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This boy loves me but I don't love him back


Question Posted Friday October 1 2010, 2:48 am

I'm from PNG, in yr.12 and I'm the top student in my class. My closest comp. is a boy. He told me he had a crush on me and I liked him too but I turned him down because he is my Academic Enenmy. He waited for 6 months, when assesment closed, I decided it was safe to give it a go. I dumped him 2 weeks later. He is in love with me and now wants to change his Uni choice to be with me!he loves me and waited all this time, but I do not love him. I couldn't tell him directly, so perhaps I'v been leading him on. But he cannot change his Uni choice, we're not even together anymore. Should I break it off or play along, we only have 3 weeks till graduation and I'm outta here? I like him alot, I want to get back togathere but I don't want to send him the wrong message. He is just a highschool boyfriend. I don't want to commit to anything. Hell no! So? break it off or get back togather for the last 3 weeks?

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Kindrd answered Monday October 4 2010, 2:56 pm:
that's nobodies decision except for your own. If you like this boy and think that you might want to try to be with him then you have to talk to him. Tell him he needs to slow down. If he is taking your relationship way too fast, then you have to communicate. That's one of the pillars of a successful relationship. If he still wants to be in a relationship and is willing to slow things down, i don't see why two people that like each other shouldn't be together. Of course, it depends on whether he can slow things down. If he can't, then he seems like the obsessive type. As far as Uni choice, i hve no idea what that is but it seems important. If he is willing to change that, then you need to talk to him about that also. Hope you have the best of luck

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