My friends don't seen to be paying me much attention, and neither does my family. I feel like I'm just doing everything wrong and that no-one likes me any more. I would probably cut myself but I'm too much of a wimp and I do know how bad that is. Am I right? Or am I hanging around with the wrong people, and my family is sort of mean? Thanks..
STOP BEING A WIMP AND SUCKING UP FOR ATTENTION. ITS NOT THE WAY TO "FIT IN" THAT'S WHAT YOU NEED TO DO. wITH YOUR FAMILY TRY HANGING AROUND THEM MORE. TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE IN COMMON WITH YOUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS, ASK FOR ADVICE FROM THEM AND LAUGH AROUND AND YOU'LL BE FINE. HANG OUT GO OUTSIDE MORE OFTEN PLAY AROUND. AND DO THE SAME WITH YOUR FRIENDS, HANG AROUND THEM MORE OFTEN, TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE IN COMMON, HOT TOPICS TO DISCUSS.
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I'm a nice girl who beleives that you should treat others how you want to be treated. But I've been working at this factory until school starts again and the supervisor is just awful.
I always keep getting in trouble for no reason even though i put 100% effort into everything I do. He says I talk too much. There was this one job where I had to count all day, so I can't count and talk at the same time. But I got pulled from that job to another because, a lady told me that the supervisor said that I was talking too much. And I don't look like anyone else, so he couldn't have mistaken me for someone else.
Now he seems to just want everyone to be miserable. he doesn't want ANYONE to talk whatsoever. Obiously you shouldn't talk to much but if you are packing things it should be okay to chitchat with your partner as long as you are getting the work done. But I feel like I'm working in a sweat shop, not a factory!
Other people such as myself are getting in trouble for ridiculous things. But the owner of the company's son who works ther who is my age and his girl friend and few friends he brought to the job doesn't do SHIT. Fools around and does a half-ass job and they don't get any talking to when they're the ones who should.
When they work with us, the supervisor doesn't even come to us. But when they are not working with us, he comes over and surveys us working like a shark in a pool.
And among other things he's done, I decided that on my last day of work, I will go to his office and just lay everything to him. How he's been such an asshole to everyone, etc. Everyone said that I shouldn't do it, but really everyone's been thinking the same thing and no one is saying anything. I'm trying this new thing where I don't hold grudges, so that means I need to let it out. Plus it would be doing everyone a favour too.
I need someone else's point of view from this website. Maybe I do need job next summer, but it doesn't have to be here. But I'm just working here for now because I get a solid 40hrs every week.
i THINK THAT BECAUSE HE'S YOUR BOSS HE CAN SAY AND DO WHATEVER HE WANTS. MY ADVICE TO YOU IS TO TALK TO HIM COMPLAIN ABOUT HIS ATTITUDE IN A PEACEFUL WAY DON'T ARGUE BY YELLING AND IF HE STILL GIVES YOU ATTITUDE AND SAYS YOUR A PIECE OF TRASH THAN PROTEST. GET THE OTHER WORKERS THAT WORK WITH YOU TO GET THEM TO PROTEST WITH YOU IT SHOULD DO THE JOB.
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Hey, this guy really liked me for a couple months and i didnt find out til a month ago. When i did all his friends starting flirting with me and wanting me for themselves. Then i got into a fight with this popular girl ( im one of them ) and shes trying to make them ask me out and dump me so that i come crying to her to say sorry. Now shes making the guy i like ( the guy that rly liked me) to ask me out as a joke and dump me after a while and I dont think he was okay with it but, shes gonna make him miserable if he doesnt do it. Another thing is that i think he might be ashamed to go out with me sinceshe hates me now and is trying to make my life a living hell. What do i do? and should I say yes when he asks me out and dump him b4 he dumps me? and I dont want to talk to him about this because hes just going to make something up so i got a couple of my friends to talk to him tomorrow maybe. What should I do?
Something tells me your in middle school like me and yes middle school sucks. Let me tell you something i like this guy which i think is a good guy, he just acts like he is cool and insults people all the time. And he is trying as hard as he can to make my life a living hell too. Im starting to really hate him. and Im the number one person on his "people i hate" list. If i were you i would tell the brat to mined her own business and get lost. Its going to get to you somehow and you probably going to go mad so stand up to her and tell her to stick her noise in someone else's business and leave you alone and if the guy hates you and wants to make your life miserable, DON'T EXPECT HE IS GOING TO DO ANYTHING NICE FOR you AND WILL CONTINUE TO MAKE YOUR LIFE MISERABLE. You can do so much better than those losers don't even waste your time. Move on.
Good Luck
I really hope i helped.
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this guy i met is really sweet and started telling me sweet stuff and it made me fall in love wit him he said he loved me and i was his only one but the problem is that in facebook hes in a relationship how do i react or do(should i tell him face to face why he lied to me)...
don't trust people like that. My friend did and he cheated on her 3 times!!!! Unless you ask him really well don't fall for that kinds of things. Personality is a tricky thing. Get to know him better before making any kind of a move. Just ask him straight forward. or ask a friend of yours to ask for you. Or ask his friends about it
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I have been with my boyfriend since a year and 3 months. Why our relationship tends to be difficult at times, is the distance between us, seeing as we skype everyday, with 10, 000 km between us (and a 3 and a half hour difference).
I love the boy very dearly and am very vocal about it. Unfortunately, he isn't. Often times, I feel like I need to hear compliments or sweet words to feel loved and to be able to go to sleep happily. I know relationships don't revolve only around that, but fact is, that IS all we have. Well, except for jokes, understanding and all the basic stuff (that don't get me wrong, I treasure dearly). But as a girl with past relationships (and a broken heart), I know what I want from a man. And HE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND THAT. First, I tried hinting at it, but he ignored that. Since we are very honest to one another, I told him flat out, say these things to me. I feel happy then. He didn't do it. Then, I made the mistake of yelling at him. All the more, he didn't do it. So then I left it, and all he does nowadays, is her plays with his phone and plays with something or another and then just rattles off an: 'iloveyouyourebeautiful/cute'. -that's it. When I have just earlier, told him how much I adore his smile, the way he looks ble ble- all the cheese of the world.
Fact is, we have had a fight, were I told him to say these things to me (once again) and he compared it to me not having had UNPROTECTED SEX. -he says if I want that, then he wants UNPROTECTED. -I said flat out: NO, because I am scared. He said I'm being silly. -I decided to teach him a 'lesson' and didn't speak to him for 3 days. Finally, today he apologized many times via email. So I came to him on skype. -After a while of him only picking fights with me, instead of apologizing, he told me that he apologized only in a 'MOMENT OF WEAKNESS'. One lead to another, and I told him, how this means so much to me, for the millionth time. He just stared and said, that what I want is 'STUPID'. I yelled at him. And I just looked all shocked. All energy was drained out of me. What more can I tell this boy?
Finally, it all ended with all my emotions coming gushing out. All the times I chases after him, all the times I have apologized for the smallest of things, when he can't respect this ONE wish.
It all came out in a long sentence. 'I HATE YOU, I HATE YOU, I HATE YOU. YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT ME. -You BROKE MY HEART'.
-While the hating part is a lie, the heart breaking isn't. I feel ridiculous. Also, I know that most girls would have dumped a boy for verbally forcing them into unsafe sex... But on the other hand, I know he loves me. -what now?
You know i do not think he deserves you. I know you're upset i said it but it's true and if you want your life to be like this and something to mean nothing. I suggest you dumb the asshole. I know you love and if you follow my advice you'll find someone who actually does love you and doesn't force you to anything. My friend had the same situation and she still can't get over him. I keep telling her to follow my advice but she just thinks i'm joking. I'm telling you this will help just let go and move one.
1) Try to keep yourself busy.
If you have any after school sports and or activities, join them son't sit there doing nothing. It's not going to help you get over her trust me.
2) Avoid her. Don't talk to her, don't look at her , and stay away from her as far as possible.
This is the best way to forget them. It helps to get them off your head and it won't hurt you as much. Unless you keep thinking of them.
3) If she keeps asking you why you're not talking to her or why you're ignoring her just tell her you don't want to see her anymore.
She's not worth fighting for. Just tell her that you don't want to see her anymore because of how much she hurt you.
4)Try to move on to a new girl. Don't just stay put. Observe other girls and see what you like in them or just don't date at all its really your choice.
My friend didn't follow any advice i told her and now she is crying that the guy she likes hates her now. or at least that's what she said.
I really hope i helped
Good Luck!
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sorry if i send you 2 thanks, but idk if my computer goofed or not. but thanks a lot for the advice. it really helped, especially the part about kicking her out of my life. i dont talk to her, and i feel much better. the guys took me out to cheer me up, and just being with my bros helped me forget her. she tried to tell me she was sorry and that she wanted me back, but i told her that i was better off without her and i've been amazing since she's been gone. again, i think my computer goofed, and it doesnt show my other message saying thanks, so i'm typing another one. thanks a lot for your advice, it really helped
you're very welcome. I'm a girl and i do understand how you feel. I don't like girls like that you know everybody has feelings and i have been really mean to my classmates because they were calling me names to hope they would stop and then i realize i should stop because everybody has feeling and i was hurting theirs like they were mine so i stopped. It was hard but i did quit. Have you heard "if you want respect show it first" its a helpful quote and i can relate. Its life and it has so many obstacles you just have to go to the right path and make the right choice. LET GO of the bad stuff in your life that cause you pain and HOLD ON to the good ones.
I love giving advice that i can relate to. If you have any school problems please message me anytime.
Move on with your life and have fun.You only get to live it once !!!!!! :D
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the girl i "thought" i loved just shattered my heart in into pieces. since freshman year, she's told me she loved me, that she wanted to always be with me and she even told me she wanted to bare my children. and if a girl tells any gu that it just makes him love the girl more. she told me the other day, that she's lied to me since i met her. she said it was to protect me, but the thing is she didnt think it through. i was gonan find out sooner or later, and finidng it out later made it worse, and she's like my best friend. how should i get over this because i feel like death is the only solution. please help, i dont want to end my life, but i cant go on liveing without her. my name is branden gurley, age 16, and heartbroken....
Hey don't feel like that. Everybody goes through this. Its just the way things are like people say "life is unfair" but hey what're you going to do about it. Don't think that no one else has the same problem. My mentor told me that "you love a girl, get your heartbroken and you move on". My friend actually did get her heartbroken too. She couldn't get over him at all! Its been like 6-7 month since they broke up! I keep telling her to move on but she can't and i understand that. I understand your situation and i'm sure everybody else does too. You know what just tell her that you think that she's not worth you and you can do better. You CAN do better trust me. I'm a girl and i can't stand when people do that.
I can help you get over her though.
1) Try to keep yourself busy.
If you have any after school sports and or activities, join them son't sit there doing nothing. It's not going to help you get over her trust me.
2) Avoid her. Don't talk to her, don't look at her , and stay away from her as far as possible.
This is the best way to forget them. It helps to get them off your head and it won't hurt you as much. Unless you keep thinking of them.
3) If she keeps asking you why you're not talking to her or why you're ignoring her just tell her you don't want to see her anymore.
She's not worth fighting for. Just tell her that you don't want to see her anymore because of how much she hurt you.
4)Try to move on to a new girl. Don't just stay put. Observe other girls and see what you like in them or just don't date at all its really your choice.
My friend didn't follow any advice i told her and now she is crying that the guy she likes hates her now. or at least that's what she said.
I really hope i helped
Good Luck!
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This alway happens to me even if I do stand up and show how angry I am it's like all of that is invisible. On friday at lunch all I got was half a chicken finger and a sip if tea, all the rest of my lunch was stolen by everyone. And they knew I didn't have breakfast and wouldn't be home till 8:00 that night. One of them started bothering me about this random guy that she thinks I like and is embarassing both him and I about it. Im at that age where telling a teacher puts you at the bottom of the food chain a d you look like a complete idiot. How do I deal with this? Thanks.
You know you're not alone same thing happened to me and it totally changed me.
You have to show people that you're not the type of a person to play around with its one chose another is you can just be honest. Tell your friends that take food from you to get their own cause you have to get your batteries full since you're coming home late. The girl that bothers you tell her to stop it and go embarrass someone else.
The same thing happen to me. There was this guy i did not know and kids kept trying to make me like him and be a sucker like the rest of them. Trying to get him and me hold hands. Seriously! I didn't even know the guy. SO one day it was getting so annoying and i got pissed so i screamed on top of my lungs telling them to leave us alone cause the guy hated it 2. That's when it stopped. I'm not asking you to do the same you just have to know a way to put them in their place and mind their own business. So you can either be mean and thell them to back off. or you can just be honest with them and tell what you feel.
I was mean ever since.But you sound like your a nice person so i'd suggest you be honest and tell them what you feel.
I'm sorry it's long
Good Luck!
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hi im 15/f and he is almost 17/m we have been really good friends for over a year now. we talk about everything who we have liked our bf/gf everything. i have kinda liked him before but i dont think right now is a good time for us to be together since he is like family. recently he has been acting different around me things like rubbing my hand in church or just holding my hand during a play he only does it when i cant really say anything without disrupting everyone which he knows i wont do. after he held my hand he didnt come to church for a while so i didnt see him now he only comes sometimes and when he does he doesnt really make an effort to talk to me anymore. i think we would make a great couple in a few years but right now i just want us to go back to being really close friends. how should i approach him? and how should i act to make him understand i think we should just be friends?
OK so If you have problems at all about your friends or school or other things tell him about it ask him for advice and tell him you really need him and act or really feel down and he will know you need his support right now. Then he will comfort you and give you a really good advice and then you hug him and say these words " Thank you so much (his name) your such a great friend. If he thinks you like him after that you can pretend or actually think you like someone and ask him for advice. He'll know you like someone else and that your taken, but its really going to hurt his feelings :( or if any of them don't work just talk to him about it. If he's really your best guy friend he'll wait for you. I really hope I helped. Good Luck!
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My ex of 3 months wont talk to me what can i do to get him back..can a short term relationship revive?
You didn't say why you guys broke up and if there is a chance for you guys. I'd say if you want him back know if he even has a little feelings for you and then try flirting with him talk about things have fun. Play with him. It might be really hard if he doesn't have feelings for you. Then he will try to hurt you so you stop flirting with him. HE will ignore you and pretty much do everything he can to get you off his back.
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Ok I have been dating this guy for 5 months and we have only hugged once. At recess. He says his friends are talking him into hugging me again but he thinks I don't care or don't want too.. How do I tell him that I do? Oh by the way I'm a girl:)
Thanks!:)
If you want to show your bf that your ok with hugging him hug him first make it a surprise. If there are two people one of them has to make a move ,right. Don't think that its going to be awkward and stuff. If you hug him first it not a big deal, nothing to be embarrassed about. When you ask a guy out now that's a big deal, because guy have to do it not girls. It shows that your desperate. No don't do that. If you hug him or kiss him first its not a big deal.
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after Christmas break we got this new kid. hes so funny! but i can never talk to him because he's friends with popular people and this other friend group. my friend group doesn't have any guys, or at least cute guys. in all these people i know they have fun and go ice skating with a bunch of girls and cute guy friends. with me its not like that. what can i start a conversation about and make it not be awkward?
You can start a conversation by just asking him random questions.Like what was the homework or what time is it. You have to make him notice you. Be loud and raise your hand more in class. I like this guy and lets just say we hate each other and that we insult each other a lot that's how i know he notices me. I actually find him staring at me. So just try to make him notice you. You can actually google and search how you can be more noticeable
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last night i was looking at my boyfriend Facebook and some girl posted a status saying "I hate sleeping alone, I need a boyfriend with money" he clicked on like and told her "I have money, a living room and a kitchen" she just said "hehehe" but every time she wrote something he would like her comment! There is another girl that i don't want him talking to because she has feelings for him and he knows this. Well last night she wrote a status saying"I didn't went to school!~My clock" He licked her status. Why would he do that.? I just don't understand him. I don't want to tell him anything because I already talked to him about it, but look now. Im so confused. What do you suggest me to do? or if you were in this situation what would you do? :'(
I were in your situation here is what i would do.
Go to his house and in his Facebook account. Make sure he caches you on his account on Facebook. Look really upset and when he asks "what are you doing" say "what is this. are you flirting with other girls!" and if he say "what are you doing on my account" say "I notice you were flirting with someone else and i was hoping i was wrong but- show him what he wrote- this proves i wasn't." cry while saying it. say "explain this" yelling. Then if he says nothing just run away and leave. If he has a heart he will go after you and apologize.
good luck i really hope i helped.
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im in year 9 and ive known this girl for about 5 years and i really like her but im to shy to talk to her how do i get the confidence to talk to her and could i have like a couple of tips on getting her to notice me
I am a girl and i am 13. If you want someone to notice you you have to be noticeable as in loud. Raise your hand a lot in class. ask her random questions. small talk. Be funny. I am telling you this will wark like a charm. If you don't talk or raise your hand in class or start mini talks you will be invisible. And try sitting closer to her.
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I need to dress up as a celeb
Either with their first name beginning with P
OR their sir name ending in R
Don't katy perry..it's already taken
I sorta have a audrey hepburn look, vintage look, so if you can think of a celeb similar your a life saver
Rihanna
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I have a 10 week old black lab/german sheperd mix puppy, she is very aggresive, everytime I try to play with her she bites me and even if I say ouch!! she doesnt stops! She just doesnt again, when I get up and ignore her, she jumps on me! I know she wants to play but she is just too agressive, She just doesnt know how to play, I have tried so many times to diciple her in a calm and asservite way and it just doesnt help!! What do I do??? Thanks a lot
I heard this in my science class. My teacher said that before you buy a dog to make sure to ask the owner if you could see the dogs parents and know where they came from if they were breaded from the same family than your dog must have mutated. Google mutation and you'll know what i mean because i can't really explain it.
Mutation- The changing of the structure of a gene, resulting in a variant form that may be transmitted to subsequent generations, caused by the alteration of single base units in DNA, or the deletion, insertion, or rearrangement of larger sections of genes or chromosomes
Mutating-Change or cause to change in form or nature
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19/f; my best friend is 18/f.
We are in our first year of college, and we both work partime. We are in all the same classes together, which is how we became 'best friends'.
Well, one thing that really bugs me is we never talk about me. Aren't friends suppose to talk about their problems with one another?
She ONLY texts me or calls me when it has something to do with her ex, or the new dude she likes.
When I do have something to tell her, its only talked about for a couple of minutes, and she flips it about herself. NO LIE.
For example, my grandmother is in the hospital, her intestents were twisted together; and I was really upset about it. So I texted and told her and she said, AND I QUOTE.."oh that sucks; so guess who called me today?" and I said who? and she said something about her ex. I swear. 99.9% of the time its all about her, and the 1% if that, is about me.
Another thing is, she cannot take jokes! She can make them, but she cannot take them. Another example, in psychology class she said I was a big drug addict in front of a cop (which isn't true,) so I laughed, and I said "Your such an alcoholic" and she gets so mad and doesn't talk to me for the rest of class. This isn't the first time this has happened. She'll make a joke and when I come back with a joke- she always gets mad. She claims because shes sensitive. I told her after class that I'm tired of her always getting so upset when she makes a joke and I aim one back. It isn't fair becuse I always have to bite my tongue, and I shouldnt because she's my 'best friend'.
And the last thing, WE NEVER HANG OUT, outside of school. When she has free time- she's with other people, and never me. She onlys hangs with me, when she wants to study? But the thing is, we hardly study. She only talks about herself, her ex, or the new guy she likes. Its so annoying, but if I'm honest with her, she gets upset, and that is annoying as well.
So I end up going home, wasting 2 hours of my day with her for nothing, and re-studying. I end up making WAY better test grades than her, and when we compare grades after a test, she gets PISSED. So mad that she almost cries, and she told me today "Don't even talk to me; you make me sick"
Like really? Ugh. Sorry its so long, but i don't know what to do. Is she a true friend?? Should I just stop being friends with her? Should I talk to her, so she can just get upset? What do I do?
I had a same situation. But not as bad. She gets annoying sometimes because she talks about one guy than the other. She takes me out of my sit at lunch(when its already hard to find a good sit)to talk about her bf and crush and stuff. or when i am monitoring. She wants to text when i am busy and stuff like that. But i don't hate her cause she listens to me too. She has more problems and adventure :D. I think you should tell her what you don't like her about her. Like what she does and wat annoys you. To be more fun. if that doesn't work try ignoring her. Don't answer her text messages and when you talk make up an excuse but don't do it everyday like once or twice and than longer. If you know what i mean. (sry if you can't understand.)I really hope this helps
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I am a 13 year old girl and i am outgoing and funny. me and this guy have a had an on and off :thing" all year and just started going out on valentines day. he put a flower in my locker then asked me out later that day and i said yes. the thing is though is that we dont talk. i mean a casual laugh or we talk in a group of people but not just one on one. he was my best guyu friend before we started going out and now he acts different around me. he talks to other girls like he used to talk to me. this is also both of our first real realationship. does he not like me anymore??? im confused!!! we used to talk all the time and when we started going out we dont. it has been 4 days now also. does he still like me?? how can i make it less awkward with us?? help!!!
go to the movies or the mcdonalds and just hang out get to know each other ask random questions. Let jim answer
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Hello,
I am a teacher in a low-budget school. Does anyone know of any creative type of art?
For example:
Trash Art
Nature Art
Collages with magazines
3-D Art
Clay
... Any other ideas? I have a really low budget.
Thank you.
let them draw the famous artist drawing Picasso or van goah. landscape, portrait. abstract art.
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Theres this guy i kinda like and I have his phone number. I've seen him staring at me a few times before and we have only talked like twice before. I want to text him but is he gona think I'm wierd for just texting him after all this time we haven't talked?
there are many ways a guy can react. If you don't want things to be awkward than you should try and get to know him better like tease him or make fun of him or just be friends. keep your friends close and you're enemies closer. If you text him and he doesn't know you than he would think like who are you how did you get my number or don't text me again and probably block you. He might think you're a stoker. The guy i liked i was really mean to him teased him hit him play around and then i got his number somehow and texted it wasn't weird at all trust me. There is another guy i like but with him we are really mean to each other and find each other staring at each other and guess what i actually like him.
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