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Asking me out as a joke?
Hey, this guy really liked me for a couple months and i didnt find out til a month ago. When i did all his friends starting flirting with me and wanting me for themselves. Then i got into a fight with this popular girl ( im one of them ) and shes trying to make them ask me out and dump me so that i come crying to her to say sorry. Now shes making the guy i like ( the guy that rly liked me) to ask me out as a joke and dump me after a while and I dont think he was okay with it but, shes gonna make him miserable if he doesnt do it. Another thing is that i think he might be ashamed to go out with me sinceshe hates me now and is trying to make my life a living hell. What do i do? and should I say yes when he asks me out and dump him b4 he dumps me? and I dont want to talk to him about this because hes just going to make something up so i got a couple of my friends to talk to him tomorrow maybe. What should I do?
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Something tells me your in middle school like me and yes middle school sucks. Let me tell you something i like this guy which i think is a good guy, he just acts like he is cool and insults people all the time. And he is trying as hard as he can to make my life a living hell too. Im starting to really hate him. and Im the number one person on his "people i hate" list. If i were you i would tell the brat to mined her own business and get lost. Its going to get to you somehow and you probably going to go mad so stand up to her and tell her to stick her noise in someone else's business and leave you alone and if the guy hates you and wants to make your life miserable, DON'T EXPECT HE IS GOING TO DO ANYTHING NICE FOR you AND WILL CONTINUE TO MAKE YOUR LIFE MISERABLE. You can do so much better than those losers don't even waste your time. Move on.
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I agree with Solid
People are in control of their own actions, If this kid chooses to go along with making a joke out asking someone out then not only is this girl immature but he isn't exactly up the chart either. He would proove he is easily influenced and maybe as much as you really like him he wouldn't be the best person to date. (least not right now) If he ask you out then try to make sure it is meaningful and not meant to be a joke. Perhaps play it safe by being friends with him for awhile. Once you both get to know one another then it gives you a better oppertunity to talk about it. Not only will he then get a chance to know you but he won't be so quick to judge you and the only one that lOoks bad in the end is the one that is out to make his life miserable. This girl may be 'popular' but popular girls dont need to make themselves out to be a catty bitch either. Obviously maybe this girl is a bit of a bully? Has some issues of her own so she makes others miserable? Sounds like I'm getting hot?! Anyway my friend try and play it safe that way you can't really go wrong and he can get to know you first. Maybe in the end he will end up resenting the other girl for making hom miserable.;-) (sorry for typos! It is really hard to type all this off a cellphone :-D)
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NOBODY can make anyone do ANYTHING they don't want to. She can suggest this nonsense to him but HE has to have the brains (hopefully) and make the decision against/for for himself.
Hopefully, this guy isn't a total idiot and can see the drama she wants to create a mile away and wants NOTHING of it. It would seem the fight is over jealousy and perhaps wanting something she can't get that you would have.
Here's what I would do. Talk to a teacher or better yet a guidance counselor. Tell them the girl is harassing you and over what exactly. Tell them that she's had endless amount of guys asking you out as a joke and threatens to embarrass you if you accept this particular person's request. Tell the guidance counselor you just want to be left alone period by her and her friends.
If they can have you talk it out or just get her to stop by threatening trouble she may think twice about her behavior. You NEED one way or the other to stand up to her and show her you can't be screwed with.
The best thing is to just ignore all the nonsense 'til they get bored which they will when they see you don't care what they do anymore.
If anyone asks you out tomorrow or in the future just tell them "I'm seeing someone right now" or "I'm not interested in you." or something to that effect. If this guy you like asks tell him "Let's be friends" Then you can see if a friendship happens as over time you would know if he's for real or not as he won't stick around otherwise. That's how you save yourself grief.
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