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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

advice

i know there has been a lot of questions like this so... i hope i'm not getting on your nerves! okay my birthday is in october and i'm turning 14, i have no idea what to do for my party b/c i can't have everyone over to my house or anything and what would we do anyway? i was thinking maybe w/all girls head to a spa or something, but i have a TON of guy friends. so please help! GOOD answers get 5's i'll report you if i have to!

you could have a pool party and order pizza to be delivered to the pool or something, something different n fun like bowling or lazer tag ahaha, you could get like 3 of ur best friends and you all go out to a really nice place for dinner, you could all go to an under 18 club, i dn theres much more! happy bday!

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I'm doing a paper on diabetes. Can anyone give me information on what it is, if its curable, how you take care of it and what's being done to cure it? Thanks! I rate 5's for good answers!

hey i looked it up on google..and i found a site with faq on it..i hope it helps!

http://www.cdc.gov/diabetes/faq/index.htm

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How and where can you get backgrounds for your advice column or can't you...please answer thanx in advance...

http://advicenators.com/backgrounds.php or you can upload your own. just go to http://www.hometown.aol.com and look through the pages n stuff...try 2 ask before you take backgrounds though!

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does anyone know that song that goes like "what was i thinking??" its a country song i think. thanks!

yeah its by dierks bently! its called what was i thinkin

Becky was a beauty from south alabama
Her daddy had a heart like a nine-pound hammer
Think he even did a little time in the slammer
What was i thinkin'
She snuck out one night and met me by the front gate
Her daddy came out wavin' that twelve gauge
We tore out the drive he peppered my tailgate
What was i thinkin'
Oh, i knew there'd be hell to pay
But that crossed my mind a little too late...'cause i was
[chorus]
Thinkin''bout a little white tank top sittin' right
There in the middle by me
I was thinkin''bout a long kiss man just gotta get
Goin' where the night might lead
I know what i was feelin'
But what was i thinkin'...what was i thinkin'
By the county line the cops were nippin' on our heels
Pulled off the road and kicked it in four-wheel
Shut off the lights and tore through the corn field
What was i thinkin'
Out the other side she was hollerin' faster
Took a dirt road and had the radio blastin'
Hit the honky tonk for a little close dancin'
What was i thinkin'
Oh, i knew there'd be hell to pay
But that crossed my mind a little too late...'cause i was
[repeat chorus]
When a mountain of a man with a "born to kill" tattoo
Tried to cut in i knocked out his front tooth
We ran outside hood-slidin' like bo duke
What was i thinkin'
I finally got her home at a half past too late
Her daddy's in a lawn chair sittin' on the driveway
Put it in park as he started my way
What was i thinkin', oh what was i thinkin'
Then she gave a come-and-get-me grin
And like a bullet we were gone again... 'cause i was
[repeat chorus]

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my eyeliner ALWAYS gets in the crease of my eye like 6 times after i put it on. help!

dont use pencil. liquid and/or powder stays alot longer

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ive been looking everywhere for that nair shaving stuff does anyone know where to get it?

cvs

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Does any one know any good sites where i can get glitter images and backgrounds and glitter names.. stuff like that. thanks i rate 5's

http://www.flamingtext.com then click on headings and make your own! lovee~x0x0x!

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I have really srusty feet and do any of yall have any sulutions on what I can buy to make them better please help me out because I really really need it a whole bunch

hey i asked a friend and she said that she read on a magazine that if you put a good amount of lotion into a like plastic baggy (like the grocery store ones) and put your feet in it, then put like a scrunchie around your ankle so ihe lotion doesnt come out (not too toght though or else you'll cut off circulation to your feet and then put a sock over the plastic bags and sleep with it like that (on both feet) then when you wake up in the morning your feet will be really soft and smooth! or if not, when you get pedicures they scrape ALL the dead skin off your feet and it doesnt hurt! xoxo

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Okay, my sister pretty much passed out while online, and I asked her friend why and he said because she said that she had really bad cramps, and that she was throwing up, which I can tell because it's in a bucket. But she got really light headed as he said and passed out? Now, I wanna know, is that normal, because she's only 14 and I'm worried about her. I don't want nothing bad happening to her, she's my baby sister.

Please help me.

Thanks.

i would say she could be pregnant but shes on her pd so i dont think thats it...some women loose a little bit too much blood when they are on their period and that causes them to get very light headed and of course that could lead to nausea and passing out...and ask her how long hse kept her last tampon in bc it could be TSS...thats doubtful though. good luck i hope she feels better!

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are saltine crackers and pretzals really healthy for you?? or are they just as bad as chips?

the salt isnt good but the rest i think is fine

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i want to measure my breasts. like to see what my size is. so how do you figure it out ?

go to a store like hanes or something underwear store and they measure it for you and tell you your size

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ok i have heard that if you put lemon juice in your hair and then go outside tha the sun makes the lemon juice make your hair lighter. is it true, and if not, what are some things that really do work. i dont want to color my hair, just make it lighter

yes that is true. the sun works with the acids in the lemon juice to lighten your hair. if for some reason it doesnt work, try sun-in. its not a dye but you put it in your hair then go in the sun n it gets lighter

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My boyfriend's away in Europe right now & he will be for another week. I'm missing him like crazy & I can only talk to him online because longdistance is expensive. What can I do to get through this time? Any ideas how to get my mind off missing him?

get a calling card!! its like a regular card the size of a credit card and you pay like 20 dollars for 20 min and that way its no extra charges on your phone and its not collect so he wont have to pay! the directions on how to use it are on the card you can get them at like grocery stores or walmart or kmart of whatever! hope this helps!

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Okay,im 13/f almost 14.And i wanted to start modeling.I was woundering what some good modeling places would be online or just classes or something.I've always wanted to do modeling because it sounded like something fun and i love getting pictures taken.Thanks if you can help :)

barbizan or millenium modeling. barbizan i think its pretty much walk in and millenium i think you have to have a scout spot you..i dn thats how i heard about it bc some scout stopped me at a concert...so go to some concerts or big events bc theres ALWAYS scouts there and also theres a few in some malls! good luck i really hope it works out for you!

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Ok so on Friday i am going to my freinds house for a "movie night" we're going to paly volleyball outside earlier and then later we're going to watch hide and seek. well no big deal. she invited 4 guys and 3 girls (shes the 4th girl). well its kinda like a paired off thing. she invited couples. except for me. she invited this guy. i kind of like him i guess. same with him. he told my freind he kind of likes me. well i dont know i thnk it's goign to br really weird. because all the other people are goign ot be with their girl/boyfreind and then there will be me and this guy. i like him and all but i dont know i think it will be weird.and im kind of worried that he's gonna like try something, because thats just the the kind of guy he is...so i guess i dont know what to do.
((14/f))

you should just see how it goes and just have fun and stuff. if he tries something and youre comfortable, just go along with it, maybe you guys will end up getting together! if he tries something and your not comfortable just tell him. he should understand! gl i hope you have fun!

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13/f

ok my friend and I are going to babysit together. What would be a good price to have parents pay for our babysitting? there is 2 of us and we both need money. but also we cant charge too too much cuz then we wont get any bizness. also, is there anything else about babysitting i should know?

♥

7-10 dollars per person per hour is what people generally charge now. about babysitting, if the kid gets upset or start crying, instead of you talking to them, if they have a sibling have the sibling talk to them and tell them its okay, it makes it easier for the upset child. umm...if they start crying for there mom or dad, tell them that they will be home soon and then get the parents on the phone and let the child hear their parents voice. and always play with whatever toys they want to play with, even if it doesnt interest you or else theyll get upset. dont just watch them but get involved with them. and one last thing, if the child is sleeping when you arrive to start, have the parent wake up the child because if the child wakes up to no parents and just a stranger in the house, they will freak out lol. good luck and have fun!

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alright so iv been dating this guy for almost 9 months now and me and him broke up about 15 times and the last time we broke up was bc he lied to me about stuff he did with a girl (back at the pond he kissed her and she touched his dick n all this) and he lied about it he swore on my life that nothing happened and he swore on our relationship. . . and i believed him of course then yesterday his cousin told me the truth . . . and i asked him about and he addmitted it i was like OMG! then we broke up and he said whateverrr!! really mean and i hung up and he didnt even call me back and i didnt believe his cousin i was like no he loves me too much he wouldnt lie. . . but he did lie! and he cried a lot and begged for me back for like 24 hours or so and i reallyyyyy love him with all my heart but during the almost 9 months like in the beginging he was soo nice then he just started lien to me a lot. . . and i found out and asked him about everything and he told me he wasnt hiding anything else and i believed him and that was after we dated for 5 months or so and he was really good after that then he flirted with a girl right in front of me which that hurt so bad!! then he called me a bitch and hit me 4 times but i really love him and this time i took him back bc i love him soo much. . . did i make a bad mistake??

i think you did make a mistake...this relationship is unhealthy on so many levels. i mean, if hes been lying to you, what would make him stop now? he has no reason to, and breaking up really doesnt seem to phase him sinse its happened so many times. your just hurting yourself by letting him do this to you. and hitting you? hell no girl..dont you EVER let a man hit you. if he hits you, you hit him back. if your not strong enough, kick him in his balls. girls have powerful legs (born with them)because we need them to carry our weight when we're pregnant, so you'll deff. effect him if you kick him there. but i woulda ended it right when he hit you. i know this probably isnt what you wanted to hear but its the truth. but i really do hope everything works out for you!

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anyone kno any good mypace layout websites. ill rate you etremely high if u give good answers

http://www.pimpwebpage.com

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I have a very bad case of Arachnephobia. I've always been afraid of spiders, but it wasn't always like a phobia. (Phobia here is defined as an irrational fear that interferes with normal living). It started about a year or two ago, when after a shower, I was toweling off, and there was a large spider on my towel. I hated spiders, so I flung the towel across the room, and spend the next half hour curled up, crying. It scared me half to death. Then later, my cousins and I went to a park, and there was a profusion of spiders. My little cousin Andy loves spiders, so he pointed out every single one. They were each about 4-6 inches long. After about five minutes, I couldn't take it anymore. I hid in the car and cried. Things reached their worse when last month, I woke to find a strange bite on my arm. I figured it was just a bug bite, and ignored it. By noon that day, the area near the bite had swollen into a huge bump, about three inches long and one across, and at least a half inch high. I was feeling naseous, and terrified. I was so afraid that I refused to sleep in my bed that night.

Things have just gone down hill from there. Some nights, I won't sleep because I am afraid of the spiders. I check my blankets almost every night, and sometimes sleep in another room. I shake my towel out before using it. I check the shower and garage for spiders before entering. I know this is irrational and abnormal, but somehow I can't help it. What should I do?

my mom has a severe phobia of bees, to the point where she would cry when she had to walk from the house to the car. we all (my family) make her go the a doctor that deals with those phobias and they put her on a special medicine for it, she has to take it once a day. ever sinse she started on the meds, shes been absolutely fine. she gets a bit jumpy around bee's now but its NOTHING like how it ued to be. now her reaction is just as any normal persons, not even that bad. so i guess what im saying is you should go to a doctor and explain to her your phobia and ask her to give you some medication for it bc it really does work! hope this helps xoxo

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Hi, I have a friend that is moving, and she really liked the kid i was going out with then. He told me that she was really annoying him so he told me that he was going to go out with him until she moved and then go back out with me. Somehow, she found out and got wicked mad at him so dumped him and he told me that he didnt want to og back out with me. I still like him even though he lied to me but I dont know if he stll likes me because i got a little mad at him after he told me he didnt want to go back out wiht me.

I need advice!

i think you should apologize to your fridn bc even though you were just trying to make her happy, it was kind of messed up. im sure you didnt mean to hurt her but think if someone did it to you. and the boy, i say forget him. do you really want to be with someone who would lie to you, hurt your friends, and talk behind your frieds back [saying she was annoying]? i mean its your callbut thats just my opinion. hope it helped somewhat!

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