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Do u think im too young for sex? I WANT TO SOOOOOO BADDDDDDDD! uhhhh..hes 17, but he promises me i wouldnt get pregnant if we used a condom in he took it out before he cummed in me..is that true?
If you're asking about it, you're not ready.
If you don't know whether that could be true or not, you haven't researched enough for yourself, so to me that means you don't care as much as you should, and thus, you're not ready.
I also think you're too young.
ok i have writen before about me not wanting to be lesbians but i just cant help it. i like boys and everything its just that when i see a girl i look at her booty, her breast, her face, and i see how big her breast and nipples are compared to what i really like. i dont mean to but it is natural i guess. anyway how can i stop being lesbian and if i cant stop how do i find a girl that is my age in my area without everybody knowing? please help me!
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I 'check out' other girls too, but I'm comparing myself to them. Maybe that's what you are doing. Or you're bisexual.
Did you know that it's actually more common (in every species on the planet) to be bisexual than to be oriented in one direction (straight/gay)?
I wouldn't worry about it. You're probably also making it worse by over-thinking it.
im 13 and i got my period a week before my 12th birthday. my boobs didnt grow at all before that and they are supposed to grow dramatically and then still havent grown much at all im like a 32A and its been a year and 2 months since ive gotten my period..is somethign wrong or are my boobs just enver going to grow?
They don't stop growing until you're 21 (even later than that). Of course they'll grow.
But if you got your period once and then didn't get it again for a YEAR and 2 months, you either don't weigh enough or have something called 'amenorrhea'. I recommend making an appointment with an OB/GYN.
well lets see...i love my gf to death and thats how all guys should be. lately we broke up but we said we love eachother so we were still going out unoficially. I was doing everything i can for her i was like too selfless i guess. she told me to try not to luv her because she doesnt want to be hurt so i rip a part of my heart out for her and i do that. just asking how can i change and i guess this sounds weird but be a little more selfish because i cant. she has to be happy or im not thats the catch.
She's not happy now when you're being too selfless...so therefore you shouldn't be happy.
She's happy when you're being mor selfish...so therefore, be selfish, be happy. Spend more time on yourself. Work out. Something. Read alot. Not sure. Do time-consuming things that involve yourself.
Hi, my legs and thighs are very muscular from playing tennis. Is there any way I can slim them down and make them thin instead of so muscular?
Thanks so much
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Well, if they are thick and muscular and not very fat I wouldn't worry about it.
If you think they're too big, it's probably because you have some fat on them, too. I have that, but I like the way it makes my legs look.
In order to get slimmer on your thighs you either need to lose a.) fat, or b.) muscle. If you want 'slim' thighs, odds are you probably need to lose muscle, since you don't want them so muscular. I think guys like muscular legs. But your choice.
I recommend running (long distance) because if you look at endurance runners vs. sprinters, they are very stringy and lean.
i went to the doctors today and got wieghed at 184. my height is 5'7. im not fat i pretty skinny if you looked at me you would think i weighed around 140. i really want to lose weight because i dont want to weight this much. I have next week off and thinking about running 2 miles everyday unless its raining. maybe around 730am run. And do like 50 or so crunches. Would that help at anything. If not please give me some advice.
im 17 f
It's probably all muscle weight. Muscle is a good thing.
If you lose weight, it's HIGHLY probable it will be muscle, and you will lose the good, skinny figure you have now. I suggest not doing anything other than to improve your fitness, not for weight purposes.
If I was fit and looked good, I would be fine weighing 200, 725, or even 1,000 pounds!!!
As you can see, weight doesn't really matter. Doctor's scales tend to overweigh you in my opinion, anyway.
I'm so confused about my style...I like all different sorts of music, and I have so many different views. One day I'll be wearing Abercrombie, the next day Hot Topic type stuff...how do I find a style and STICK with it?
That is your style--not having one. One of the best styles.
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i just bought a fairly tight-fitting dress for prom. i like it, but it shows a few bulges i dont want it to. is there any kind of workout that can burn some fat off my butt and stomach? are there any special foods that i should eat/not eat that can help? is there anyway to make the butt and stomach fat less noticable? thanks so much. i rate high for good answers.
Big butts are good!
Avoid starch, because it gives a less defined look. In about two weeks with no starch, it will give you more definition. You also need to work out your butt/ab muscles.
Avoiding grain helps with the fat...grain digests very slow. White bread and potatoes turn into sugar when they come into contact with your saliva.
Try to eat two eggs a day...they have great Omega 3s!
Also try to get a daily dose of protein through fish or kale.
My brother is 12 years old. A couple years back, we would always get into fights and I would always yell at him back. He would just take it in, or cry. Lately, everytime we get into a fight..he get's VERY physical and will fight for whatever he says! He is very violent..(he will climb on you and jump and scratch the heck out of you)It's starting to scare me because I can't even yell over him anymore. He's only 12 and I think he needs anger management! My parents think it's my fault because I make him mad first..but the only reason I yell at him is to set him right. He is VERY out of control when he's mad and he cries ALOT. Please give advice.. i don't know how to take this anymore..(I would hit and scratch him back..but that would only make the problem worse and he would keep on persisting to claw me out)..I'm a 16\F by the way. Thanks..I rate
Next time, don't yell at him. If he does begin to get violent, hug him and hold him there and tell him not to be violent because it scares you and you love him. But he can't do what he's doing. (For example hitting a cat) or something.
He just needs some love.
Does anyone know a website that like gives you answers to your math homework...im failing math but its only cause i dont do my homework..and im too lazy..and dont say stop being lazy..lol
Stop being lazy.
I am very lazy, but I keep A's in all my classes, except for math which I have a B in (but I actually try).
Here's the truth-you need to WORK for your grade. Not all websites will have every answer customized to your book or anything.
That is a very low, cheap way to get your homework done.
I'm disappointed.
ok, whenever my best friend hangs out with someone else, i tend to get really angry at her, i mean i love her to death, but, i dunno, i just get mad. I know that your can have more than one friend and all, but since like a few years back, its only been me and her hanging out, very rarely has it been with other people. I love her to death and i dont want things like this to change us!! How do i make this stop? please help!!
You can't make it stop-she will make new friends.
You will make the friendship even more tense if you get mad at her for hanging out with someone else.
Just let her do other stuff, and she'll realize you're a very good friend to her if she's ever let down, and she can always come back to you. Keep in touch, but don't be overprotective or concerned about your friendship, or you will break it by weighing it down with stress.
ok so i like really like this guy but hes got a gf, ive liked him for almost a year now and i dont know if i should give up on him or not. me and him are pretty close friendship wise but it looks like him and his gf are gonna be together for a long time.
should i give up or should i just wait it out?
I waited on one guy for years. It was a waste of time.
Try looking at other guys, but keep him in the back of your mind.
is there an easy way to get guys attention w/o acting slutty? because its very hard when guys are teenagers and have sex on the mind at all times
Confidence is very attractive-try approaching him and holding a conversation with him without being an airhead.
Hey it's me again the 14/f that is pregnate..For those of you that don't remember or know me, I had a boyfriend in jail and the side relationship where I got pregnate and found out from a test. Pierre is his name..not mike..but anyway pierre wants this baby aborted..he said he's not going to lose his football career over me or the baby..i`m already 6 weeks and I love this baby more than anything now. Telling my boyfriend was hard.. even harder then telling my father! My boyfriend was really mad since he just got out of jail and everything and wanted to kill the crap out of pierre..well my boyfriend really loves me and you can tell..since he said he'll be the father since pierre won't....but what should i do..should i still consider abortion? because I really want this child...
I'm sure you're quite the idiot for being sexually active in the first place.
If I was your child I would NOT want to live with you. I wouldn't want to be raised by a total moron who had sex at such an early age in the first place.
Abortion isn't so bad, people. Babies aren't alive until born. It's called INSTINCT, that's why they suck their thumbs and breathe in the womb.
You're a moron. Best wishes to you and your child. Maybe you'll give it up for adoption.
Don't give me the 'how would it feel if you got aborted' crap. I wouldn't know. Innocent babies get reincarnated. Pro-choice will prevail in the end, so...it's your choice.
I'm about to buy a new straightener and I wanna make sure I get a good one this time.. I need some advice on what kind of straightener to get (cereamic, glass, gold, etc). I want one that will NOT ONLY straighten my hair really well, but also make it STAY straight all day. What do u all recommend? (something cheap, not over $30) Thanks!! i'll rate HIGH!!
Ceramic plates are the best, they smooth your hair and make it shine.
Make sure to use some sort of heat shield or you'll fry your hair into oblivion.
Make sure it's really CERAMIC and not 'painted' as the girl below me said. (It's easy to tell the difference)
NEVER STRAIGHTEN YOUR HAIR WHILE IT'S WET. It will fry it horribly.
Ok..our uniforms are the navy shirt w/ khaki pants or plaid squirts..i have brown hair(past my bra strap) and brown eyes and i have no acne and i have a natural tan..so what kind of eyeshadow should i wear to go to school?
Thnx in Advance!
Eyeshadow shouldn't match clothes, it should match your eyes. Try searching around on google. Brown eyes can go with any color, I'm not sure of it's compliment. Lots of eyeliner and mascara is a no-no, it looks like shit, so go easy on it.
Okay, does anyone know if when you just wear studs when you get your ears peirced, will the holes still sag? or is there any kind of dangly earrings that don't pull on your ears? I'm clueless and not sure if I want my ears peirced or not :/(sorry if I spelt peirced wrong...) I rate high ^_^
You have to wear studs until they are healed (8 weeks, I think) and I know what you mean by the earholes 'sagging'. Just don't get really heavy earrings. Getting your ears pierced isn't all that great, I had mine done and re-done, and I hardly ever wear earrings. I'm allergic to nickel anyways, as it makes my ears infected although they are completely healed.
i am 15 and a girl.i have recently changed schools and fell into a group of friends that are very different. i have met several people who are great friends and great people, but they are lezbians. since people have seen me with them, they assume i am a lezbian to and call me names. they also walk up and say things like "i heard you were a lezbian", people whom i have never met. i dont want them to continue because it is annoying and other people who hear think i am now too, but i do not want to lose my friends that are because i dont want to be called that anymore, what should i do??
Tell them the truth.
You aren't a lesbian, you just happen to be open-minded and friends with lesbians. Lesbians are people, too, just as gays are, for some reason that doesn't register with some people.
(15/f)
There is this guy that I have known since th beginning of the year and we have a class together. This weekend we were on a school trip thing. On the way home, this guy told me that he liked me. I had already figured that out beacuse he was sitting there stroking my hand and holding it. But the thing is, I DON'T like him. I am in love with some one else. And this guy knows it, but he keeps going on holding my hand. What should I tell him? How should I tell him that I'm not interested in him like that? Thanks in advance.
Signed,
Unsure and Torn
Don't let it go any further or you'll break his heart. Tell him you have feelings for another, although you do care for him, you don't want to be with him.