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my cousin and my brother have tried to have sex with me! what do i do? im really worked up about this.
Please,no abuse please this is really serious.
When I was about 10, my cousin james was very "horny" if you like, and he'd always try to get me to have ''sex'' with him. I didn't want to at all, but I was too scared not too. He didn't really have sex with me, he just touched me in the wrong places.
Then, when I was 12. My brother and I were really close, so we'd sometimes sleep on the same sofa and stuff (no sexual activity at first) but then one night, I fell asleep with my mouth open and he started ''kissing'' me. I just let him. I got him off me and ran upstairs. Then, I was sitting with trousers on and my legs slightly apart and he started ''feeling me up''. I also just let him, and ran upstairs after again. Now he always tries to put his hands up my top or down my trousers and I'm too scared to tell anybody.
I think I'm a bad person, seriously I need help, what do I do?
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You have done absolutly nothing wrong! My brother in law molested me and I'm 11 btw we learnt about this stuff in LO and I told my teacher because I felt so upset about it!she helped me and gave me advise on how to tell my mom I did tell my mom and she has to have a meeting with my teacher and principal. you should watch trust its very much like your situation but she just meets him on facebook.he rapes her and she allows it but doesn't want to. Hope I helped
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How old are you now?This is very serious,you need to go to the police,this is a terrible thing that's happening to you,talk to your parents,how old are your bro and cousin?It's all up to you,things are gonna get even worse,because you are not doing anything..
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You are not a bad person. I was raped once before and the second time it happen I just let him because I was afraid to say no. You need to talk to someone about this. You should go to a counsler, police, your parents any adult so they can help you. If you dont adress the situation it will continue.
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You are not the bad person in the situations you have described. You are the victim. Your cousin and brother should not be doing this to you. It is not just incestuous it is also sexual assault.
Victims of sexual assault are in general reluctant to come forward as they feel they did something to cause the assault to happen. This is wrong. You did nothing wrong and you need to tell your parents before you are hurt more than you have been.
I understand this will be hard for you. There is an organization that can help you with this. Their name is RAINN, which stands for; Rape Abuse, Incest, National Network. They operate a 24 hour hotline you can call and speak to a volunteer who can help you. They can even find people in your hometown you can go to for help who will help you tell you parents. Their number is 1-800-656-HOPE.
You need to stop this before it goes any farther. These people can help you with that. So please call RAINN and ask for their help.
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one of the most common things about sexual assault victims is not wanting to tell not just because you're scared but because you feel like it's your fault like your disgusting because you deserved it. You need to tell someone that isn't right and if you don't it could get way worse and even progress to violence. Tell someone.
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I'm really sorry that you have to go through this. You are not a bad person! Your brother and cousin are the ones that are doing something wrong. You need to tell a trusted adult about this. It is not right for them to treat you like this. Don't let them scare you into silence.
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