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Hey everybody ! I'm Callie. I'm from St. Louis Missouri.. yes yes SoCo,Mo. I'm 16. sophomore at MHS. 2010 bitchesss. I'm involed in a whole bunch of shit at school .. I'm class president for the 2nd year and a StuCo officer. StuCo is more than a club, it`s a passion. I`m in Paws & Peace, STL, yearbook, A+ tutoring, Sophomore Executive, cheerleading. I`m an over achiever and I love it.




I LOvE to give advice; if you ask me a question you will get an answer. If you ask a dumb question, you will get a dumb answer. Easy as that. You can ask me about anything; I know what I should for my age, maybe more. I've been through alot.. maybe not all personally but I've seen alot of shit happen with my friends and just people around school. I'll help as best as I can. Any question you ask I will answer it as best that I possibly can.. even if it's just and honest answer of " I don't know. "



Don't rate me bad because you feel like it. If I don't answer your question the way you wanted me to, then don't rate me bad.. just don't rate me. If you honsetly think that my advice to you was absolutly horrible then okay rate me bad. I don't mind. Please comment when you rate me thought :)


If you wanna want to ask me anything at all, I have an AIM screen name. Don't send me messages on here saying ILY or HAPPY BIRTHDAY or THANKS or anything like that. Send me an IM or comment. Advicenators gets mad if you send it in my inbox. I also have facebook that I'm compleatly addicted to, it's kinda sad. But if you have a question that you want answered right away, send me a message on facebook. I'm on there atleast twice a day.. not on here so much. If you're not old enought to have facebook.. I also have myspace. I'm on there about once a week. But still.. more than this. I'm really gonna try and start this up again. I really enjoy giving and receiving advice so I'm gonna try hard. My screen name is on the bar along the side. If you IM me I'll tell you my usernames for myspace and what not.


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OK,im am in maddly in love with this guy named Richard,he whited a month for me 2 break up with my ex cause he really wanted to go out with me.So anyway afted i did breakup with the guy he asked me out.We dated a month and everything was great, we fell in love with eachother and we were inseprateable. then on our one-month anaveriry he cheated on me with one of my friends when i found out i coulent belive it!!! i mean hes my first love! iv never felt like this about any other guy iv dateted (which is alot) anyway i called him crying when i found out he kept telling me he was sorry and he dident know why he did it. the next day he got drunk and called me over cause he needed me.When i went over there he was crying REALLY hard and was telling me that he loved me so much and that he would never do that again then when he soberd up he told me he wants to be with me for the rest of his life. so i dcited i would go ahead and give him another chance cause i felt he really was sorry about what he did and i still loved him then we hung out a couple of times after and he called me and told me i was acting weierd so we both decided to tke a 3 day break to see how things go.The very next day he called me and told me that he dident want to take a break anymore cause he dident want the freedom to flirt with other gurls so i was like ok then lets get back together we talked again later that night and we got in a big arugement about his ex that he dated for 9 months cause i got mad cause he told me he was still in love with her. the next day he told me he wanted to take a nother break for longer so i was like really worried he dident like me anymore so i asked his why and he said he was confused and he dident know what he want so i was like ok so i gave him some space after that i was really worried so i talked to one of his very close friends and they said that he ex that he dated for 9 monthes recently told him she was still in love with him and he said that he was still in love with him so i havent really talked to him lately exept for last night and i asked him if he is still in love with me and he said yes so i really dont know whats going to happen and im really freaking out here!!! i just have a feeling that in being used as a rebound if it dosent work with his ex (atleast thats what every1 keeps telling me) so i really need your advice!!!! i still really love him and its killing me being on this break. i just thing where how they used to be when we firt started going out im just really scared right now. HELP!!!!

I'm really sorry, but I'm just now getting this message; I haven't been on in a while. really sorry.
So how did everything work out ? You can leave a response in my inbox. or you don't have to answer, it doesn't matter.

again, I'm really sorry I couldn't help ! = [

♥ Callie

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how did you get such a big picture on advicenators? or how did you make it 15k and yet it stayed so big?

thanks in advance
xo

I uploaded it onto "photobucket.com" and then c/p the URL link into the place where you chose your pic.

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ahh so in the movie talladega nights towards the beginning at the bar that guy was talkin to ricky about bein friends and he was like we go together like somethin and somethin... but i cant remember! can someone please tell me what he said? thanks =]

SHAKE & BAKE !
I don't think that's right, but I remember that part.

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im in 9th grade an im a guy im only 4'10" im probabl the shortest kid in the grade. when i ask out a girl i usually get a no maybe when we r in 10th grade. i realize that means im too short i like this girl i went out with her 2 years ago i think she likes me cause when i flirt with her she blushes and smiles she is only like 5 inches taller than me should i ask her out?

Woah, this sounds so familiar !! One of my friends is really short too and he gets that answer alot I guess, girls think he's cute.. but pretty much because he's little. He went out with one of my best friends (about 2 years ago the first time) and then he liked a couple girls but the didn't like him back, and so he liked my friend again last year.. and he asked her out and they went out. So I think that if this girl went out with you then, then she'll probably go out with you again. Not caring about your height then or now. Ask her out. If it doesn't work out then don't even worry about it because she's the one who's being shallow about it.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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how do you make your font bold or italics...and can you change your font/font color?? if so please explain.
thanks in advance
xo

On here or just in general? Well I'll supposing on here, so if you go to 'column settings' look for where it says 'over here'. It will take you to http://www.webmonkey.com/webmonkey/reference/color_codes/ then go back on advicenators on your column settings and enter the color you want.. it will be a code [ # FFFFF ] I'm not positive how to make bold and italisized but it's something like ?!

Hope I helped.
[♥]Callie[♥]

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What are your qualifications? When I see all the subject categories to choose from and cannot believe a 15 year old high school student can have enough education/experience to know so much to be able to give advice in so many areas! I had to quit reading your narrative, and have not begun to look at the advice you given to others, but am interested in your reponse.

What kind of grades did you receive last term? Since you are involved in tutoring, I would suspect that you have received good grades, but am shocked by so many words being spelled incorrectly, and apparently not typographically errors since some are repeated ("thought" for "though" meaning "although." There are others, but I do not recall all of them now. It is one thing if a poster, or even you in reply make an error, possibly typing in a hurry, but when it is a long-term page, it should be proofed - wait, why am I giving advice?

In the notes I see it is requested that you use proper spelling and grammar. It seems your head and heart are in the right place, but I just had to ask. My best wishes, and good luck!

Is this supposed to be insulting? I'm not sure, but that's the way I took it. I do type fast sometimes and this is a website, not an essay.. so I don't care about every single word spelled correctly and over useing words or any grammatical errors. My grades are just fine. I have a 3.8 GPA and I took my ACT in the 7th grade. I've been giving advice since I was 12 years old and if I thought that I wasn't any good, then I wouldn't have this website. If I see a question I don't know the answer to, I skip it. I give the best advice I can as a fifteen year old. If you have anything else to say, please message me back. If I took this the wrong way let me know and I'll apologize. Nobody's perfectt darlingg.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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What is snood?
Some sort of game or something?
Does anyone know?

Snood is a computer game. It has all kinds of faces in each puzzle (many different puzzles and levels). For example, you have a purple triangle, so you would have to find a place to put that triange and when you have 3 or more it goes away. You try and clear the screen of all 'snoods' before the brick wall touches the ground. I love that game.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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do ipod nanos come with chargers? or do u have to buy them separate?
xoxo

iPOD's come with the charger that you plug into your computer (used to put the songs on the ipod). If you want a car charger, or a charger to plug into the wall, you'd have to buy them. I got mine at Curcuit City for about 25 dollars [wall charger].

[♥]Callie[♥]

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it's tradition in my school that the seniors make up a senior prank. i'm only a freshman, but i want our senior prank to be remebered FOREVER! i'm just wondering if anybody who is out of highschool could tell me what their senior prank was, and if anybody has any good ideas of a senior prank that is actuallt funny, not destructive, and doesn't cost too much.
thanks in advance.
xo

I'm a freshman too and I've thought about a senior prank too.. but you shouldn't plan too far ahead because you have to keep in mind that you have to top the year before you. I don't have an answer for you, just keep in mind that you have to top all the others.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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what is 4/20...i keep seeing these surveys where they ask..."do you celebrate 4/20"? and i'm like what is that??

haha thanks

the date 4/20 .. april 20th .. is national smoke pot day.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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I was curious, do many girls sleep in tampons? If you put a new one in right before bed then a new one right when you woke up would that be safe? When I sleep I wear a pad to avoid TSS risks, but since I do not sleep standing up, my period sometimes leaks out on my pj's and sheets which is quite embarressing.

Just curious how many people do it and how safe it is.

I sleep in a tampon, changing it right before and right after sleeping. It's safe enough just as long as you change it. If you're heavy then I suggest not wearing one because you might need to change it and end up not waking up. If you still want to wear a pad to sleep in, then move it back further on your undies to prevent leaking.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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I'm 15/female.

I am not an experienced kisser.
I am dating someone who is.
Is kissing/making out something that just comes naturally and I'll get used to it right away?
Or is there a lot more to it?

If he know's what he's doing, then he'll 'lead' if you know what I mean. After like 2 seconds it will become natural and you won't even think about it, it just happens !

[♥]Callie[♥]

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i was just wondering if when a guy fingers you is it supposed to hurt??? because my b/f has done it to me a couple times and it hurt. is it supposed to or was i not doing something rite like not spreading my legs out far enough or something?

It's not supposed to hurt, if he's hurting you tell him to slow down/stop pushing hard/ just stop compleatly. Let him know how you want it. He's not gonna get his feelings hurt if you tell him the truth, he doesn't want to hurt you. Spreading your legs will help, but it's just how you feel comfordable. It could be that it's something you're not used to since he's only done it a few times.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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hii.
as ya'll know.
christmas is coming soon, and i am so bad at picking out cute gifts.
i need something for my boyfriend, on christmas day we make 9 months ..
he's almost 15.
he likes fourwheelers, things like that, ya know?
i need some cuteee gifts ideas.
so far, ive mostly gotten ideas like, a shirt and his favorite candy or something.
help, please? :)

I don't really have a real answer for you, but I just wanna say 'congrats' on 9 months on Christmas. That's way too cute! OhhHHH.. wouldn't that mean that today is 8 months!! ahww congratss ! anyways..

GiFTsS >> maybe cologne. or shop with his friends.. ?!

[♥]Callie[♥]

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I am getting married in three months and I really love my fiance. I'm a model and we met at a fashion shoot, his brother was the photographer. We were going out for A year before he proposed and everything is perfect bewtween us. We also have a lot in common,like we both went to yale. But here's the thing, he grew up in England's High Society,he's the heir to the family fortune and he's dated heiresses and women a lot richer than me and I guess I feel like he can do better or I don't deserve him. I feel inferior to him in some ways, and I can't shake that feeling. I keep thinking "Why is he marrying me? or What makes me different than all the other girls he's been with?" He was a player before he met me, I'm the first girl he commited himself to and I dont even know why! He's starting to notice a change in my behavior. He asks me "Why are you being so distant or Baby, what's wrong" and I don't know what to say. He thinks he did something wrong. Maybe i'm just nervous. I mean i'm getting married! But I need advice I don't know what to do. Should I marry him.

Definatly marry him. If he dated all those people that are 'better' than you or richer than you and he chose on his own to be with you and marry you, then he really loves you. If he was a player before and changed because he loves you, then he's the one. Don't question why he want's to be with you, he wants to spend the rest of his life with you because you're special and different from all of those other girls. And I agree, maybe you are just nervous.
[♥]Callie[♥]

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ok i really need your advice columnists:

I have ben goin out with this amazing guys for almost 4 months.The problem is, my friend who is in like all of his classes, flirts with him all the time! Its not that im jealous, im just scared of looing him =[ I always tell my friend to back off, but it doesn't work, it fot to th point where i started crying on the phone on 3 way with my best friend and my boyfriend. What should i dooo?

I'm realy upset and confused =[

please help, FASTT!

thanks again =]

Let your boyfriend know how much you care about him and that it's really making you mad that she's flirting with him. Since you aren't getting through to her, then he needs to do something about it. Something really close to that just happened to me. Me and my boyfriend [of 6 months] were doing great, and I started talking to his best friend.. I started to like his friend and ended up telling both of them how I felt. Me and my b/f ended up breaking up.. but then I realized that I really do love my boyfriend more than his friend and now we're back together. So make sure that your boyfriend knows how much you care about him and how much you love him (without seeming crazy obbsessed) and just have fun with him. Because you have to prove to him that you're better than the other girl and you're what he really wants.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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okk so heres the story..
14/f && i have a boyfriend
the problem is hes like really prude
&& ik that he really wants 2 do stuff cuz he keeps telling me he does & stuff
& i only see him like once a week becuz he goes 2 another school but he like never makes a move
so what should i do?
should i like make the move or what?

Make the move. He says he wants to do stuff and then he doesn't, he's just got alot talk. but maybe he thinks that you don't want to. Show him that you want to too. Make him feel like he was stupid to wait and he'll know next time that he needs to step up and make the move so you won't have to. But make sure he doesn't just assume "well last time she made the move on me so this time she will too".. although he probably wouldn't think that.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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really like my crush and this is the first time i just dont like a guy becuz he is cute. i want to know if he likes me. i cant get the subject out of my head. ok 1. he will say hi to me (with out me saying it first) 2.hell start conversations with me especially about basketball. 3. i really like this one. he will walk with me to some classes and lunch and what gets me the most is that hell walk the same pace i go and hell act like hell want to walk with me. 4. i could tell that he is not a big flirter but he tries. he touched me one on the hand when he was talking to me but like i said he doesnt flirt alot. 5. he will tease me alot and that usually makes me laugh. 6. hell take things from me and you know what i mean. 7. he listens to me. this is tottally different this time. he is just so different and. i like him alot so please help me out. o and another thing. do you think he is just flirting with me for fun becuz i know some guys will sometimes flirt with anybody?

By the sound of it, I think he likes you. You said that he doesn't really flirt that much.. so maybe he likes you alot too, but is just shy. So I think you should let it be known that you like him and once he finds out that you like him, he'll admit to liking you back. And I don't think he's just flirting for fun. If he takes the time to walk you to class, then he isn't one of those guys who would flirt for fun.
good luck, hope I helped.
[&heartsCALLIE♥]

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ok my hair is very thin and i want to know how to make my hair thicker but without getting extentions

my friend's sister has really really thin hair and she uses a Suave thickening conditioner.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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15/f. i have a very annoying body figure. i have no hips whatsoever so i have to buy a size 00 in jeans. but then i have a very square body with some flab on my stomach. this gets so annoying. like i have a small frame so i buy xs or small shirts but them you can see my stomach under the shirt. (its not sticking out the bottom or anthing like that it is just showing through the shirt. but if i buy a medium shirt then it is really baggy and drying it doesn't shrink it enough.

also when i try to buy sweatpants they never fit. if they actually fit in the waist then they are super long. so does anybody know of a good store that has small sizes in their sweatpants and jeans?

thanks =]

One of my best friends is really little like that too. She's really skinny and is about 5'5". She used to get all of her jeans from a store named 'Weathervane' and she said that they fit perfectlyy. I live in St. Louis and they just closed down the 2 weathervane stores by where I live about 2 years ago. I'm not sure if you've heard of it.. just depending on where you live and if ALL thier stores got closed. And with the sweat pants deal.. Victoria's Secret does have realllly cute pink pants, but everyone that I talk to at my school that has them (prob. 50% of the girls) says that they're comfy.. but when you roll them once, they're baggy in the crotch area (makes it look like there's some extra stuff that isn't there you knoww..) and when you roll them twice it's like instant camel toe. I guess it just depends on your body type though. But anyways.. try weathervane, and I'm sorry if it's non-existing anymore.

[♥]Callie[♥]

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