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I don`t care anymore.
13, female. Ok, I don`t know if anyone would be able to help with this, but it`s worth a try. I don`t want sympathy, but my uncle died a few years ago. I loved him, as anyone would. He was a wonderful person, and I miss him, I`m just not sad about it. Or even that upset. Honestly, I don`t feel much emotion anymore.
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Honestly, that is normal. I've had relatives die and I do miss them but I've never been too emotional over it. People grieve differently. Not everybody sobs their eyes out. You're just not an emotional person.
I mean maybe, there could be a reason deep down why you're not feeling too much emotion but maybe it's who you are.
If you really do find it a problem for your life then I'd go talk to a doctor or something and see what they think. But if it's not affecting your life, then I think it's fine.
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It's fine. Emotions will come out gradually...its just the brain's way of working things out. It's kinda in shock due to the event and is slightly...just trying to wrork things outs and understand what happened before reacting into emotions such depression, guilt, apathy etc. Also, remember don't fight things. It always makes it worse. Accept whatever comes. However, if you feel this way for about 2 months I think it would be good to get help.
Also, I HATE IT when people keep saying "I'm sorry for your loss" or "i'm sorry". It actually makes me doubt my feelings and think if i should feel sorry and grieve all my life instead of getting over things and events. So, I know what you mean when you say you don't want sympathy.
Hope I helped :)
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