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how do i live with it? or should i just end my life?
the girl i "thought" i loved just shattered my heart in into pieces. since freshman year, she's told me she loved me, that she wanted to always be with me and she even told me she wanted to bare my children. and if a girl tells any gu that it just makes him love the girl more. she told me the other day, that she's lied to me since i met her. she said it was to protect me, but the thing is she didnt think it through. i was gonan find out sooner or later, and finidng it out later made it worse, and she's like my best friend. how should i get over this because i feel like death is the only solution. please help, i dont want to end my life, but i cant go on liveing without her. my name is branden gurley, age 16, and heartbroken....
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Hey don't feel like that. Everybody goes through this. Its just the way things are like people say "life is unfair" but hey what're you going to do about it. Don't think that no one else has the same problem. My mentor told me that "you love a girl, get your heartbroken and you move on". My friend actually did get her heartbroken too. She couldn't get over him at all! Its been like 6-7 month since they broke up! I keep telling her to move on but she can't and i understand that. I understand your situation and i'm sure everybody else does too. You know what just tell her that you think that she's not worth you and you can do better. You CAN do better trust me. I'm a girl and i can't stand when people do that.
I can help you get over her though.
1) Try to keep yourself busy.
If you have any after school sports and or activities, join them son't sit there doing nothing. It's not going to help you get over her trust me.
2) Avoid her. Don't talk to her, don't look at her , and stay away from her as far as possible.
This is the best way to forget them. It helps to get them off your head and it won't hurt you as much. Unless you keep thinking of them.
3) If she keeps asking you why you're not talking to her or why you're ignoring her just tell her you don't want to see her anymore.
She's not worth fighting for. Just tell her that you don't want to see her anymore because of how much she hurt you.
4)Try to move on to a new girl. Don't just stay put. Observe other girls and see what you like in them or just don't date at all its really your choice.
My friend didn't follow any advice i told her and now she is crying that the guy she likes hates her now. or at least that's what she said.
I really hope i helped
Good Luck!
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please don't feel like this I got out of a bad relationship and it feels like everything you knew was once lies and please dont feel that way whatever she told you she didnt mean to hurt you
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