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Awkward realationship :/
I am a 13 year old girl and i am outgoing and funny. me and this guy have a had an on and off :thing" all year and just started going out on valentines day. he put a flower in my locker then asked me out later that day and i said yes. the thing is though is that we dont talk. i mean a casual laugh or we talk in a group of people but not just one on one. he was my best guyu friend before we started going out and now he acts different around me. he talks to other girls like he used to talk to me. this is also both of our first real realationship. does he not like me anymore??? im confused!!! we used to talk all the time and when we started going out we dont. it has been 4 days now also. does he still like me?? how can i make it less awkward with us?? help!!!
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Hi I'm 12 and I probably can't give you the best advise but I have had a lot of realationships and me and my first real boyfriend dated for 2 months and all of a sudden he stoped talkin 2 me 4 a week and well I didn't know what was going on and thought he didn't like him but I asked him what was going on and he told me he was just going through a tough time and he didn't wanna annoy me with it maybe just ask him what's going on love hope everything works out
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go to the movies or the mcdonalds and just hang out get to know each other ask random questions. Let jim answer
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I would say being as how its his first relationship, he just feels a little awkward and is trying to figure out how to act. I dont agree with him ignoring you though, thats not cool, pull him aside next time you see him and ask him, why dont we talk anymore ever since we started going out? If you really like him, dont let that much time go by that you two dont talk, because then the "relationship" will seem pointless, not only to you but to him as well. Goodluck
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It is very likely that he is as unsure of how to proceed as you are. Ask him out for lunch or a walk or something you can do together. Talk to him like you normally did before. You're going to have to break the awkward tension because he might be cautious about upsetting you if he does something 'wrong' as your boyfriend now. Being in a relationship doesn't change who the person is. It just brings your relationship to a more intimate level. So talk to him like you normally do. And before you part ways give him a kiss on the cheek and/or a hug. Little signs of affection here and there. Do this and eventually you should both grow comfortable in your new relationship and things would hopefully just come naturally. Good luck to you both ~ :)
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