I am in a very serious commitment with my fiance. I have been through a lot of love problems and learned from my expeirence. If you need love life help or anything dealing with relationships, i'm your guy.
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Location: Terre Haute Indiana
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Age: 19
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I just don't feel the same about life anymore. I'm M 15. I feel like nobody likes me & tries to avoid me. I feel like I'm desperately waiting for something thats not going to happen. I'm tired of the same old krap every day. I feel like I have no life anymore. I really want it back. I don't hang out with people or go out anymore. Every activity I do is always alone. While my friends go out and have fun, they're all happy & social. My story is just: Wake up, go to school, I have a few happy times in school. Then go home, play a game or two. Watch a show with my pops once a weak & take naps. While my peers go places & do stuff. I feel like I'm not good enough to do anything, like a lonely Lame guy. I feel anxious for a change in my lame boring routine. I'm also starting to became more and more angry at the world.... : ( ughh WTF! (link)
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Hey buddy. I know exactly what your going through. For a long time, i was a hermit. I would sit around playing Call Of Duty MW on my ps3 and had no friends and no life. It got really boring and i got lonely. What did I do? I didn't go to a doctor, I didn't cry to mommy and daddy, I decided it was time to man up. That means, make something out of nothing. If you have happy times at school with people, invite them to your house and play a game or two together. If you are uncomfortable with sports, that's okay. I was too. But my Jr. year of high school i joined the diving team. It was amazing. I got to jump and do tricks off a diving board and show off my amazing body..jk.
My advice to you my friend, would be to talk to your old friends and see why they wont hang out with you anymore.
Or, you could just forget all about them and try to make new friends. Find a hobby. I love playing high speed online video games. My PS3 is the second best thing that i have.
Or, you could find a girl. Girlfriends tend to keep teenagers occupied for a little while atleast.
Good luck friend and best of wishes
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So my boyfriend and I have been together for three years now and we're completely bored with our sex life. I'm still in love with him and as is he, but we want something fresh in the relationship. Don't get us wrong, we still enjoy making love, but we just want to spice it up a little. Any suggestions? (link)
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I could have a lot of fun with this question:p Get a poster, with a bunch of sex positions. Everytime you have sex, try one of the positions and mark it off. Play a role playing game, just use your imagination.,
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Hey, so you said if we had a realtionship question you were our guy. Well hey... haha uhm so I'm fifteen female and I'm a sophomore. About five months ago me and my boyfriend (16/m junior) of seven months broke up. While we were dating he pressured me into letting him finger me, almost physically forced me to give him a handjob and guilted me into giving him a blowjob four days before he dumped me in a text message... I guess I was pretty messed up at the time. He had me super whipped, and that's not all his fault. After the split we were still on pretty bad terms. We still talked and fought and yelled at eachother and couldn't seem to straighten it all out... He also told me that he was only in the relationship for the last three months for the physical parts... Then he decided to tell everyone he could about how far we went. He also made up a rumor that we had sex saying gross stuff like "when I was on top I thought I was gonna break her cause she's so tiny. It was great though, she let me do whatever I wanted, I coulda stuck it up the ass if I'd wanted to". And all of that stuff just really hurt... In my delusional state I really did care about him and I obviously trusted him... Yeah it was a bad idea but I did. And to have that trust just thrown back in your face and stabbed in the back... It was a horrible time for me. Not only boyfriend stuff, my parents were separeted during the time (they're back togehter now though). Anyway, about two months after the break up he tried to apologize for everything. But I didn't think he should just be able to be a dick for two months and think everything will be fien just cause he shot me one semi sincere text message... So I called him a week later and we had areally long really good chat and he said he really wanted to be friends but I still wasn't sure so I told him I'd think about it. We didn't talk for awhile and I was kind of still getting over things. But one night we were hanging out in a big group (it was in the middle of the me thinking and figuring out era) and he was ignoring me all night even though I was TRYING to be friendly and stuff. So I kind of yelled at him :\ which I know I shouldn't have done. He was mad. We haven't been good since then... I tried to apologize and tell him I still wanted to be friends but he wants nohting to do with me. I messed up once!! He fucked up our entire relationship and basically ruined my life and I yell at him once and suddenly I'm the most annoying creature that's walked the earth... It's stupid. I want to be friends because I know that until we are on good terms, I'm not gonna get over what happned. I have to forgive AND forget to finally move on... And I want to move on. A lot. He's good friends with my best friend too which also adds some motivation for me to settle things I jsut don't know where to go from here... I've told him everyithing I've wanted to tell him, the balls in his court but I don't think he's gonna do anything with it... for some reason I only get one mess up card and it's just not fair... I like someone else now and I've moved on in a sense that I don't liek him anymore but I'm so tired of harboring all of these negative feelings for my ex... And I know if I try to talk to him about it more than I already have it'll just annoy him more... So what are some ACTIONS I can take to show him we can work as friends?? (link)
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Wow. First off, I'm sorry you got stuck with "that kinda guy." It seems to me, at first when you broke up, he still wanted something to do with you, but now I think that the relationship part is done and over with. Also, I think this guy gets off on control. There is nothing worse than being with a control freak. They yell and scream and want you to live your life as a hermit. As far as actions you can take to show him you can work as friends, maybe you have a friend's birthday coming up and you could ask him if he would like anything to do with it. Or if you and some friends are hanging out, you could invite him along. Be sure to not do too many things to smother him, or lead this guy on. What i would do, is just take it easy for a few days, see if he says anything. You said the ball was in his court, maybe he is just playing with it at the moment. I'm not saying that i know how things will turn out, but if you give him the space he is bluntly asking for, and then invite him along on small little hang outs then the outcome is more than likely going to be more positive than if you don't do anything. Good luck sweetie, if you want, message me and we can talk about it.
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OK so i was dating this guy for a year and we broke up because he found out i ALMOST cheated on him. yea it was stupid but i say im over him i truly didnt love him tho i thought i did and now he talks shit about me to his friends and the only he dated me is because he wanted to have sex but he was 13 and im 15 so that wasnt gunna happen. but i dont know like if im over him if i should go back to him if i should hate him i just dont know and like im dating my ex from two years ago again and i think its a big mistake. so what should i do? advice please!!!!! 15f 9th grade
-mina (link)
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sweetie, you are 15 years old. You didn't love him. Finish high school then worry about a relationship. If you want to be able to have a successful future, then you need an education. If you want to be able to get nice things and be happy then get over this kid and get your education
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i dont want to live any more. everybody thinks im so happy. they think i have a great life. even my friends dont know who i really am inside. im so miserable. i feel empty. i dont want to live any more. i went to school today and realized i just dont belong here at all. this is what i want to do. i dont want to live any longer. i dont want to feel this void any more. nobody knows how it is. everybody thinks i'm so funny and happy and inside i feel like i'm dying. i'm such a fake. it's like i'm stuck in this dark place and i can't get out and there's no other way to end this suffering of mine.
how can i end my life without causing a lot of pain or mess? i dont want to suffer any more. what can i do that is effective? this is going to be a surprise to so many so i'd prefer it to not be so messy so nobody has to like clean up a mess. nobody understands this feeling. im so alone (link)
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look bud, i'm going to be one of those people who are going to try to talk you out of it. Why exactly do you not want to live? What has life done to you? everyone in their life goes through a stage where they feel helpless or insecure. Three years ago i was a EMO punk. I cut myself and didn't give a shit about anything. I also tried to end my life but a woman came into it and helped me. I'm not saying things are going to just get better automatically, but give life a chance. Don't end your life. If you are serious about it, then shoot yourself in the head. But you need to give it another chance. Why are you miserable? Why do you feel like you are in a dark place? message me and we can talk about this. If you chose to end your life, your right it is your life, but atleast i can say i tried to help
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I like a guy at school, how do i get him hot, turn him on? stuff like that?
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I could have a lot of fun with this question, but you didn't list your age. Assuming you are young, ill just give you a few pointers. First off, get close to him. Whisper little things in his ear. If you find alone time, put your hand on his thighs and stroke them. eventually, work your way to the penis. just slide your hand over it a few times. He will want you more than a fa t person wants cake
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16/f
I don't know what's wrong with me.Lately I feel alone all the time.I don't have a lot of friends,but the ones I have are a gift from God and they are always there to help me and hear me out.But it seems it doesn't matter,I still feel alone.I don't have a boyfriend right now,which really bothers me...and I know it shouldn't...but since I'm single I feel unattractive,invisible,as if I'm boring...I also know it's stupid that I only feel beautiful when I have a boyfriend,even though people tell me I am and I don't need a bf to prove me that.I feel as if no one is ever going to notice me and I'm gonna end up single for the rest of my life.This makes me sound shallow,I am aware of it.But that's just the way it is and the way I feel... (link)
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I understand. it's hard being a teenager. I personally don't have a lot of friends, and the one i do have happens to be my fiance. Be thankful that you have friends to talk to and that will listen, its a gift that most people take forgrannit. It shouldn't matter if you are beautiful. everyone has something beautiful about them. IF you get a boyfriend because he thinks your beautiful, then you won't know whether or not he likes you for you. I'm not saying that beauty is a bourden, but when you are beautiful, people tend to be around you for just that reason. your 16 sweetie. Your not going to find that guy who is perfect for you. Love will find you when the time is right. I know that sounds like a bunch of bull, but i had the same thought process when i was your age, and i turned 19 and found the woman that i have always been searching for. It will find you.
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How do you get rid of hikies in less than a day? i need help asap (: (link)
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powder make up works very nice, or what i did is drew a heart with a marker on my fiances neck and colored it in where the hickie is.
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i just found out i'm pregnant, i took two tests that were clearly positive.
i want to get an abortion. i heard there is a pill you can take that aborts the baby, but when is the latest you could use it? the first day of my last period was august 8th.
i'm going to planned parenthood today, and i'm scared as hell...i heard it takes two days to get an appointment and i just want to get this over with asap...
idk what to do, i dont know if i can afford this! i got a faulty DUI at the end of april and still haven't got a court date. i was not driving high but they got a drug test in and i know it is dirty bc i smoke a few days before. the fine, if i lose, is $1500....and that is all the money i have right now....
i'm so scared and lost idk what to even do right now please help me, i hate my life right now
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don't hate your life. just because you haven't had the pill don't mean you can't get an abortion, but is that what you really want? As far as smokin, you life, but the child needs to be thought of in this situation. Do you think you could provide a future for it? A successful one? If you don't think you can then i recommend that you either suffer through labor just to teach you a lesson about having kids, and put it up for adoption, or get an abortion. I know you must be scared. This is a hard time in your life but now you can't just think of yourself, you have to think of your child. My advice to you is to get an abortion. From what i just read, it don't seem to me like you are ready to start a family. I feel bad telling you to get one but you have to think, are you ready?
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so i had this friend from work and i found out he was into me and we hooked up a few times and then he basically ditched me for someone else. its just really awkward at work cause he'll do things like stare at me and i don't really know what to do and i hate it. i don't care if we're friends or not i don't even hate him its whatever i just don't like the awkwardness. what should i do? (link)
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you know that thing where some people have sex then get real awkward with each other? It seems kinda like that. In my opinion, what you need to do is make him jealous somehow for ditching you. And the whole work environment, ask why he keeps staring. Ask if he is interested in you, and if he says yes, say too bad you ditched me for some other bitch and i don't want to have a relationship with you. And if that don't work file a complaint with your boss. that always works. Hope i helped a little, sorry but never ran into this situation, good luck
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I really like thhis guy he's sooo cute and i just wanna have sex with him soo bad .but im scared bcuz i told ive lost it already but i have nott and hes gonna know bcuz i donnt think ive popped my cherrry yet and since i havent had sex yett i donnt know how im going to react to it and i really dont wanna embarres myself .Whatt do i dddo? (link)
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look, you are still young. How old is this man? Why do you think that having sex is so important? I'm a guy and i dont find it that important. Yes, i enjoy it, but only with the woman that i love. I saved myself for that woman and when it happened it wwas amazing. If you are a virgin, then my advice to you is to keep you pants up and focus on scool. I know that people are always saying that but school is more important that having a child. Childrenn are nice, when you are prepared for them. If you are unprepared then it's going to be a bourden and you will flunk out of school and have officially no life.
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I'm from PNG, in yr.12 and I'm the top student in my class. My closest comp. is a boy. He told me he had a crush on me and I liked him too but I turned him down because he is my Academic Enenmy. He waited for 6 months, when assesment closed, I decided it was safe to give it a go. I dumped him 2 weeks later. He is in love with me and now wants to change his Uni choice to be with me!he loves me and waited all this time, but I do not love him. I couldn't tell him directly, so perhaps I'v been leading him on. But he cannot change his Uni choice, we're not even together anymore. Should I break it off or play along, we only have 3 weeks till graduation and I'm outta here? I like him alot, I want to get back togathere but I don't want to send him the wrong message. He is just a highschool boyfriend. I don't want to commit to anything. Hell no! So? break it off or get back togather for the last 3 weeks? (link)
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that's nobodies decision except for your own. If you like this boy and think that you might want to try to be with him then you have to talk to him. Tell him he needs to slow down. If he is taking your relationship way too fast, then you have to communicate. That's one of the pillars of a successful relationship. If he still wants to be in a relationship and is willing to slow things down, i don't see why two people that like each other shouldn't be together. Of course, it depends on whether he can slow things down. If he can't, then he seems like the obsessive type. As far as Uni choice, i hve no idea what that is but it seems important. If he is willing to change that, then you need to talk to him about that also. Hope you have the best of luck
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Hi I have been lost on what to do about how my girlfriend of 1 yr and 7 months doesn't approve of what my goals and dreams for my life are. I am a junior in college about to be 21 and I play golf and want to be a head golf professional at a golf course or even try to make it on tour but my girlfriend trys to tell me how i need to come up with a new dream and goal because she thinks I will never be home. I have played golf and had these dreams ever since I could walk. I am in love with her and don't want to lose her. She also trys to say that if I keep playing golf she will break up with me and it so happens that she does this the night or couple days before i have a tournament which i then can't play to my full potentional. What is the best thing to do? (link)
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first off, DON'T CHANGE ANY LIFE PLANS TO BE WITH SOMEONE!! (srry bout the caps) If she can't fully support you, then in my opinion she doesn't really love you. Love to me is where you care enough about someone, you would leave them if that made them happier you would support their goals and dreams. Now, i personally find golf a silly sport. But it's your goal. Don't change who you are or who you want to be because of some girl. I know you love her. I know you care. I have been with mine for a year and 6 months and not once has she or I shot down each others dreams. She wants to be a vet. I think that's silly and going to be very hard, but i tell her that i believe in her and that she can do anything she puts her mind to. Talk to her. Tell her that if she can't support you that she will have to find someone willing to put up with the constant shooting down of plans and dreams. Good luck to ya
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So I've been dating this guy (I'm 27 he's 30) since the June and he's moving pretty fast, even says I love you. He basically told me that it was over if I didn't want to commit to him but the reason I don't want to commit was because I'm moving in Jan and don't want to go through a break-up. He's not okay with it not being official so the other day I made it official. (He's even told me I need counseling bc I have trust issues.) He was in Vegas this weekend and we texted but when I called he didn't pick up or call me back. I feel like he's been acting strange and I asked him if it was over. He said I was nuts because we just became a couple and I told him how he hasn't even called me back. He said I was annoying him with all this drama and that I was going to push him away if I continued this. Drama? I was shocked. He's basically forced me into this relationship and now I'm drama and clingy. What do I do? (link)
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I think you need to ask yourself if you even want to be in this committment. If you really do care for this guy. I'm only 19 and i'm sure that i have a lot to learn in my life but if someone constantly controlls you and begs you to cling to him but turns around and says your being too clingy, then i think you have the wrong person. Look into the future, say 6 months. This kind of behavior only escelades. Now, don't get me wrong, there are people out there who do this and change, but it's rare. If you want to be with this guy(but by the sounds of it you don't) then talk to him and tell him how you feel. Ask how you are being too dramatized and clingy. Tell him if he don't like it to hit the road because men aren't worth changing for...sad thing is, i'm a man. To be in a relationship, you shouldn't have to change who you are, or what you do or even have to lose friends. Unfortunately I was that guy who controlled and all that. I changed, that's why i said it could happen. Don't change for anyone but yourself. If you understand his points, and want to change them, then do it but i highly recommend that you get out of this relationship. Wait till you leave in January, and wherever your going i'm sure there is someone waiting. Sweetie, you can fix this. you just have to be willing too.
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I was chatting with one of my close guy friend on MSN and recently, I have noticed that he likes me but I didn't want to make any assumption. I also have a boyfriend and we all went to the same high school so they know each other, so I don't think he's telling me. Please tell me what you think. This is how the conversation went:
*SB is Strongbow cider
*I think Ms.Claus is referring to me
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Me:
then ur santa for adults?
Him:
lol, sure, what would you like?
Me:
i'd like few cans of SBs and some popcorn to go with the movie
Him:
bahah, santa has a student budget so only sb
Me:
haha
Him:
what does santa get in return
Me:
sure whatever fits your santa's budget
Me:
santa gets SBs as well
Him:
mhmmm
Me:
cause thats the only thing i can think of that santa likes
Him:
santa likes lots of things
Me:
like what
Him:
ms claus
Him:
north pole
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Thank you!
Age: 20
Gender: F
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It's hard to make any assumption about this with the given facts. If you have a boyfriend then why are you even worried about it? Some people think that a boyfriend is just a compaion and someone to talk to but we are so much more than that. We are a commitment, and in a committment you don't intentionally do things the other half wouldn't appreciate. Would your boyfriend care if he found out that you were talking this guy and would he care what you and he were talking about>??? Now, It seems to me like he either likes you or he is really really immature. If he likes you then that is your own call but if it was me i would say look i'm in a committment right now and i can't flirt like this, i don't like you and i would like to stay friends. But you can do whatever you wish, whereas it's your love life not mine.
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In school as well as in my community I feel as though I'm surrounded by idiots. I'm not trying to be cocky but I feel as though I intellectually surpass almost everyone around me. The others in school are all immature and driven entirely by petty emotions and even many of the adults I know base their actions on childish thoughts. When I step back to look at the world all I see are problems caused by immature and emotionally driven people. Even my friends have become nearly unbearable lately and I'm actually quite popular in school. I have many friends, or at least people who consider themselves to be my friends.
I've always felt like an outsider despite my friends and family but recently I feel as though I'm becoming more and more depressed and generally miserable.
Thanks for taking the time to read this and potentially even answer. (link)
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I have recently ran into this exact problem. I feel like everyone just wants to draw everyone else into their little world of drama and deppresion and it's rediculas. It's life, Live it! Anyway, I don't see what you can do to make people change. I don't think you even can. What i have done is just ignored the immaturity and drama. I still try to have fun but being childish is not my definition of fun. It was like that when i was thirteen, ive grown up since then. Good luck with your problems.
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so then if you smother the person? they most likely wont want you?
im sorry. (link)
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That depends on the person. I personally like the attention and like having her always by my side. Some guys though, they don't particularly like it.
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20f. joe -18, almost 19
this might be long but i know this will bug me so i need an outsiders perspective and i will return the favor!
so I've been friends with joe for about 5 years now, we call each other best friend. we use to be really close but we started fading within the last yr, i've always had feelings for him and i still hate texting him first, etc. he graduated high school and moved 4hrs away to go play hockey beginning of sept. since he is really good. i haven't seen him since end of july. i said i wanted to do a road trip and go watch him play sometime this yr. we weren't friends on facebook and he adds me two nights ago. i accept him and write: joseph how were we not friends on here? i hope everything\'s going good ..i miss you!! text me, i'll let ya now when we're thinking about coming to see ya. he texted me tonight, this was our convo:
him: whats going on
me: joseph i miss you! how are things going, tell me everything.
him: there going pretty good. its a lot of work but not bad
me: i'm sure your getting into good shape. have you had any pre-season games, how do you think you guys are gonna do this yr?
him: yea we had five. we should be pretty good
me: how are your teammates, do you have any hot ones for your best friend
him: Haha i don't know you would have to see that. but there nice.
me: i love how much help you always are! can you just come home i don't want you there anymore (trying to be cute about it ha)
him: how come? haha
me: because i can't even remember the last time i saw you ..don't you think that's kinda sad? then you just leave me!
him: yea i wish i could come home too
me: well me tara (my friend) and nate (my cousin, his friend also) wanna come in november when you guys play omaha so i'm thinking that's when. unless you wanna quit and come home i mean that would be ok too ;)
him: i can't quit haha that would be fine if you came then. its a ways from now tho haha
me: haha i know i wouldn't want you to quit but it is far away. you will just be more happy to see me though won't you don't even lie
him: yep i would
me: hey don't sound so excited. i don't wanna come anymore i'll just send tara and nate.
he never responded after that. i was obviously joking about my last comment. he knows how i'm sarcastic but after i sent that and he never responded i was like crap i shouldn't of said that. what should i do? just not text him and wait awhile? wait for him to text me? do you think he got mad i said that or what? if i texted him tomorrow like i was kidding about not coming he would probably just be like "i know" and make me look dumb. i'm worried now!! and i'm so lucky to be close with him, all the girls want him they act like he's a superstar and i feel special he actually texts me when i want him to. all these girls write on his facebook and he never responds but always does to me ..but seriously he's the most down to earth guy you could ever meet. i tell him everything because he's the only guy i trust. we talked about having sex next time we saw each other before he left (5 yrs of knowing him .. i insisted we had sex ..i cant resist him any longer) ..and i was like well be ready then next time i see you ;) don't comment about us having sex, but if he doesn't come home and the next time i see him is when i go there in november i'd be up to doing it then ;) how can i kind of bring this up to him to get him excited and remind him about it? or do i not and just see what happens when we get there? i wanna see how he feels about it though. i was thinking about saying "because i haven't seen you in so long and because i want you ;)" something like that when he asked why i wanted him to come home. i actually think he was thinking i'd say something like that. i don't like to blunt like "so would you be up to having sex when i came there?" i like to be more flirty and get the point across like that.
ugh i don't know! any suggestions???! (link)
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Wow, that was a lot of reading.Sweetie, I think that you love this guy. My advice to you is to not be serious about talkin to him about sex. Just joke around about it and if you end up spending any alone time with him, make the first move. I have no idea what he could've meant about it's a ways from now tho..maybe he was talking about the end of the season? Or just joking about how far away he is? I truly have no idea. As far as the sex goes, I find no problem in you wanting to have sex with him. You are an adult and you can make your own decisions. Just be careful.
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When I came home from school, my mother was bawling in tears because of what her sister told her happened to my grandmother at the hospital last night. my mother told me and I was very angry and decided to call the hospital, speak to the manager, and have a good complaint about the nurse that gave my grandmother, her patient, VERY poor treatment given to her. But I guess my mother is pretty messed up because she didn't tell me things 100% exactly, which means I did not tell the manager the 100% truth (unknowingly. So thinking back about it now, I kept pausing alot trying to rememebr the exact words she told me to the manager on the phone, so she probably thought that I was trying to make up stories to make that nurse sound really bad to get her fired. Which don't get me wrong, the nurse should be fired for the things she did that were unprofessional. But overall, the things that I told her were half and half true and false. And the manager will try to have a talk and find out who that nurse was by the end of the week and let me know.
So I told her a few wrong things, which doesn't make the nurse sound any better, but when she discovers some things I told her happened that weren't true (because I don't know what my mother was thinking when she told me)by the time she calls me back, she's going ot think that I'm an asshole when I'm just really concerned! SO what happens now? I was so angry that I had to call ASAP to get my grandmother the help that she really needs and to make sure that that nurse gets what she deserves, but now I feel so humiliated and embarrassed and like I'm about to have a breakdown! (link)
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Call the hospital back. Tell them that you are sorry for the confusion, and that the nurse didn't do as bad of a job as you thought. tell them you were just concerned about your grandmother and see if that helps any. A nurses job is on the line. I don't know the exact treatment they gave her but if it was bad, then i would be pissed off also. Just tell them there was a little 3rd generation confusion and that you are sorry. Hope this helps, and i'm sorry about your grandmother, i recently lost mine
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alright, well im 19/f, will be 20 next week, and he is 21.
a bit of background info - we met last summer in panama city beach while i was in town with my family. he lives about an hour and a half from there, and drove down every night after we met to see me and hang out. we liked each other, stayed in touch for a bit after my vacation ended, but then stopped talking. i was fixin to start college here in Georgia, and he was working, and we just lost touch.
fast forward to this year. i went back to panama city with my family just like last year, and a few weeks before i had texted him out of the blue saying i'd be back down and that he should come see me. sure enough, just like last year he drove down almost daily for the whole week to hang out with me and it was just like last year. we'd hang out all night, hold hands, kiss, and started to like each other all over again.
well this time, we've stayed in touch, talking & texting all day and night since the end of july, our feelings have gotten so much stronger, and we've been officially together for a few days shy of a month. he's made the 4 hour drive to see me and stay with me at my apartment at school a fe times, and i've driven down to florida to stay with him and his family. he's SO sweet to me, always telling me how he doesn't wanna lose me, how much i mean to him and how i'm the best thing thats ever happened to him and he's so happy he has me now.
welllll, he told me he loves me a couple weeks ago. i wasn't expecting it so soon, and i haven't said it back, but i think i do love him. i'm happier than i've been in a long time, and i want to tell him but part of me is scared because of the short time we've been together and i dont want to be hurt like i have been before.
the only other guy i've loved was a guy that i dated for 3-3.5 years when i was 15, which we also said i love you really early, but that was my first love.
i just dont know if its too soon? i feel like time-wise, it is. but i feel like i do love him, and we're pretty serious about each other. he's seriously considering moving out of florida and finding a job in the town where i go to school. i'm thinking about telling him next week when he comes back to stay with me, but ahh i'm kinda nervous :) does it seem like its too soon? (link)
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look sweetie, if it is love you will KNOW it. it won't be a "i think" issue. I know i love my girl and we were togther a month before i said it to her. If you know you love him, then don't hold back your feelings for him. If you think that you love him then give it a while and think about it. Love is a very strong word.
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