Student...wanna be a Zoologist,after highschool.I've always been told that I give great advice, and my friend got one of these and i didnt know places like this exist, so i decided to give it a shot.
E-mail: Teenqueen_1_3@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ga.
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: DorkyJay27
Member Since: July 12, 2004
Answers: 71
Last Update: July 23, 2004
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how pathetic is it to be 17 and never been kissed?? the problem is, i'm just waiting for the right person and i don't know any guys who fit that...i know for a fact that i'm not ugly or disgusting bcuz i've known plenty of people who have liked me or would've gladly kissed me, it's just that i wouldn't want to make my friendships with my guy friends weird and other guys who liked me just were definitely not options...so now it's kind of like i'm waiting but it's embarassing and i feel so stupid...... (link)
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nah, it's kool not to be kissed at 17, so you're picky...what's wrong with that? nothin. lol it's completely understandable that you're waitin on the guy that you want to kiss, and not just b/c you had the oppurtunity.personally i think it's awsome that you havent yet, b/c idk there's like a pride in that,lol even if it's embarrasing for you. but at least you know what you want and your not willin to settle for anything less, so take some pride in that. :)
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I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do? (link)
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well i got a question for ya..why? lol most times the answer is so you feel a lil more wanted, i know how that is, and yeah i want people to call me too, it doesnt seem to happen tho. lol. but lets see, you want more people to call you huh? okay, well you gotta call first, then you gotta be like "call me later okay?" and i know that doesnt work sometimes, but theres not much you can do when it comes to getting people to call you.hope i helped :/
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How do I get more friends?? I have two best friend but it feels like no one else is really my friend.... like I only have 2 friends!! I think I'm pretty... I mean people tell me I'm pretty and modeling agents come up to me (not to sound cocky but I'm just trying to tell ya the whole story) I used to be popular back in 8th grade but now I dont know what happend.... I mean I have A LOT of "not really/kinda sorta" friends. I know i need to "be myself" but I dont know how to... HELPZ (link)
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bein yourself can be hard in highschool cant it? lol, i know this story too...but see i feel i only have 1 real/true friend, and then some kinda/sorta friends...dont go lookin for them, just relax concentrate on things that are important in highschool, lol like school. yeah,i said it..lol actin like an adult.but seriously, once you realize that school isnt about how popular you are, that's when you get more friends, i noticed that back in 7th grade i think. im not popular or anything, but i got friends. bein yourself is an obstacle to overcome, havin 2 true friends isnt odd or anything, it just means your a lil picky when it comes to lettin people see who you are, and thats okay. just relax.seriously, i hope i helped, and that wasnt to borin for you to read. lol
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ok my friend is trieng to break me and my other friedn up she like tells one of us something the other person sopposidly said about us but sh tells us the same exact thing and she calls us mean names then expects us to b her friend like she says stufflike lets team up andake her life a living hell like shes made ours so should i like take her back or should i just give up on her?
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the game of jealousy,lol, it has a roll in everybody's life no matter what they say,it depends on you about this situation...i mean if ya'll have been friends for awhile and like ya'll were best friends maybe you should sit her down and talk to her about this whole thing, and if she continues then you should drop her, b/c then you know that you told her, and you wanted her to stop. but if ya'll arent that close dont hang out,and now...b/c of this situation, you dont like bein around her, then yeah maybe you shold end it now. spare you and your other friend the sufferin, lol. i hope i helped.
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i have this boyfreid and i like him alot and we grew up togeather and i want more from him and i feel like hes not giving me enough we only kissed and i want to do more wut should i do! (link)
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If you have true feelings for him..then wait b/c he might not be ready to do 'more' things like you do so just be patient.
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My b/f wants to make out but i don't think im ready.. plus i don't know how... what if i screw up. plus he has a HUGE nose what happens if it gets in the way.. im sooo confused. plus i think i'll feel dirty after. like how could i even look at any of my cousins the same knowing i made out. they look up to me and i have always had the good girl image! AHHH! plus im only turnin 14 and my friends pressure me cuz in highschool everyones made out!and i will be made fun of if i don't know how! (link)
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dont listen to your friends..it isnt true, i just got my first kiss on 4th of july, and im 15 and goin to be a sophmore this upcommin year, plus i know plenty of other people who havent had their first kiss yet. You just wait 'till you're ready...oh and about not knowing how to, you just go with the flow...lol b/c i was scared and didnt know how, but it just comes natural to you once it starts happening...BEWARE OF AN OVER PRODUCTION OF SALIVIA! lol hope i helped.
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how can i help my best friend through a really tough breakup? (link)
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let her know that your there for her when she needs a shoulder to cry or random phone calls at 3 in the morning or stuff like that, just let her know you are there for her.
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im 14 years Old nd i was never kissed or never had a bOy .. my friends say im pretty nd everythin but yeah i dont feel like that ..y ?
o nd hOw can i nOt b shy rOund them its soo hard fo me ??????PLEASE HELp ! (link)
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It's normal, most girls go through this stage, and there will always be a lil bit of shyness around guys, you just have to get a lil more confident with you.
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Is there any way to get ride of a pimple FAST???
HURRY I NEED TO GET RIDE OF IT BEFORE FRIDAY!!! (link)
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Toothpaste...i know it sounds weird but you see results in the first day. especially the big red ones that have white heads. Trust me it works!
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ok...me and my friends have been doin pot since we were like 11 and now im 14 and i cant stop. i was sick for three months, then i went to rehad for 7months and it sucked. now its been about 5 months since i was in rehab and i think im addicted to it again. i dont wanna go back to rehab bcuz that place sucks. ive tried everything i can and i just cant stop. i know that this seems like a serious problem to be puttin on a random site but my girlfriend said that i gotta do sumthin. my names gordon and my s/n for aim is a2020zipdrive. so if u got ne suggestions, let em loose baby. thanx!! (link)
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Well let's see...my cuz went threw this whole thing too, how she quit was kinda got into somethin more interestin, she opened her eyes and saw how it effected some of the people that she loved dearly. So I guess, try to open your eyes, look around you and see how it effects you and others close to you, b/c apparently you GF cares and wants you to stop. Also try to get into somethin new, or somethin you used to be into so much b4 you started to pot. Plus,pot isnt addicting...it's mind addicting, meaning, you only think you're addicted b/c you enjoy it alot, so just tell yourself "NO!" and try to drop it.
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~ihave a serious problem...my frien cuts herself horribly cuz she thinks her life sux. last time i saw her she had 5 cuts on her arm. They were so deep. 3 of them she blamed on her cat. I have a cat and it dosent scratch perfect distances away. they were like 2 inches long. I asked her y she does it and she says cuz her life sux. i said y does it sux? she said one reason is cuz her grampa has cancer. she admitted to 2 of them and she woodnt tell me wat she used.
~i cut myself cuz every since i was born i have lived in9different houses. also my biological dad abused my mom and i havent seen him since i was 1 and a half. i had a step dad but hes gone now. he has to go to counsilin cuz he had theartened to hit me 2 times. although he never did it scared me teribbly. one day my mom had told me if i heard screamin to dial 911. i did hear screamin and i let it go 4 bout 5 min. Then i called. jus as the cops walked in my step dad was pushin down my mom. he went to jail but go out. then my mom was in the hospital. i came home and i didnt kno where she was. some how i found out. i dont member. she had mal-noutrition and double namonia(sp). she cood of died and i was only 11/12 at the time. and if she did i didnt kno where i woodve gone. my biological father owes me over 60,000 dollars in child support.
~ do u have ne kinda idea of a way i cood kinda train myself to stop cuttin? PLZ HELP ME AND MY FRIEN!!!
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Well Ive learned from cutters that, it's like your way of havin a reason for the pain that you feel inside, so that you can be like "this is why im in pain" and have the cut to blame it on. So one of the best ways to help you is to go to a therapist that specializes in people that cut.Also try to be more open about how feel about things, dont always keep it boiled up inside. Also, cuttin, is...I guess...addictin,so you can also slowly stop, break down how often you do it.
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My best friend is pissed off at me just because my science teacher chose my suggestion/idea on my project over my best friend's idea. She is giving me an attitude and is refusing to talk to me. What should I do? (link)
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I'm gonna guess you want to keep the friendship goin...so try to explain to her that you cant help what your teacher chooses.Hope i helped :-/
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom? (link)
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No. It's completely understandable to know where your commin from. So maybe you should just tell him how you're feelin. But do it when his friends arent around, just ask him to try to make an effort to quit.
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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him! (link)
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Tell your parents,Or someone you know that can make him stop. B/c that's just wrong, he shouldnt do stuff to you like that. If he does somethin like that again then I would call the cops if I were you.b/c that's abuse, and technically that's ileagal.
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im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do? (link)
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The only thing you can really do is talk to him...but b4 that try to get get closer to him and see if he backs off or not.
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i have known johnathan since the 3rd grade and he jus asked me out. I walked by and his friends were laughin cuz he said, I have butterflys in my arm. Then Adam (friend) said its supposed to be ur stomach. Adam said dude do u want me to ask her? Johnathan said, yea plz. then adam said will u go out wit him? I said, I said no, im sry but, we are just really good friends. every since then he hasnt talked to me. do u think hes mad? Iam a female and I am 18. (link)
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Yeah he's probly upset. Or maybe he's just embarrased to speak to you now. You should prob. tell him why you didnt want to go out with him.
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I have been getting zits ever since the beginning of 7th grade. I really hate it. And I use Clean & Clear to clear them up, but the product doesn't exactly work. Do u know any product that will work? What advice would u give me? I looked at ur Zits link, but i've tried all of that..and i still get zits. Please tell me what products u use! It's hard to walk in school when a lot of boys are staring.. (link)
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HAHA! I know that story! Okay,this is gonna sound so weird, but when it comes to those big red/white head zits put toothpaste on them. It stings but it dries out the zit and you see immediate results,make sure you keep it on there for prob. about 30 min...no matter how much it stings...plus just to keep it clear and for the lil zits, anything phsidoerm makes usually works for me. So I would advise that.Hope I helped.
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okay so i was really really close friend with my x we'll call him t.j so i was really close to tj b4 we went out then one day he asked me out and of course i said yes! and we went out for like 3 weeks (not that long) but i was then end of the school year and i didn't want a bf over the summer so i broke up with him. but now when i look back i really miss all the things he used to say and do for me! i really miss him alot now!! and i want him back! but everytime i try to call him the line is always busy cuz his sis talks alot on the phone! so wut do i do? (link)
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Keep tryin to call him 'till some1 finally picks up.Then talk to him about the situation and see if he'll got out again, or even just be friends.
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sisters mad becasue i went out witt her x boyfriend which is now again her boyfriend what do i do? (link)
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ask her why b/c at the time they werent goin out, and try to understand where she's commin from, and if she has a valid good reason apologize b/c you didnt know that's how she felt.but only if you are truley sorry.
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see i have this friend who i leave lots of messages on the phone but never calls back is she my friend
-bubba78
P.S.i am just a girl who needs advise! (link)
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well idk, do you know if she gets the messages or not? but if she does and doesnt respond...that's called avoidance...and that would mean no she isnt your friend. But try to make sure she actually is gettin the messages if you can.
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