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what should i do?
so i have been friends with this girl for 5 years now. she thinks she's really superior because she became a born again christian. She some how thinks she can judge me. She likes to be the boss also. Like for example when we were going out dancing one night she was telling me what dress to wear. And then she wanted me to visit her in college station and she wants me to come stay with her for 4 nights and my mom said no, but my friend kept pushing it because she wants her way so my mom finally said yes, but i couldn't drive there so my friend got me and then we drove to college station from Katy. I really wanted to take my own car because i knew she would start taking me wherever she wants to go. I mean she did, like when we were in college station i broke my phone and she wouldn't take me home to get my phone so i could take it at&t to see if they could fix it. She kept saying oh they can't because you dropped it in the pool, even though the guys said to bring it in. I ask her to borrow her face wash and she said she didn't have any, but when her friend needed to borrow it she told her where it was. I mean she doesn't do anything for me. It's always about her. Then we were at the pool i had one beer and i am only 20, but i turn 21 in January, so i didn't think it was a big deal. I mean i know i am not suppose to drink, but we were hanging out with some people, and they kept asking me and i said yes. well anyways my friend was making a big deal out of it, and starts telling me oh you shouldn't do that stuff blah blah and i didn't think it was such a big deal because i don't drink that often. She starts saying oh i don't think we should hangout if you keep doing that stuff. And goes on and on and my feelings got hurt. Then she tells her brother which i don't think it's any of his business or even hers. Not only that she left me at the pool to go find her friend and then when she came back they went to go workout. When we went to the mall she left me at so many stores and would just walk out, and since my phone was broken i had no way of reaching her except when i called her from this store and asked where she was. well anyways she was in town but went back to college station and now she's all like oh i miss you over text, and is calling me all the time and talking to me on Facebook, like nothing happened. So i don't know what to do. She's really mean and even before we went to the pool she was like oh you need to put on your shirt because you have hair on your stomach and just stuff like that makes me mad. I mean i know i have hair on my stomach but of course she feels the need to point it out. And another thing I've noticed whenever we hangout we never do anything at all except for argue because she wants everything her way. she's such a brat. Even though sometimes when we're suppose to hangout i am about to go to her house and i call her and she tells me oh i am not at my house. Or if she's suppose to come over she says oh i am just going to stay in tonight. I mean she flakes on our plans. I mean i don't get why she makes plans with me if she won't follow through. Or if we do hangout why she thinks she can walk all over me. so what should i do?
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Listen,
If you forgot all of the people who have answered this before, please see the links below.
There is NO way we are going to go through this again, when you had already told me you were ending the relationship.
If you CHOOSE to hang out with her, then you are CHOOSING to be hurt by her. This is a CHOICE.
Here are links to the good advice you have been given when you asked about this person before:
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It made me very sad to see you are still keeping yourself in this situation.
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