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How do I get more friends?? I have two best friend but it feels like no one else is really my friend.... like I only have 2 friends!! I think I'm pretty... I mean people tell me I'm pretty and modeling agents come up to me (not to sound cocky but I'm just trying to tell ya the whole story) I used to be popular back in 8th grade but now I dont know what happend.... I mean I have A LOT of "not really/kinda sorta" friends. I know i need to "be myself" but I dont know how to... HELPZ
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just hang out with all different people! and then you will make plenty of friends!! and dont care what people think about you! because thats one thing that makes people not have as many friends! because they r shy and dont know how to be theirselveS! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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Maybe if you joined a few clubs or groups you would meet more people. Even if you only have 2 good friends, that's okay. Sometimes when you have too many friends you can get overwhelmed but if you want more friends, then you need to be outgoing make them laugh. Be the person you really are. I hope this helps!
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Just be nice to everyone! Say hi to people that are in your classes. Help them out in class. Always be yourself, not anyone else!
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same thing here..i have friends but only one best friend.i had 2 but one of them hasnt been keepin in touch over the summer..but the whole "not really but kinda sorda" friendship thing is the same here..you just have to get out more..see im told im mature for my age but im still hanging out with ppl my age..maybe you need a younger or older crowd that u get along with better..idk try it out and if it dont work holla bakk at me n we'll figure it out..boytoy3766 on AIM
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I can't tell you how to be yourself, but it helps to try to do that! Also if you want to make friends you have to go out and meet people, like you can go to the movies, the mall, if you hear about any parties you can call around and just say something like, "hey its _____ and i was wondering what is going on this weekend?" and if they are the ones throwing the party you will most likely get invited! Also, to know how to be yourself, look at how you act around your two best friends and at home. That is probably how you should act when you meet new people! good luck on making new friends! let me know if i can do anything else for you!
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ok, so I jest...
you say that you have a lot of "not really/kinda sorta" friends... I'd work on making those relationships stronger. I would recommend that you keep the bond you have with your 2 really good friends and keep it strong. The best thing to do - just talk to people. Be nice, help people, talk, listen, joke, play, work, etc... You don't need an entorage to prove that you've successfully befriended people. There are a heaping ton of people that I call my friends - mind you, there are only a handful that I see and/or talk to on a regular basis, but that doesn't eliminate the friendships I have earned over the years. In fact, I'll be you have a lot more friends than you even realize.
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I cant tell you how to be yourself... but to get more friends you are going to have to go up to people and say hi or whatever dont make them go to you
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bein yourself can be hard in highschool cant it? lol, i know this story too...but see i feel i only have 1 real/true friend, and then some kinda/sorta friends...dont go lookin for them, just relax concentrate on things that are important in highschool, lol like school. yeah,i said it..lol actin like an adult.but seriously, once you realize that school isnt about how popular you are, that's when you get more friends, i noticed that back in 7th grade i think. im not popular or anything, but i got friends. bein yourself is an obstacle to overcome, havin 2 true friends isnt odd or anything, it just means your a lil picky when it comes to lettin people see who you are, and thats okay. just relax.seriously, i hope i helped, and that wasnt to borin for you to read. lol
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Of course you know how to be yourself!!Just let yourself go!Do what comes naturally to you!If you're goofy and silly(like me!lol),then be that way,if you're a deep thinker and kind of quiet there's nothing wrong with being that way either,as long as it's your true self.People can usually tell when someone is being fake and trying too hard,and that turns them off of that person.I say just be friendly,smile at people when you see them in the halls at school,even if you don't know them,smile and say "Hi!"!!If you're in class and you get paired off into partners,and you notice that one person who everyone seems to be ignoring just because they're "not popular",march right up to them and say "Hey,you wanna be partners?".Let yourself be seen,participate in some after school activities or extra-curricular activities,show up at some parties on the weekends.I think people appreciate a sweet and genuine person,who's friendly and outgoing but always stays true to herself or himself.Let them see you having fun,and smiling....it's a magnet for new friends!! ;) Hope I helped some!If you need anything else,you know where to find me!!! Hehehe!
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i know exactly where ur comming at! you can make more friends easily, dont give ur 2 friends ur whole time though! talk to people online, go 2 partys, get active in stuff, theres all sorts of diff ways you just gotta try and be a socializer!!! be nice and open with people and they'll like you, but believe me who cares what u look like, ur friend will like u for u not how u look!!!!
xoxo-andrea
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You are right. BE YOURSELF. But if you really want attention. Wear cute-flashey clothing (not like revealing or anything) Go up to people chat. Ask them to go to the mall .. the movies.. try and have some fun. Good Luck. I hope it works <3 JessaMaria
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