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Does sex make your body more appealing?
My friend and I were talking, we're both 15 and she has had sex with her boyfriend (according to her), more than 100 times. She told me today how her breasts have gotten bigger, her hips have gotten wider, her butt has gotten bigger, her hair has grown, etc, and it's all because of sex. I started to think about it and then got upset because she has an amazing body, and compared to me when I'm only 99 pounds, it's embarrassing. I'm not ridiculously skinny, according to my boyfriend I have a nice body. But I'm a size 0 in jeans, a 32A, and I've been looking like this for awhile. I've only been on my period for about almost 2 years, same as her. Just this past summer my friend was exactly like me, chest and butt/pant size but now she has developed so much more after only 4 or 5 months. What should I do? I want a nicer body, bigger boobs longer hair bigger hips/thighs. Should I have sex? I'm still a virgin and have been with my boyfriend for 13 months.
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I think that when your friend has sex, it isn't directly linked to her body shape changing. I think it does improve her confidence, and confidence is something she'll want to keep. Unless she's ever been pregnant before (this could explain it) perhaps she's done whats normal for teen girls to do-build up more muscle and put on a bit of weight, making the transition from a child to a woman?
I'm like you-only 17 not 15 in terms of body shape and things. If you're really self consciouss about your body, then let me say this. I was the thinnest girl when I was 15, and even I managed to put on some weight naturally. I have a feeling this will happen to you. Of course there are some exercises you can do to help build up muscles, but see a diet speacialist beofore starting an exercise plan. Eat well, and don't get hung up on your body shape too much. Concerntrate on a career and life goals, and attractiveness will come in turn. As well, you're boyfriend likes you for who you are now, because he chose you will your size 0 waist etc. So if you've already impressed you're boyfriend enough for him to go out with you in the first place-you don't need to change to become more appealing!
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Eh. Stay a virgin n enjoy it it :). Maybe her breasts are just growing 'cause of the excess harmone production in stuff but dont worry :) Your hair can grow without sex, btw.
dont worry! just stay happy, eat right and laugh all u can. Beauty will just radiate then. Being skinny is okay, you know :) when you grow a bit, ull get plumper if you eat well and stay happy :Also, if you eat right and have good habits, you just wont have a better body, but be stronger, smarter and even look healthier.
Also, maintain hygiene. Wash your face at least twice a day and wash you hair once or twice week.
You'll grow to be knock out!
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