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I'm really worried about him!
My friend likes to have sex with his dog! It's so sick! I don't even know what this kind of problem is termed. I have to help him immediately since I know he's not right. What can I do for him? I'm really sorry if this steps on someone's toes, but I just thought someone on this site might be able to help me. Thanks!
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Maybe hes bluffing...If he isnt take him to medical help for his own good...hopefully, the dog isnt female.... there are enough werewolves in movies :P
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this is fucking sick,why the fuck are you a friend with a bastard like that? report him
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I shouldn't even answer this one, but I have too. Sex fetishes are a personal thing and passing judgement is also a personal thing. Every state has laws on the books that were in truth focused on Homosexuality. Yet, that did not stop homosexuals from coming out of the closet. Bestiality has been around throughout time. Sheep, cows, horses and others and this is not just men, women as well, there are sites out there that feature this. You know there are those that find anal intercourse just as offencive all of you have here and would put gay men in jail for practicing it. Oral sex is often treated in this same manner and has had it's time as illegal.
You can judge your "Friend" as dirty and evil, sure, it's a good reason to drop him as a friend, but I'm sure you will turn him in, because you don't want advice here, you want validation. You want people to tell you to turn him in, so you don't have to take the responsibility for turning him in. I'm going to tell you the opposite of what everyone else is. You turn him in and you are the worst kind of friend, you can not be trusted as a friend and should not have them. Be smart, get out of this relationship, have the balls to tell this friend that you can not be his friend, for you can not except this fetish. Do you really think the law can change a man's, (or woman's) sexual fetish? It has never worked, you will only ruin his life, over what may just be a passing phase.
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The others have said it all. what he is doing is a crime and he needs to be reported to the police. He is also abusing the dog which is also a crime. The others have told you this.
You may think you will be hurting him by reporting him. That is not the way to look at this. By not reporting him you are allowing him to continue to commit these acts which are wrong and not getting the help he needs to stop doing this.
Not everyone that gets arrested is sent to jail for their crimes. A crime such as this one will probably result in a plea bargain where if your boyfriend goes to court ordered psychiatric treatment; any sentence will be suspended provided he attends all doctors appointment. HE may even get Probation before Judgment if he has a good lawyer and this will never appear on his record or will he have to show this as a conviction on any job application. As a PBJ is not a conviction.
More importantly is I would advice you not to have sex with him, protected or unprotected while he is doing what he is doing. If you have had sex with him you need to see your GYN for a check up and a STD panel.
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You report it to the police.
It's a crime. It's not safe, and it's abusing the dog.
Some people are born with, or develop, totally inappropriate sexual urges that can be difficult to control - but that doesn't make it any less of a crime.
It needs to be reported to the police, so your friend can get some help and some guidance on NOT doing this anymore.
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I want to address what GilbertMar said, because I think he offered an important general comment about being respectful and non-judgmental when it comes to fetishes and other sexual interests and acts – but that his comments don’t apply to the act of bestiality. Bestiality is not like homosexuality or anal sex, which can be practiced by freely choosing and consenting adults.
I strongly agree that fetishes and sexual interests which are enjoyed by adults alone, or among consenting adult partners shouldn't be judged or criminalized (despite the fact that some states do still have laws on the books that outlaw consenting, safe sexual acts between adults.)
However, some people have sexual interests that can NEVER be acted on in moral or responsible ways.
Bestiality is one of those sexual interests. It is immoral, illegal and abusive for two very important reasons:
Animals cannot consent the way most adult humans can. Animals are the equivalent of children when it comes to sex acts. An animal might show interest in sex, just the way a child might say “Yes” if you ask them to have sex, but both are incapable of knowing what they are consenting too. Children and animals cannot understand or relate to the sex in the way an adult human does. They are not reasonable and they do not comprehend what the sex act means to the adult. Since they are not capable of consent; having sex with them is immoral and abusive.
Perhaps more importantly, we as adult humans, own animals and those animals are dependent on us for nearly all their physical needs and safety. They have no choices about their bodies. We claim complete power over them. To have sexual contact with an animal is fundamentally coercive and abusive, just like it would be if a doctor or teacher approached a patient or student for sex. We understand as humans that when one person has that degree of power, trust and influence over another life, sex acts are inherently coercive and an abuse of that power.
Sex with an animal is not like fetishes or sexual interests which can be acted on by adults who are freely choosing what to do with their bodies and are harming no one. Acting on the desire to have sex with animal disrespects the animal, abuses the human’s relationship with the animals, and can harm the animal physically.
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This is really a crime. You need to tell your friend to stop, or have someone take the dog away. This is not right and illegal. Or please, take the dog yourself, it shouldn't have to be treated that way.
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You report it to police as soon as possible
This is a crime and it is referred to as beastuality.
This is wrong, disgusting and cruelty to an animal.
You know information you need to report it. With holding illegal information is protecting a criminal and you could be charge for not reporting him.
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