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I just don't feel the same about life anymore. I'm M 15. I feel like nobody likes me & tries to avoid me. I feel like I'm desperately waiting for something thats not going to happen. I'm tired of the same old krap every day. I feel like I have no life anymore. I really want it back. I don't hang out with people or go out anymore. Every activity I do is always alone. While my friends go out and have fun, they're all happy & social. My story is just: Wake up, go to school, I have a few happy times in school. Then go home, play a game or two. Watch a show with my pops once a weak & take naps. While my peers go places & do stuff. I feel like I'm not good enough to do anything, like a lonely Lame guy. I feel anxious for a change in my lame boring routine. I'm also starting to became more and more angry at the world.... : ( ughh WTF!
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Hey buddy. I know exactly what your going through. For a long time, i was a hermit. I would sit around playing Call Of Duty MW on my ps3 and had no friends and no life. It got really boring and i got lonely. What did I do? I didn't go to a doctor, I didn't cry to mommy and daddy, I decided it was time to man up. That means, make something out of nothing. If you have happy times at school with people, invite them to your house and play a game or two together. If you are uncomfortable with sports, that's okay. I was too. But my Jr. year of high school i joined the diving team. It was amazing. I got to jump and do tricks off a diving board and show off my amazing body..jk.
My advice to you my friend, would be to talk to your old friends and see why they wont hang out with you anymore.
Or, you could just forget all about them and try to make new friends. Find a hobby. I love playing high speed online video games. My PS3 is the second best thing that i have.
Or, you could find a girl. Girlfriends tend to keep teenagers occupied for a little while atleast.
Good luck friend and best of wishes
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Why not get out and hang out with your friends outside of school? Maybe join a club, team, or do an extracurricular activity afterschool? And if you don't feel comfortable with those people you want to hang out with why not find new ones? Joining a sport would be cool or even a club with something you like. I know how you feel and you're not alone at all. For months and months I was puching away friends and felt miserable. By pushing away my friends and making myself even more miserable I became even more depressed. Get out there meet people. Go out for a walk or run...I do my best thinking when I walk. Good luck! I hope it works out for you!
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You have given us a hard question to answer as we need to know more about you. For one thing it sounds as if you are developing a mild form of depression. IF so this in and of itself could be the root cause of your problem. I would suggest you ask mom or dad to make an appointment with your family doctor for a physical. While your there asked to be screened for depression.
Waiting for something to happen usually means whatever you are waiting for does not happen. In today's world, even at your age, you have to be proactive. If you want something you have to go after it. If your friends of old are avoiding you it could be they have found new interests. Interests that you have not yet matured to or may not be interested in.
What this means is that you have to take what interest you have and find new friends with the same interests. I'll give you one example and you can build on it. Lets say you are interested in remote control airplanes. Look for a flying club in your area and join the club. In this club you will find people your age, younger and older who have the same interest. Within this group you can make new friends, you have to be proactive in making the friendships. They may or may not come to you. It depends how the club is set up.
If I am right in my thoughts and you build on this idea you will make new friends who have interest such as your and life will be as it was.
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