Member Since: March 17, 2013
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Last Update: March 26, 2013
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13, female. Ok, I don`t know if anyone would be able to help with this, but it`s worth a try. I don`t want sympathy, but my uncle died a few years ago. I loved him, as anyone would. He was a wonderful person, and I miss him, I`m just not sad about it. Or even that upset. Honestly, I don`t feel much emotion anymore. (link)
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It's fine. Emotions will come out gradually...its just the brain's way of working things out. It's kinda in shock due to the event and is slightly...just trying to wrork things outs and understand what happened before reacting into emotions such depression, guilt, apathy etc. Also, remember don't fight things. It always makes it worse. Accept whatever comes. However, if you feel this way for about 2 months I think it would be good to get help.
Also, I HATE IT when people keep saying "I'm sorry for your loss" or "i'm sorry". It actually makes me doubt my feelings and think if i should feel sorry and grieve all my life instead of getting over things and events. So, I know what you mean when you say you don't want sympathy.
Hope I helped :)
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i am currently studing for A levels (english equivalent of senior year finals i think) and everyone else that i know has FB but i dont however i find that i miss out on social interventions because i am not on FB what should i do? (link)
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Well, the drawback is, u cant focus on things u need to. Also, its easy to get adicted. Try getting an FB acc during summer vaccation. Honestly, its not really anything great. After some time, you just log on, stare t the page and log off.
So, anyway, by starting an acc during summer, you could prevent getting distracted/addicted at the wrong time.
Also, once on FB, avoid using your phone for updates etc. Its really distracting.
Just read through the feeds or chat or wtv on FB through the computer/laptop/ipad.
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I want to shave my legs but last time I asked my mom she said no (two years ago). I really want to hav shaved legs in the spring but I'm scared my mom will say no. Plzzz help!!!! (link)
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It might hurt the first time, but the pain reduces after some time. Talk to ur mom again. I was allowed to wax only when I was 12.
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I am 17 years old and going on a 2 week summer holiday. I have pale skin that more often than not, in the sun, burns. I would like some help in finding different ways to encourage my skin to tan. Eg, foods, oils? (link)
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It's fine being pale :)
Just be healthy abd use sun screen. SUn screen not to stay pale, but to protect your skin, which is more important. Some skins dont tan and thts all right.
A healthy person with plae skin can look beautiful :) Just make sure you dont damage it. its just sensitive :)
Also, i disagree with the idea of cosmetic tan. God knows what that does to your skin!!
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My friend and I were talking, we're both 15 and she has had sex with her boyfriend (according to her), more than 100 times. She told me today how her breasts have gotten bigger, her hips have gotten wider, her butt has gotten bigger, her hair has grown, etc, and it's all because of sex. I started to think about it and then got upset because she has an amazing body, and compared to me when I'm only 99 pounds, it's embarrassing. I'm not ridiculously skinny, according to my boyfriend I have a nice body. But I'm a size 0 in jeans, a 32A, and I've been looking like this for awhile. I've only been on my period for about almost 2 years, same as her. Just this past summer my friend was exactly like me, chest and butt/pant size but now she has developed so much more after only 4 or 5 months. What should I do? I want a nicer body, bigger boobs longer hair bigger hips/thighs. Should I have sex? I'm still a virgin and have been with my boyfriend for 13 months. (link)
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Eh. Stay a virgin n enjoy it it :). Maybe her breasts are just growing 'cause of the excess harmone production in stuff but dont worry :) Your hair can grow without sex, btw.
dont worry! just stay happy, eat right and laugh all u can. Beauty will just radiate then. Being skinny is okay, you know :) when you grow a bit, ull get plumper if you eat well and stay happy :Also, if you eat right and have good habits, you just wont have a better body, but be stronger, smarter and even look healthier.
Also, maintain hygiene. Wash your face at least twice a day and wash you hair once or twice week.
You'll grow to be knock out!
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My crush just got on Facebook but Im scared to talk to him. What should I do??? I need an answer before he gets off. Hurry!!! (link)
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Just send him a req, first. If u wanna chat, start with reall casual stuff and say ur bored :D
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Do you guys believe in those pictures or comments that say something like "Repost in 4 minutes or else"? I'm scared of those things... (link)
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Nope. Just bullshit, dont worry :) 'sides reposting wont help anyone unless its a message tht will help others. and stuff like thts free will. :) No nothing happens.
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My friend likes to have sex with his dog! It's so sick! I don't even know what this kind of problem is termed. I have to help him immediately since I know he's not right. What can I do for him? I'm really sorry if this steps on someone's toes, but I just thought someone on this site might be able to help me. Thanks! (link)
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Maybe hes bluffing...If he isnt take him to medical help for his own good...hopefully, the dog isnt female.... there are enough werewolves in movies :P
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Ok so 13 f and dont get me wrong here because people my age where i live are super mature and have good relationships even at this age so do not judge. Ive liked this guy named sam (12m) since the beginning on summer. He and i have had our ups and downs and in august we just stopped talking for no reason. Then in october he asked me to hang out with him and another of his friends and i brought one of my friends. We acted as a couple and hugged and held hands ect. The next day we also hung out again at his house while his parents were working and watched a movie and he put his arm around me. After that weekend of october 5, we stopped talking again for no reason. On december 24th, i got a bunch of questions about him on my qooh.me wall. Then about 2 min after i answered the last one, sam messaged me on facebook. I asked him a question and said " we havent talked since october. Why all of a sudden have u decided to msg me?" he answered and said that he had no reason to stop talking to me. Then after about a week of flirting through text but not talking in person, we stopped talking yet again. Then at the end of january, i founs out that he had a girlfriend. I have notjing against her bc shes suh a nice girl and shes so lucky to be with him but i was kinda hurt. All of our flirting and all oof the thought about him and i was gone and i felt nothing for him anymore. I started cutting because my life had gone downhill in february. I cut and cut and cut. Only 2 of my best friends knew i cut and tried to stop me but i was in a bad stage of depresion. I got over my depression in march and yesterday sam put a status on fb for tbhs. I liked it to see what he would say. He told me that weve been through so much and he misses talking to me and that he really did want to ask me out at one point because he used to love me as a friend and like like me too. He said that he wants us to talk more because he has missed the part of his life he had thrown away. After readig that tbh, i felt numb. I didnt know wbat to say because it brought me to tears. Im starting to care alot for him now and i really like him and i have all along. It hurts me to know that hes dating a great girl but i still really like him and i never stopped liking him. He left for myrtle beach yesterday and ive been trying to txt him but i cant bring myself to doing so. Please help me! All i want is input on all of this and some advice on what to say. Should i do a tbh status and hope that he likes it? (link)
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Chatspeak detected. Type in english please.
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screw him>. i went through the exact same thing. its not like you dont want to just let him be and laeve him alone and walk away, but just thinking that gets you scared. you think : "but what about all the time we had together." ; "what if i'll always love him" ; "it couldn't have all been a lie"
then you start telling yourself it was all i lie and start getting pissed at him. just when you think you hate him enough and dont feel the pain, he come back around. and that after feeling numb, obsessing, crying, feeling your heart break, staring, some desperation and try to talk to him.
well, dont be scared. youre frnds are there :) if you needed a guy like him, maybe some years later you guys might meet again n things will be better. but for now, just ignore him. and guys like him? he'll get a blow to his ego. then, you think about it, yourself : is it all worth it?
honestly, im 15. i've been going through the exact same thing for 2 yrs! hell, i even went out with aguy just get over him just last year! but all i got was a bad ex.
he's not worth it. it took me 2yrs to realize that. it drives you insane! but once he's out of your life, things will get better. sure, just once in a while you might miss him. so, when i say ignore, i mean start with just being aquantices. sure, that sucks, right? just how you started. and how can you forget a person you know so damn well!
well, you wont forget him. you'll know him. but in sometime, you'll learn from him. and after some time, you will be over him.
maybe it sounds too...impossible... but i know just how it is. i have kickass 2yr experience on this. please, unlike me, dont waste 2 yyrs of your life when you lfe ahead of you :) maybe yrs from now, you might meet agn, n things will be better, but fr now he's jst a jackass that you need to leave.
its not going to be very easy. but nor was knowing him so well. maybe knowing him just came to you, but it wasnt easy. things got mixed up at times. you know favourite colour, but you also know just how he'll react in situation...or how he feels in situation. he mightve even told you tht you know him better thn he knows himself.
i'm just saying theres nothing you can do. if he's come back again, dont treat him like he's your life. beleive me. its you who needs to be saved. and its only you who can save you. he's fine. and even if he isnt, its all his fault. ya, you promised urself, youll help him no matter what...but you cant help him. he's...just...way below your standards. i know thats hard to belive, but its true. if you really love him and he really loves you, let it be later...not now :)
everything's gonna be okay. i promise. just be polite to him, thts it. dont get too close. even when you keep a distance, he'll walk away again...and trust me, it wasnt your fault. he was there when you needed him. god wanted you to be okay. right now, you just need to learn that true can wait...all your life...which is why help was provided to you in this way :) your special. god took care of when you needed caring and gave a lesson when you needed one. just be grateful that he's paying attention to you out of those billions out there :) you dont need a guy. you need yourself. i know you feel you arent pretty enough or smart enough...especially compared to tht gf...and the worst is she used to hate you, but randomly shes nice to you now. so you cant say shes a bitch. correct me if im wrong there.
but i do think, you have to leave him...and lean on frnds if you need to for a while. things will be okay :)
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today when i got home from school she told me she had to talk to me. My mother had found my tumblr. Yes, there were plenty of things i shouldn't have blogged about. I know they were wrong, bad words, drugs, anything a mother would be disappointed about was on that tumblr. She was extremely disappointed. She started crying and i started crying. Now she thinks that's the type of person i am, but i honestly am not. I just blogged those things to look cool or because other people thought it was funny. I know, very very immature. I am so stupid. while she was telling me this there was nothing i could do besides cry and tell her i am so sorry. now she won't talk to me only when she needs to. She can barely look at me. I really am a good kid. I deleted the entire blog. I am done with tumblr forever. I just want me and my mom's relationship to go back to the way that it was. Nothing good has happened between us the past couple days,I can't take this anymore. It's tearing me apart. I need help? (link)
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tell her that. Every mother knows how it is to be teen... tell her you are sorry. Tell her, you just wanted to fit in but din't mean anything you posted. It's your mother! She knows you! If you arent that kinda person, you...just aren't and should know that too. As a matter of fact she does! Just clear the confusion in head about who you are and why you did it and give it some time! things will get better. No storm just ceases from existance. But after a time, it fades away. Hope I helped. Next time, try be just who you are. No more stunts to fit in, kay? :)
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My green eyes are my best feature, but how do I enhance them? Either advice or links please as I can't find anything on the internet! (link)
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Hey! Green eyes, huh? I LOVE green eyes! I wish I had them, though :P :D
Uh...you could try some kajal/eyeliner/mascara. Blue, purple, black, gold...anything you like.
If you dont like it that way, them some natural ways are
1. stay happy
2. eat good and healthy food
3. maintain good hygienne. Wash ur face several times a day and wash your eyes several times a day too :)
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