looking too (except I'm not sure if he was looking first or just kept looking at me because –I- look at him). He does stuff sometimes like get really fidgety if he's walking in front of me or put the volume up in his car if he's near me. Just basic stuff.
I'm wondering is there an indication that he likes me at all and this could work or is he still mad at me and just looks because he's trying to prove something to himself and/or me? (link)
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i have a feeling that he still likes you-try and talk to him- but if that doesnt work slip a little letter into his car or locker or book and just wait....
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Hey, im 16/f. I have a boyfriend back in Florida but im on vocation In Dominican Republic. Every summer i come to DR, but about 2 summers ago i met this boy and we liked eachother we kissed and stuff and after i left we talk a bit on the fone. last summer i came bakk and we went out wit my cousin and their friends and he kissed and he told me he loved me n stuff but i never siad anythin back....he told my cousins that he loved me and he wanted me badly. This summer im here again and i found out that he has a girl, i have a boyfriend too. But every summer that i was here i told him that i had a b/f but that never seemed to stop him. What i want to do is have this guy completly i want to play hard to get and have him want me even more. That were i need help, i know i could do it cuz iv done it b4 but i want more ideas. whant him to just want me. I promise i rate high. Thanx (link)
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1- kiss him better then you have ever done before. then drop him after telling him to dump his girl for you
2- bring your boyfriend with you to the dominican republic and tease him
3- brag bout your boyfriend
4- make him feel suppierior to you
5- dig up some dirt bout his girl
6- wait for fait to take its natural coarse
7- laugh at him because he only needed you because he didnt have a girl
8- tell him your glad that hes got a girl and now you can be free....
8- talk about (i know it sounds stupid and nasty and it might not of even happened) how great your man was in bed and tralk bout how you could never experience anything like it and no one can even be worthy of competing.
9- im me for more info and advice
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okay my friend is having a party tomorrow night and her parents arent going to be home .. and my mom treats me like im 5 so im thinking of getting dropped off early and then sleeping over there and then getting picked up later the next day so theres no sign that there was a party .. do you think thats going to work?? cuz if it doesnt then im screwed!! (link)
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i would most definately pull a stunt like that...sounds good
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ok... i like this guy but i cant say his name, so ill call him MR. BIGGLESWORTH.....and he is dating one of my friends...and the other day my best frined told him i liked him alot and that i was practically in love with him(and i am but that wasnt the way id hoped he'd find out)and he didnt say anything but that copuld have been because his gf was right there idk.....but i really want to go out with and i want him to go out with me to...........on wednsday of last week we were in lunch and he sits about 3 tables over from mine.......and he kept callin my name and when i would look over to him he'd cover his eyes like he was playing peek-a-boo with me and he kept doing it.....then i went to his table to arm wrestle him and he kept letting me win and then finally he plaid for real and he said that if he won that we had to do stuff but he was joking........then i went to go back to my table and he wouldnt let me leave without giving him a hug...........and when he gave me a hug he touched my butt...i know that sounds bad but he only did that when he liked me.......i just want to ask that from what i just wrote....do you think he still likes me or not?i rate good if your answer is good (link)
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o yea he most definately likes you......well if he duz that kinda stuff he either likes you or is playing some kind of sick joke on you just because he knows your true feelings about him and he may or may not be sure of his true feelings about you......just ask yourself what you think it is an d most likely the answer willcome to you!
hOPE I HELPED♥MeMe
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hey my name is Ashley and i'm a feamle(of course) and i'm 14 yrs. old heres my question for anybody with good advice!!!
I like my best friends ex!!! Heres the scoop... they broke up because my best friend was confused and she cheated on him. Well now(two months later) she starts telling me she now knows what she was missing and she really did love him and she wants desperately to go with him again. Now i've been talking to him since they broke up because he needed a friend cuz he really liked her but she cheated on him.(yea i kno guys actually have feelings...well at least the good ones) and i'm starting to like him now i mean he's the perfect boyfriend he's cute, hilarious, loving, i don't know he's just soOoOo great!! the thing is that my best friend who i've been friends with for almost 11 yrs. still "loves" him i really really think she'll be so mad if he askes me out or if i ask him. I dont know what to do cuz i dont want her to be mad at me but i dont get very many guys nowadays and i really like him and he told me i was hot yesterday please help me!!
Luv,
~~~ASHLEY~~~
P.S. i rate high
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wow...drama, drama, drama...she needs to get her priorities straight b/c shes the one who cheated on him...why was she confused? well you should tell her and if shes ok wit it then askk him or wait for him to ask you...if shes a lil pissed then you should still do it but if you do go out with him you should keep it on the down low until she is better or happy for you. if she is really pissed then idk what to say to you.
hope i helped♥MeMe
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